Ep 12 - "But I'm Not Supposed to Be a Slut!": Anna Struggles With Her "Good Girl" Conditioning

In this deeply honest episode, we open up about our relationship challenges, past wounds, and the ongoing journey of healing and growth. On air and in real time, we discover how the scars of old relationships, our own breakup, and childhood traumas cause old patterns to resurface, and continue to shape our present dynamics.We uncover the importance of empathy, consistent honest communication, and quick repair in maintaining a healthy connection. 💬❤️This episode is for anyone who’s struggled with expressing their true selves or navigating the lingering impact of past pain. We share our most personal insights on overcoming insecurities and fears, and how we’re learning to grow together despite it all. 🌟Have a similar story or thought? We'd love to hear from you! Drop us a message at [email protected] 📧#Healing #Relationships #Growth #Vulnerability #Empathy #SelfDiscovery

Ep 22 is packed with heat 🔥 and a big lesson learned. We’re spilling the details about our latest adventure—a steamy session with a long-awaited couple that took our connection to bold new levels. But it’s not all fun and games—this wild night led to an unexpected trip to the ER. (Worth it! 🙌). We’re beyond grateful for your support—keep those emails coming! ✨Email is At [email protected]. 💌

In this episode, Aiden arrives home with a box of sexy questions, leading to an unexpectedly hilarious and insightful evening of revelations, laughs, and maybe some blushes. Join us as we delve into the most intimate conversations, games, pushing boundaries, and ask yourself how you might answer them!Enjoy! 💖Email us at: [email protected]

Inspired by a Reddit post titled 'My Wife Had Better Sex with Someone Else,' we explore our own fears and revelations when faced with the idea that our partner might experience 'better' sex outside the relationship. We delve into our own personal insecurities and discuss how the complexities of emotional and physical connections can create both challenges and opportunities for growth in our relationship. Through candid conversations about jealousy, trust, and intimacy, we uncover the ways in which alternative relationship models can actually strengthen the bond between partners. Enjoy! 💖Email us at: [email protected]

Join us as we dive into Anna's recent coffee date experience and the "nervousitement" that comes with meeting a stranger on a first date. Anna recounts her jitters leading up to the date and how Aidan encouraged her to step out of her comfort zone. From a last-minute mole inspections to heartfelt reflections on trust and autonomy, Anna shares her thoughts on the date itself, highlighting her initial impressions and the importance of honesty in dating profiles. We also discuss the broader challenges of being single in the lifestyle and the unique dynamics that come with it. Meanwhile, Aidan provides his perspective on what it's like to be the partner staying at home, offering candid insights into his own feelings of slight jealousy and support. We wrap up with a candid conversation about what happens when "coming out" to friends and others who might not fully understand the concept of ENM.Enjoy! 💖Email us at: [email protected]

🎉 Welcome Back, Everyone! 🎉 If you’re loving our podcast, please drop us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review! We're seeing so many of you tuning in – and even emailing us now – it has been awesome! 📬Today, we’re diving into some juicy updates! 🍸 Last episode, we left you hanging on the “Superman and Wonder Woman” saga – where we had a fab time… but got a lil’ ghosted on the group chat 🦗👻. Turns out, they had a lot going on and want to reconnect, which made us wonder: Should we take it personally when people go silent? 🤔Plus, there’s a recap of a wild hippie-themed party where someone (aka Aiden) rocked the DJ booth 🎧💃, and a peek into my upcoming coffee “date” ☕ with a single guy (just for fun, of course 😉). But what if it stirs things up? 😬🔥So if you’re curious about navigating boundaries, bringing up tricky convos, or laughing at our “lifestyle” adventures, you’re in the right place! Drop us an email with your own stories – we'd love to hear from you! 📩💌

In this episode, we dive into our first playdate post-engagement.💍 After weeks of build-up with a sexy couple, the other woman boldly texted Aiden, "You have my full permission to bang me”—and it was ON! Recording from the car just before our date, we chat through our nerves, excitement, and our ✨revolutionary✨ plan to "play first, THEN eat."As always, when expectations meet reality the result is hilarious, sometimes awkward, and always fun, like when their very interested dog gave Anna the death stare when she started making out with Superman!🤣Then, in the aftermath of a steamy night, we discuss how to handle the other couple’s post-play radio silence and how easy it is to overthink. We talk candidly about navigating complex emotions, jealousy, and the funny ways relationships grow and surprise us. Tune in to hear the juicy details and laugh along with our misadventures in ethical non-monogamy.Enjoy! 💖Email us at: [email protected]

In this episode, we get candid about our quirks, kinks, and the challenges we face with jealousy and chemistry. From my "jealousy kink" that spices things up, to Aiden’s on-the-spot encounter with "Hot Girl" at a party, to our hilarious realization that we’re basically becoming each other's "secret sluts"—there’s no shortage of juicy moments. We share real stories about balancing spontaneity with trust, setting boundaries, and the surprising ways these experiences bring us closer. Join us as we laugh, learn, and open up about the unique journey we’re on together.Enjoy! 💖Email us at: [email protected]

In this episode of Hacking Love, we revisit some of our early adventures in the lifestyle, focusing on our first visit to a real sex club, revealing our expectations versus reality. We also recount our initial play experiences.From dealing with unexpected challenges and performance issues to finding our rhythm in group dynamics, we discuss how these experiences have helped us learn and grow as individuals and as a couple. Throughout the episode, we highlight the importance of communication, connection, consent and mutual respect.Whether you're experienced or new to the lifestyle, join us as we explore the exciting and sometimes challenging world of swinging and open relationships.Enjoy! 💖Email us at: [email protected]

In this episode, we kick things off with a shout-out to some of our new listeners all over the world. Listen for your city! Thank you all and feel free to reach out to us! 🫶In this episode, we dive into our recent lifestyle experiences and how we've learned to balance feelings of jealousy and freedom. One highlight anecdote of the episode revolves around our date to a concert with couple we like. We share our excitement and the series of funny and real moments, along with in-the-moment recordings before and after the date—one that led to a some sexual frustration!Enjoy! 💖Email us at: [email protected]