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Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University Today!https://bit.ly/3UtD0t3Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeShark Tank has had roughly a thousand pitches air so far, and one stands out as possibly the worst ever. This pitch goes SO badly that after it aired Maneesh even started to get threats. Now this video isn’t a critique of Maneesh, we don’t know anything about his personality based on a TV show. But there’s a lot we can learn from this pitch.Specifically, we’ll go over 5 fairly common mistakes that instantly make people like you less.  We’ll also review what you can do instead to make better impressions in business meetings, job interviews, and even when meeting new friends or going on dates. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro1:18 - #1: A bad first impression in the first 7 seconds2:03 - #2: Reacting defensively to laughter3:13 - #3: Trying to hide your weaknesses3:20 - #4: Not answering the question behind the question6:18 - #5: Being critical of a person rather than their behavior-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SharkTank #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nRAxuABody Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown Tony Robbins is a master of body language. These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out. He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video. If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3kujtZmSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeFew things can ruin your life faster than a toxic relationship. But most people hide their issues, so signs of being toxic aren’t obvious right off the bat. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 early signs you or someone you love is in a toxic relationship so that you can change things before it ruins your life. Keep in mind that none of these mean you must break up immediately. Toxicity exists on a spectrum and these are just signs that you need to move things back towards the healthy side or get out. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:30 - #1: Using totalizing language in arguments1:30 - #2: Feeling compelled to gather evidence against your partner2:04 - #3: Justifying aggressive behavior by making it a sign of love3:00 - #4: Not believing someone when they show you’re not compatible5:12 - #5: You don’t know the traumas that formed your childhood experience of love--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JonnhyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Frs8WXAnd for more on Dealing With Conflict, check out Charisma University: www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university_ _ _ _ _**Hello! Adding this in because some people missed the video on How To Stop People From Talking Over You. This is Ben! I'm the guy in this video. I founded Charisma On Command with Charlie four years ago. You can catch a bit of my story towards the end of this video when I introduce myself. Charlie is still creating videos! He's going to release his next one on Monday. Hope that clears things up a bit :-)_ _ _ _ _Have you ever had a tough conversation in front of you and not known exactly how to handle it?Maybe it was with your boyfriend or girlfriend, amongst friends or roommates, with your family, or at work. Difficult conversations are stressful because if you handle them poorly, it can do irreparable damage to your relationship or your career. And we never get taught how to do it correctly! So in this video I go over the principles you can apply to make almost any difficult conversation go well for you. You don’t need to use all of these in all situations. What I want to do is arm you with options so you can choose the right tool for whatever situation you're in.00:36 3 things to consider BEFORE tough conversations and difficult conversations00:42 Draw your line. Define what's acceptable and what's unacceptable.02:20 Thinking things through as if you're the other person 03:38 Set the tone that YOU want the conversation to have 04:10 Things to consider DURING a tough conversation04:30 State facts and feelings to prevent someone from being defensive05:30 What to do when someone is making jokes at your expense that you don't like06:48 Go on the record early so that a tough conversation isn't a surprise08:11 Have mutual understanding and don't assume about what the other person is thinking08:50 What to do when you're the one who made a mistake or how to receive feedback12:05 How to handle emotionally charged conversations and have confidence13:50 How to calm down a tough conversation that is getting heated15:40 A more formal introduction!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @IamBenAltman and @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship. It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTDIf just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Read ANYONEhttps://goo.gl/Za6Y2JToday we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.But we won’t stop thereBecause one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it. So let’s get into1. Increase self-awareness2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site: http://www.microexpressionstest.com/m...4. Identify common patterns5. Make predictions based on people's body language6. Experiment in your own lifeHope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today!How To Be Charming In Any Conversation:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBzqzLa7-5MSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Whether we admit it or not we’ve all felt insecure at different points in our lives. And that insecurity can hold you back from things like pursuing your dream job, approaching someone you want to connect with, or just feeling good about yourself.But it doesn’t have to be that way. There are tricks you can learn to actually use your insecurities to your advantage. To instantly look more confident and eventually to build deep genuine confidence and stop caring so much what other people think about youThat’s exactly what we’ll be covering today in this video featuring Pete Davidson, someone who has stated many times that he battles with insecurity, yet still has a lot of friends, relationships, and career success.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - intro1:05 - #1: Embrace that you are not good at everything2:38 - #2: Use self deprecating jokes4:23 - #3: Answer questions honestly where most people would lie6:06 - #4: Raise the people around you--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#PeteDavidson #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3MldAd8Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSome people are extremely judgmental about height. And it sucks to be judged for something that’s totally out of your control. There’s no magic formula to get every single person to stop being prejudiced BUT there are tricks you can steal from some of the world’s most charismatic men to help you command more respect from the people around you. Regardless of your height.This video isn’t meant to be a one size fits all solution. Instead, think of it as a menu to choose from. Pick the advice that fits the charisma style you like most. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:25 - #1: Addressing your height0:39 - Option 1: Go there first1:09 - Option 2: Talk about it like it's no big deal2:16 - Option 3: Don't make it a part of the conversation3:04 - #2: Be a big presence3:10 - Option 1: Be the loudest person in the room3:37 - Option 2: Use expansive hand gestures4:24 - Option 3: Freely use neutral space4:57 - Option 4: Use platonic touch5:52 - #3: Celebrate other people's success----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------#TomCruise #TomHolland #KevinHart #CharismaOnCommand----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meethttps://goo.gl/janZ3FDaily Tip: What your Body Language says about your CharismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free 30-day trial today by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charismaWhy Daenerys Loves Jon SnowWhy does Daenerys Targaryen fall for Jon Snow? I mean he’s a powerful handsome guy, but Daenerys has had plenty of offers from powerful handsome men, like Jorah and Daario, and none truly interested her. Something is different about Jon Snow though. The show gives us some clues that actually can teach you a lot about attraction and love in the real world, which is why I wanted to explore exactly what it was that created that spark of love - because you also you might learn something for your own life. 3:00 Jon Snow by Kit Harrington showed confidence to Khaleesi by Emilia Clarke6:30 Jon Snow of House Stark can be honest to Daenerys Targaryen9:30 Winter is here and in Game of Thrones GOT everyone can count on Jon SnowSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices