Relationships eventually get hard, but they don't have to end in divorce or anger! Each Wednesday, join Heather Carter, as she shares her strategies, methodologies, insights, and tips into how to make a relationship thrive, how to cut through the power struggle, and how to find peace and happiness within yourself. Whether you want to save your relationship or leave it, and want some great advice on how to be true to yourself, so the relationship has a chance, or you have an opportunity to move on to a healthy relationship, this is the podcast for you! www.HeatherCatherineCarter.com
The Wounded Mind: We Are Masters Of The Unwanted
20:55The way we think, the way we feel, the way we act becomes so routine we no longer put our attention on what we are doing or what we want. We keep acting and reacting and behaving in a certain way that brings in more negativity, more angst in relationships, more of what we don't want, but we expect different results. And that is insanity. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. How do we stop?
How To Elevate Your Life
19:15You elevate your life by taking responsibility for who you are and what you are choosing to become. Most people are already suffering, and they continue to hold onto useless suffering by staying stuck in unhappy, toxic, dysfunctional relationships, careers they hate, with disrespectful, commandos, or uninvolved bosses, and in turn, they are always wishing and wanting but never having. Why not opt for some useful suffering to get where you want to go and then let go of the misery for good? Listen now to begin to elevate your life! For free resources and to get to my https://linktr.ee/heathercarter (blog, website, and more, click here. ) To get on the waiting list for my upcoming course Living Your Highest Potential, click here. Please put in the subject area, "waiting list."
The Reason Why Your Relationship Is Failing
23:35In every relationship there are two halves to the relationship; you and the other person. The only half you are responsible for is your half. The minute you try to be responsible for the other half is the precise moment the relationship begins to deteriorate. What causes this desire to be responsible for your partner's half? Tune in to find out. This episode has the ability to change the trajectory of your relationship starting today. To get access to my free resources, blog, and mini-course, Tackling Toxic Relationships: Guiding You To Self-Love, Self-Compassion, and Happiness, https://linktr.ee/heathercarter (click here now. )
20 Situations That Cause A Break Down In Marriage & Relationships
19:21Conflict in a relationship is normal. But when the conflict becomes personal and causes emotional turmoil, it can end the marriage or relationship. In this episode, I discuss the 20 conflicts I see the most in relationships. Do not miss this episode! To book your free call to see if I can help save your marriage or help you through the conflict, https://calendly.com/heather-carter3/45min (click here now. )
The Root Of Unhappiness In Relationships
27:04Longing is at the root of relationship problems. It spins off from four different mindsets: 1. Reality is not the way we want it. 2. We want somebody or something to change. 3. We believe we are responsible to bring about change in someone or something. 4. We want to protect or rescue someone. Longing is an obsession. You don't know what you can do if anything, but you desperately want to control another and help them change. To book your free https://calendly.com/heather-carter3/45min (45-minute clarity call you can click here!)
Part 5 Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
29:02To make a sound decision about whether to leave your relationship or stay, you need to go from tunnel vision to a broader spectrum. Today you will learn precisely how to see the big picture so you can leave relationship ambivalence behind and either seek help to stay or go. For more information about me, to read my blog, or to book a call visit my website: www.HeatherCatherineCarter.com Or you can book ahttps://calendly.com/heather-carter3/45min ( free consultation call by click here.) To follow me onhttps://www.instagram.com/heath_carterrr/ ( Instagram, click here. )
Wound Mates: 2 Victims Keeping Each Other Stuck
17:33Woundology validates your suffering but many take their suffering and victimhood to such a high level it keeps them stuck. Eventually, this person finds a "wound mate." Then it gets ugly. You are free to choose victimhood or healing. You are free to live an abundant life or one that is full of stress and anxiety. The choice is yours. To book ahttps://calendly.com/heather-carter3/45min ( free consultation click here. )
What's Your Bottom Line? An affair? Part 4 of 7
20:03If you're trying to decide what to do with an iffy relationship, you want to avoid two mistakes: You want to avoid leaving when you'd really be happiest staying. You want to avoid staying when you would be happiest leaving. The DIY course Tackling Toxic Relationships: Rebuild YOU! has been released. I have a special discount for my podcast listeners; use POD25 to take 25% off the course. https://heathercarter.mykajabi.com/tackling-toxic-relationships (Click here to learn more and sign up. )You will get immediate and lifetime access to all modules and lessons! If you would like to schedule a FREE call and see if I can help you, https://calendly.com/heather-carter3/45min (click here to choose a time and day. ) Sending much love and peace. Heather
Event + Response = Outcome
19:48One of the most pervasive myths is that we are entitled to a great life. That somehow, somewhere, someone (not us) is responsible for filling our lives with continual happiness, exciting career opportunities, wonderful family time, and blissful personal relationships simply because we exist. The real truth is that there is only one person responsible for the quality of the life you live. That person is YOU! If you're ready to find massive success in your life and heal your relationship/marriage, https://calendly.com/heather-carter3/45min (click here to schedule your free clarity call!)
What if you can just let it go? Part 3 of 7: Should I stay or should I go?
16:04Your partner is not willing to change and this problem is making you miserable; what now? Do you want more valuable information from Heather? https://www.hcmindbodypositivity.com/ (Click here to read her blog!)