Moms 4 Trans Kids

Within the realm of trans parenthood, the journey is often met with significant societal and legal challenges. Join MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig as they delve into another empowering episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast featuring the distinguished Tiq Milan. Known for his profound speaking and writing on trans rights and advocacy, Tiq Milan shares personal and compelling narratives of being both a father and a trans individual, shedding light on the intricacies involved in parenting, community support, and personal resilience. The conversation expands to address broader themes like the ongoing legislative attacks on trans healthcare access and navigating relationships with non-affirming family members. Tiq underscores the necessity for trans people to nurture joy, find spirituality, and build community resilience. Tiq discusses the complexities of living authentically while navigating societal and systemic biases as a trans father. The episode throws light on the legal challenges faced by trans individuals, particularly in the family court systems. Despite adversities, Tiq emphasizes finding joy and strength through spirituality and community, essential for sustaining emotional and personal health. Importance of unconditional love and support from family, reinforcing the notion: "When you love someone, there is no 'but.'" Strategies and resources for trans individuals facing threats to healthcare access due to legislative changes. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

Advocacy for trans rights, particularly Black trans individuals, needs persistent visibility and dedication to make meaningful change. In this episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig engage in an illuminating discussion about recent events, challenges, and victories within the transgender community. Kicking off the show with reflections on the success of their inaugural "Parents Supporting Parents" conference in Atlanta, both hosts highlight the importance of visibility and solidarity in their advocacy work. They counter real-world adversities, including discrimination and violence against transgender people, by fostering support and understanding. Key Takeaways The importance of parental support and community advocacy in creating a safe and affirming environment for transgender individuals. Reflecting on the success of the "Parents Supporting Parents" conference and emphasizing the need for continued conversation and education. Highlighting the achievements of Sarah McBride amidst political challenges, underscoring the ongoing fight for transgender rights. Commemorating Transgender Day of Remembrance by raising awareness of the violence faced by the community and calling for collective action. Announcing future events aimed at supporting transgender individuals and their families, scheduled for cities like Los Angeles. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

Ensuring that aspiring transgender individuals have strong support networks is crucial in their path to success. In this episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig welcome the inspiring Amore Desire Sierra Cano, Miss TransGeorgia 2024. Amore shares her journey to becoming a beauty queen, emphasizing the importance of representation and authenticity in pageantry. Known for her dedicated advocacy for the transgender community, Amore discusses her work with Trans USA and the unique opportunities it provides for trans individuals in the world of beauty pageants. Her commitment to equity and excellence serves as a beacon for aspiring trans individuals seeking spaces that recognize their diverse experiences and identities. Key Takeaways: The Trans USA National Pageantry System focuses on advocacy rather than entertainment, providing a unique platform for trans individuals. Amore Desire Sierra Cano emphasizes the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance in achieving personal and professional goals. Support from family, friends, and chosen family plays a crucial role in the success of transgender individuals in competitive arenas. The integration of various communities such as Hispanic, plus-size, and LGBTQIA+ underlines the intersectionality present in Amore's advocacy work. Opportunities for mentorship and guidance are pivotal in nurturing the next generation of transgender leaders and advocates. Links and Resources: Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

Emphasizing love and support is crucial in nurturing authentic partnerships and fostering mental well-being. In this episode of Moms for Trans Kids, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu, Kim and Ellen, welcome Sam and Vanessa Castle to share their experiences as a couple navigating life and love as part of the transgender community. They dive into the importance of supporting and affirming trans individuals, exploring Sam's transition journey, and the unwavering support Vanessa has provided as his partner. Sam shares his profound transformation and the catalyst behind the Be You Do You movement first conceptualized in 2018, underscoring how crucial it is to embrace one's authentic self without seeking external validation. Vanessa, with her background in social work, reflects on the vital need for open communication and mental wellness checks, especially for parents working to support their transgender children through potentially tumultuous life stages and societal climates. Sam and Vanessa’s story is a beacon of hope for many, especially parents who are learning to navigate the complexities of gender identity and advocacy within their families. Key Takeaways: Transgender individuals can experience profound joy and fulfilling relationships when authentically living as themselves. Unwavering support from loved ones plays a critical role in the mental wellness and personal success of transgender people. Couples must prioritize open communication, honesty, and ongoing personal development to foster thriving relationships. Therapy and mental health support are vital for individuals navigating gender transition and their families. Exploring and understanding one's beliefs are necessary to support transgender individuals and explore societal norms. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

