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All right, everyone.
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Welcome to our conversations
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with T. Drake and Pastor Jay.
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And I hope you're going to
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enjoy what we're talking about.
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I have God's Gift Through
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His Word podcast and Pastor
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Jay coming from Walk in
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Truth Radio Network.
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I hope you guys are going to
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enjoy this conversation
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that we're about to jump into,
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The Hunter or Husband.
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So let's go ahead and get started.
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Hey, Pastor Jay.
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Hey, T. How are you doing today?
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How's everybody doing out there?
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Glad to be
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Uh available so we can have
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this discussion because
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it's been on my heart Based
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on the past couple of
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months of dealing with some
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people And I think it's
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very important that we uh,
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try to help people and get
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them to understand There is
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a difference between the
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hunter and the husband so
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Me and you were talking
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about that before we got started.
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So yeah,
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we can just jump right on in Do
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you have any questions for me before I
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going then you can chime
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back in you know I always
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have questions but I'll
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save those as we move
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through our conversation
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okay and and guys pardon me
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uh kind of under the
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weather my sinuses so if I
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sneeze or something just
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pardon me because uh just
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going through the summer
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thing uh but let me give
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you the experiences there's
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a there's there's some
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people that I know some
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people that I love
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some ladies that are dear,
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some couples that are dear to my heart.
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And they're going through a
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situation whereas they're
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trying to weigh out their
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faith versus their future
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or their faith versus their
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peace of mind or faith
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versus their happiness.
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And it should not be a either or.
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And what I'm learning is there's a great,
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awesome level of commitment
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That women have towards
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their vows and towards what
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they understand the word of
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God says about never
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divorcing your husband.
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And I see men who are marginal at best,
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but not really blood bought,
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saved men actually taking
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advantage of these women.
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that they will stay in an
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abusive relationship,
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whether it's physical, financial, social,
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mental,
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and even spiritual to a high
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degree of anxiety or even
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just a continuous feeding
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of gaslighting and things like that,
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verbal abuse.
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And they believe in their
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hearts after being abused
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that they should stay in
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this relationship.
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And I,
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my opinion is that there's many
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different kinds of adultery
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to which a young lady can
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leave her husband.
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And if you're being spiritually abused,
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emotionally abused, socially abused,
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physically abused, and cheated upon,
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okay,
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giving to another what's
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supposed to give to the wife that care,
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that Ephesians to husband,
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where he's supposed to love
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his wife as Christ loved the church.
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And these are the things
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that he's supposed to do, set her apart,
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sanctify her,
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and he is not willing to do so.
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Then at that point,
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I think we go into a
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spiritual adultery that a
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lot of times relates to physical,
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emotional, financial abuse.
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and the question is always
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I'm going to honor my vows
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but now I'm running into
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people who have honored
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this vow to the point of
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insanity 40 50 years of
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marriage and normally what
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I've dealt with is a woman
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is very unhappy.
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The woman now is lashing out.
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The woman now is, is, is them bubbled over,
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is them boiled over.
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And now she's even acting
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contrary to her faith
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because she can't take anymore.
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And then when you hear the story that, uh,
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this has been going on this
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level of abuse and it could be either way,
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male or female back and forth.
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Okay.
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Husband and wife,
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But I hear this more from
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the wise point of view.
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This abuse,
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this level of abuse has been
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going on for decades.
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And now they come to the
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conclusion they can't take anymore.
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So they go from being abused
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to almost being the abuser
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to make up for the lost
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time of peace and tranquility.
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And I think the church needs
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to address this because too
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many women are sitting in
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the pews and their heart is broken.
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Their spirit is broken.
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They feel less than, and they're married.
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There has not been any
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transgression of the church
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against their male counterpart,
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but they don't even feel loved anymore.
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They don't even feel cared for.
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But there was a time when
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his husband was a hunter,
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and that's what I want to get into.
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There are guys out here who are hunters,
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just like a natural hunter.
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The thrill is in the journey to hunt.
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in the elusiveness of the
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prey the one who can't be
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captured the one who can't
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be tamed it's like the
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story the taming of the
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shrew the allure was this
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woman this red-headed woman
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was beyond any man's
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ability to control her well
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a lot of men that's what
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they do they're hunters
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and while they're hunting
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they'll do anything that
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needs to be done they'll
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show you a good time
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they'll show you love and
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