The Peter & Tekky Show

We made it to day 100 🥲For the past 100 days, I’ve sat down every single day and shared whatever was happening in my life and whatever was going through my head. Somehow it became one of the most honest versions of myself I’ve ever shared online.For the final daily vlog, I reflect on what this challenge taught me about consistency, my all-or-nothing mindset, relationships, learning to love yourself, and why having a clear goal made it so much easier for me to keep going.I definitely don’t have everything figured out — if anything, I might have more questions now than when I started.But for now, I think I’ve earned a little break. Thank you for spending these 100 days with me ❤️

Day 99 — somehow there’s only one vlog left.Today I’m sick, exhausted, and apparently using the vlog as therapy again 😂A small conversation with my mum sends me down a rabbit hole about why I feel guilty saying no to my parents, why certain family expectations trigger me so much, and how to set boundaries with someone you love when they don’t necessarily realise they’re crossing them.I also answer your comments about money, happiness, jealousy, religion, AI and why I still want to keep chasing bigger goals even while learning to appreciate the life I already have.Tomorrow: day 100.

Today our clothing brand samples finally arrive… and they are nowhere near what we expected 😭 Apparently designing clothes involves a lot more trial and error than I realised.I also talk about trying to understand why Peter sometimes dreads filming, why I think successful relationships require both people to keep looking for solutions, and a mindset shift I’ve been experimenting with lately.Instead of spending so much energy spiralling over the little things in life that frustrate me, I’m trying to ask: can I actually do something to change this?And increasingly, the answer seems to be… make more money 😂Only a few days left of the 100-day vlog challenge.

Today I’m thinking about something Peter and I definitely disagree on: working with your partner.I’m now working with Peter on our productivity app and Joel on a completely different project, and it’s made me realise how important it is to separate frustration with a problem from frustration with the person you love.I also talk about how I define friendship versus relationships, why living in different cultures has changed the way I see what’s “normal,” and how much easier relationships become when you actually understand why your partner needs what they need.Plus, Peter’s koala app is officially working on my phone now and my mind is genuinely blown.

I think I’m finally figuring out why I actually want to make more money.It’s less about having “stuff” and more about having freedom — our own space, travelling without worrying about every flight price, paying for convenience, and designing life around how we actually want to live.Peter is also making more progress on our koala productivity app, and somehow Chai leads me into a whole conversation about gender roles, open-mindedness, judging people too quickly, and why changing someone’s mind usually takes time and exposure.Apparently even the dog can start a philosophical discussion in this house.

Today I somehow end up spending 20 minutes trying to figure out where jealousy actually comes from.I break it down into fear, insecurity, envy and FOMO — including what I felt watching two of my boyfriends make out — and talk about the opposite feeling: compersion, or feeling happiness because someone you love is happy.I also share updates on our clothing brand, Peter’s productivity app, using AI to build things cheaply, and why I think creativity and human connection might become even more important as technology takes over more of our everyday tasks.

A lot of life and business updates today.Peter and I have decided to start working together again — this time by building a productivity app around a little koala that only makes progress when you actually focus and get your work done.I also talk about why my relationship with money is changing, our clothing brand shoot, learning to work around our different strengths, and whether discomfort is actually necessary for growth.Lots happening as we get closer to day 100.

Today I’m thinking about how much of what we believe is simply inherited from the way we were raised.From being taught as a kid not to stick chopsticks into rice, to seeing completely different behaviours become “normal” in another country, I’ve realised how easy it is to mistake our own perspective for objective truth.I also answer some comments about cultural differences, judging other people, what it really means for a country to be “developed,” and why talking to someone one-on-one can completely change a conversation.Plus, a little family time before everyone heads home.

Today somehow goes from trying to “beat” a buffet to me spiralling about what my life would look like if Peter died 😭Then I get into why school teaches us to follow rules, how our upbringing shapes the way we think about money, and something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately: maybe good relationships aren’t about compromising in the middle.Sometimes the better answer comes from understanding why both people feel the way they do — and finding a solution that actually meets both people’s needs.

Our Hanoi family trip is officially over and we’re heading back home to Ho Chi Minh City 🥲We reunite with Chai, somehow survive the scariest Grab ride I’ve ever had, debrief all the family arguments from the trip, and I start figuring out what I actually want to work on next.Back home and back to reality.