In this vibrant episode of Moms 4 Trans Kids Podcast, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig return to discuss their experiences and insights as mothers of transgender children. Joined by a supportive community of allies, they delve into crucial and topical discussions about affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ youth, the critical aspects of gender affirmation, and the importance of community support. As Dr. Lulu prepares for their upcoming "Parents Supporting Parents" event in Atlanta, they emphasize the necessity of advocacy and connection within the queer community. Throughout the episode, Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig share personal anecdotes, reflecting on their journey to becoming staunch advocates for their transgender children. They discuss the recent positive developments in LGBTQ+ rights globally, particularly focusing on Southeast Asia's milestones and policies favoring same-sex couples. The hosts also address the mental health challenges transgender youth face, urging parents to support their children's gender affirmation process while navigating their personal emotional journeys. Through real-time interactions with listeners like Adrian, who are seeking advice on managing pre-transition memories, the episode underscores the significance of support networks and accessible resources. The importance of having open conversations and listening to your transgender child's needs for creating a supportive home environment. New global advancements in LGBTQ+ rights, such as Thailand's legal recognition of same-sex marriages. Strategies for managing and processing emotions as parents of transgender children, emphasizing the necessity of self-reflection and community support. Recognition of gaps in medical knowledge surrounding transgender healthcare and the advocacy for informed, inclusive medical practices. Insight into upcoming community events like "Parents Supporting Parents" aimed at empowering and connecting parents of queer youth. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

In this engaging episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu, Kim and Ellen host Dr. Udim, a nonbinary healer and educator, to delve into the complexities of gender identity, self-care, and mental health. The discussion opens with the introduction of Dr. Udim, highlighting their Nigerian roots and their unique path in understanding and embracing their nonbinary identity. The episode also focuses on the importance of supporting gender-diverse kids and providing them with the affirmation they need. Throughout the episode, Dr. Udim shares personal experiences that reflect the ongoing struggle for self-acceptance in the face of cultural and societal pressures. Topics range from the historical presence of gender diversity in African cultures to the personal challenges of body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria. The conversation is enlightening and aims to normalize the experiences of nonbinary individuals, stressing the importance of creating supportive and inclusive environments. Dr. Lulu, Ellen, and Kimmy also weigh in, adding depth to the discussion with their personal insights and experiences. Key Takeaways: The journey of self-discovery and acceptance for nonbinary individuals can be deeply influenced by cultural heritage and societal norms. Historical context of gender diversity in African cultures highlights the long-standing presence of nonbinary identities. Understanding the differences between body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria is crucial for offering appropriate support and empathy. The importance of creating safe spaces and supportive communities for queer individuals is emphasized throughout the discussion. Self-care practices, such as grounding and creative expression, play a vital role in maintaining mental health for gender-diverse individuals. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

In this riveting episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu along with co-hosts MAMABEASTS Ellen and Kim, they spotlight the Black Transmasculine visibility. The episode features two very special guests, Richelle Faithful and Ellen’s son, Nico Craig, who share their profound stories of navigating gender identity while being Black in America. Both guests delve into the nuances of what it means to be non-binary and transmasculine and the unique challenges they face due to societal perceptions and expectations. Richelle Faithful, based in Washington, DC, offers a compelling narrative about their experiences with gender identity, societal norms, and affirmations within the Black church communities. They articulate the complexity of their journey and the importance of finding and being affirmed by supportive communities. Richelle also discusses the intersection of gender, sexuality, and spirituality, revealing the intricacies of living authentically. Nico Craig shares his personal journey of understanding his gender identity from a young age and his experience with hormone therapy. He talks about the pivotal role of family support, especially from his mother, Ellen Craig, and how it has shaped his confidence and sense of safety. Nico also highlights the duality of gender traits and how embracing both masculine and feminine energies can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life. This episode is rich with insights and personal anecdotes that spotlight the importance of visibility, support, and love in the lives of transmasculine individuals. Key Takeaways: The importance of community and family support in the journey of transgender individuals. Understanding gender as a fluid and multifaceted experience that can encompass both masculine and feminine traits. The role of spirituality and affirmation in the lives of Black trans and non-binary people. The significance of finding inner peace and being authentic to oneself. The need for broader societal acceptance and understanding of the diverse experiences within the trans community. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

