Casual sex, trauma & learning to live again ft Ini Leye

Early this year, my husband and I had a conversation about our relationship that was filmed for my youtube channel but the video ended up having issues and it wasn't possible to film again. I was going to let it rot in the archives but since you guys enjoyed my last video on dating and relationships so much, i decided to try and rescue the audio from that video [at least] and share a glimpse into our everyday life. Enjoy! "Look in the scroll of the LORD and read: none of these will be missing, none will lack a mate. For it is His mouth that has given the order and His Spirit will make it all come true." (Isaiah 34:16) Also, will you join my channel membership? It's a way for you support me monthly to keep creating content. Many of you frequently express a desire to support me and i'm truly grateful. However, I didn't want to take from you without giving back in some way so for as low as N4,000 ($3) a month, you can join my channel membership and support me to keep creating content & in exchange you get (i) access to certain videos on my channel (ii) photos and updates that no one else sees (iii) to see new things that i'm trying out (iv) and so much more! It's like buying me a coffee or recharge card. Click here to join: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCj2LgtXaRKnhQoC-NGXrOZQ/join instagram https://www.instagram.com/ezinne.zara/ biblediary https://open.substack.com/pub/ezinnezara tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@ezinnezara BOOKS: 1) Dear 20 something, you will unravel beautifully by Ezinne Zara Ebook https://selar.co/dear20something Paperback https://a.co/d/hWzNwCt 2) Dream wedding, affordable budget by Ezinne Zara and Isimeme Ebook https://paystack.com/buy/dream-wedding-affordable-buget Paperback https://a.co/d/eXyywMA bookings/business: [email protected] other inquiries: [email protected]

In this raw, lengthy, sit-down conversation with my friend (Esther Ideh) we discuss how we met, our different challenges with friendship, how our faith is helping us become better people in our interaction with others and so much more. “Make allowance for each other’s faults and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.” (Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭13‬) instagram https://www.instagram.com/ezinne.zara/ tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@ezinnezara Esther Ideh on ig https://www.instagram.com/esther.ideh?igsh=Z2hramtranJ3YmVn Esther’s community on ig https://www.instagram.com/biblestudybuddy_?igsh=bnZvcDFweTFyMGR4 Watch me and Esther breakdown bible reading for beginners https://youtube.com/live/CnwYbNEzIS0?feature=share BOOKS: 1) Dear 20 something, you will unravel beautifully by Ezinne Zara Ebook https://selar.co/dear20something Paperback https://a.co/d/hWzNwCt 2) Dream wedding, affordable budget by Ezinne Zara and Isimeme Ebook https://paystack.com/buy/dream-wedding-affordable-buget Paperback https://a.co/d/eXyywMA bookings/business: [email protected] other inquiries: [email protected]

Bright Light, when you were being formed in the womb there was something God had in mind, something He was weaving into the fabric of your life. It was a calling to serve His purposes here on the earth & it doesn’t matter what you’ve done in the past or who you’ve always been, the day you hear His voice and decide to respond to it, is the day you begin a new journey. This right here and now, is the voice of God calling you to accept Him. That call may not be to stand on a stage like this but it will always be to bring Him glory. I have not always had a microphone in my hand. In fact, because of my faith background I did not even know that things like this existed. I simply want to know The Lord and follow Him. I want you to take a moment and think to yourself – what is that one thing that discounts you from participating in the move of God upon the earth? Do you know that God can touch you and take it away? Do you know that He can touch you and activate strengths and gifts that overpower your weaknesses? Do you know that you can trust yourself to Him because He is so kind that He will not just call you, reassure you, equip you, but also train you? Message: When God Says Go Scripture: Jeremiah chapter 1 Speaker: Ezinne Zara Event: Lady in bloom conference Date: August 24, 2024 "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations" (Jeremiah 1:5) instagram https://www.instagram.com/ezinne.zara/ tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@ezinnezara community https://www.instagram.com/truchristianity/ support Ezinne https://paystack.com/pay/ezinnezara BOOKS: 1) Dear 20 something, you will unravel beautifully by Ezinne Zara Ebook https://selar.co/dear20something Paperback https://a.co/d/hWzNwCt 2) Dream wedding, affordable budget by Ezinne Zara and Isimeme Ebook https://paystack.com/buy/dream-wedding-affordable-buget Paperback https://a.co/d/eXyywMA bookings/business: [email protected] other inquiries: [email protected]

This was first uploaded to my YouTube channel but is now being shared here so that you can listen on repeat if you want to. Enjoy 💓 “Yet true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth. After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we can’t take anything with us when we leave it. So if we have enough food and clothing, let us be content. But people who long to be rich fall into temptation and are trapped by many foolish and harmful desires that plunge them into ruin and destruction. For the LOVE of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.” (1Timothy 6:6-10)

This was such an interesting topic! 😂 Be sure to share with others and invite them into the conversation. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD." (Proverbs 18:22) Our guest's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oyinoludapo How she met her husband: https://youtu.be/m8qz6xuqJb4?si=UZKdPnuAPF3hhjDK

Today’s episode is a laid back life update that first featured on my Youtube channel so you may hear me saying 'video' a lot but i thought you guys would love to listen to me gisting with you here like we’re on facetime about my content creation lows, struggles with being in the public eye, thoughts about going back to school or trying a 9-5, and so much more. Don’t forget to share with others!

Today’s conversation is long overdue! I wanted to have a real, raw, conversation around singleness and dating, especially in these times where so many opinions are flying around, leaving young people confused and discouraged. Who better to unpack this with than the IFBNW herself??? We’re discussing why men won’t commit, if women really have unrealistic standards, marriage shaming, movies on the 1st date, and so much more.

Today’s conversation is one that I have been eager to have with you guys – it’s literally been sitting in my brain for almost a year now and started after I heard from someone who expressed a desire to follow God but had acquired so much through stuff through her sinful past (exchanging sex for money). It was really hard for her to let go because she did not want to suffer. My friend, El Shakar has actually experienced this and gone through something similar and that’s why I was eager to have this conversation with him and bring you guys along.

I think that by simply being human beings, we’ve all experienced trauma in one way or the other however, it doesn’t have to become our identity – it can simply be a part of a story that God is redeeming. My guest today is Ini Leye and she will be sharing a very moving story about trauma that she faced and it doesn’t matter how many times I hear her story; it moves me every time how much she suffered and how God has been able to redeem that story to bless many lives.

Today's conversation is with my friend, Precious Ada about…friendship! Maybe you’re losing friends, ghosting some, being ghosted, struggling to text back and maybe even battling jealousy because some people in your friend group are growing or achieving things at a rate that makes you feel left behind, let's talk about it.