In this enlightening episode of the Moms for Trans Kids Podcast, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu is joined by two inspiring guests—Erica Mead and Ellen Craig. The discussion delves deep into the personal journeys of both Erica and Ellen, exploring the intricacies of advocating for and supporting trans rights. Erica shares her profound experiences growing up and coming out as a trans woman, while Ellen discusses her ongoing journey as a supportive mother to her trans son, Nico. The conversation kicks off with an intimate look at the weeks of each participant, celebrating personal milestones such as Nico’s birthday and Dr. Lulu’s nonprofit approval. Erica opens up about her financial struggles and the intricacies of maintaining her estrogen therapy—touching on the broader implications for trans health care. Ellen recounts her own journey of self-acceptance and the dual process of supporting her son as a queer woman. Together, they discuss the pain and empowerment that comes with self-advocacy, and the essential role allies play in these journeys. They highlight the challenges encountered in navigating family dynamics, societal prejudice, and systemic issues within the workforce. Erica's insights into the unique pressures faced by trans people in the service industry and Ellen's observations on the evolving nature of unconditional love provide listeners with invaluable perspectives. This episode underscores the importance of creating safe, affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals and offers actionable advice for those seeking to become better allies. Key Takeaways: The importance of allowing children to express their gender identity freely and without judgment. The difference between accepting, supporting, and actively advocating for trans loved ones. The multifaceted struggles of trans individuals in professional settings and the significance of unionized support. The challenges of navigating family relationships and societal expectations as a trans person. Insightful strategies for parents and allies to unconditionally support and affirm their trans children. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

The heart of any robust advocacy system for LGBTQ+ youth lies within the creation and maintenance of safe, inclusive spaces. These environments empower young individuals to explore and express their identities without fear of judgment or reprisal. In this episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu engages in a profound conversation with Sam, Trudy, and Celeste Lecesne. Together, they explore the intricacies of queer identity, societal pressures, and the significance of supportive spaces for LGBTQ+ youth. This episode not only celebrates queer identities but also addresses the prevalent myths and misconceptions surrounding them. Dr. Lulu emphasizes her journey as a parent affirming her transgender child, while Sam and Trudy delve into their personal experiences of coming out and navigating their identities. From discussing the role of parents in supporting their kids to the importance of representation, the conversation sheds light on various crucial aspects affecting queer youth today. The episode also highlights the exceptional work of The Future Perfect Project and its podcast, "I'm Feeling Queer Today," as platforms for young voices to thrive and be heard. Importance of Parents Affirming their LGBTQ+ Children: Emphasizing that parents need to move from acceptance to active affirmation of their child's identity. Exploring Sexuality and Gender Identity: Discussion on the fluidity of sexuality and gender, advocating for self-exploration and personal understanding. Role of The Future Perfect Project: The organization's dedication to providing safe, creative spaces where queer youth can express themselves and feel validated. Creation of Inclusive Media: The podcast "I'm Feeling Queer Today" serves as a critical platform where LGBTQ+ youth can share their stories and experiences directly. Emotional and Practical Support for Youth: Both Sam and Trudy share their own journeys and stress the need for supportive communities and honest conversations. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

Parenting gender diverse children can be a challenging and rewarding journey, filled with moments of growth and understanding. By prioritizing their mental health, affirming their identities, and safeguarding their well-being, we empower them to embrace their authentic selves and navigate the world with resilience and courage. In this episode of "Moms for Trans Kids," the guests share their personal journeys of affirming and supporting their gender-diverse children. The discussion centers around the importance of listening to learn from and advocate for their kids. Topics such as deadnaming, safety, mental health, and the need for parental support in the LGBTQ+ community are touched upon. The guests emphasize the significance of creating safe spaces, practicing discernment, and offering unconditional love and acceptance to their children. Parents should listen to learn from their gender-diverse children and advocate for their safety and mental well-being. Deadnaming and misgendering can cause discomfort and distress for trans individuals, highlighting the importance of using their chosen name and pronouns. Supporting LGBTQ+ youth in finding their tribe while emphasizing discernment and safety is crucial for their well-being. Offering grace, validation, and a safe space can help foster trust and open communication between parents and their gender-diverse children. Parental acceptance, support, and understanding play a critical role in the mental health and happiness of LGBTQ+ individuals. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree