ANWD Episode 219: With Murray Valeriano

In this lively and sprawling episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer has an enthralling conversation with guest Jessica Ryan. Their dialogue meanders through various topics, showcasing their dynamic rapport and mutual consent to dive into the unpredictable. Jessica shares candidly about her experiences in the  industry, her perspectives on online toxicity, and the unique stressors of social media. She eloquently describes the “chandelier effect,” where minor triggers cause significant emotional reactions due to underlying stress, drawing a parallel to how people vent their frustrations online. The conversation shifts to discussions about gender expressions and beauty within the LGBTQ+ community, highlighting Jessica's appreciation for gay men and the complexities of masculinity. Further, they delve into personal anecdotes, touching on issues like living with a roommate without a sense of smell, the adventures of shared living situations, and navigating the social labyrinth of the t industry. Jessica voices her thoughts on relationships within the industry, the stigmas attached, and the surreal experiences of navigating personal identity amidst public perceptions. Amusingly, the podcast ventures into discussions about peculiar online interactions, from odd interests to the unexpected kindness of online engagements. Jessica and Matt share laughter over humorous fan interactions, underscoring the sometimes bizarre but human side of their profession. Throughout the podcast, the conversation oscillates between serious discussions about mental health, the importance of therapy, and the nuances of navigating  entertainment, to light-hearted banter and personal stories that reveal their multifaceted lives. Jessica's insightful and unfiltered commentary provides a refreshing take on a spectrum of topics, making this episode a compelling listen for those interested in the intersections of entertainment, personal growth, and the complexities of digital life. Through it all, Matt ensures the dialogue flows seamlessly, proving once again why “And Now We Drink” remains an engaging platform for deep dives into the lives of its fascinating guests.   Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this unmissable episode of And Now We Drink, host Matt Slayer is joined by the effervescent Bea York and the enigmatic Andy Zane for a conversation that turns from wildly hilarious to deeply insightful and back again, all while navigating the chaotic waters of alcohol and spontaneous laughter. From the get-go, it's clear we're in for a ride as Bea and Andy share anecdotes ranging from quirky to outright bizarre, blurring the lines between reality and dreams with tales that stretch the imagination. Bea's journey from a Reddit phenomenon to capturing the spotlight in the  industry, combined with Andy's brutal honesty about his musical pursuits and scandalous adventures, provides an eclectic mix of content that's as entertaining as it is unpredictable. Their candidness about their experiences and aspirations in entertainment showcases the raw, unfiltered essence of what makes them tick. Matt skillfully steers the conversation through topics ranging from the hazards of social media fame, the rigors of life on the road as a musician, to the philosophical musings on movies that have left a lasting impact on them. Bea's revelation about her foray into mainstream  and Andy's passion for music and disdain for industry standards open up a window into the lives of those who live their art. The episode takes a surprising turn with discussions about personal boundaries, unexpected adventures in nightlife, and the intriguing dynamics of their relationships both within and outside the realm of their professional lives. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions as laughter turns into raw emotion and back again, with moments that will make you think as much as they make you laugh. As the drinks flow, so do the stories. From tales of daring escapades that blur the lines of legality, to heartfelt discussions on the personal growth and realization that come with navigating the complex world of entertainment. Bea and Andy, together with Matt, create an atmosphere that feels more like a gathering of old friends rather than an interview, letting listeners in on the jokes, dreams, and, occasionally, the nightmares that come with their unique lifestyles. This episode of And Now We Drink isn't just a podcast; it's a glimpse into the chaos and beauty of living a life unfiltered and unapologetically oneself. Through the haze of alcohol and the infectious laughter, there’s a sense of connection, understanding, and, ultimately, an extraordinary storytelling experience that you won’t want to miss.   Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this convivial episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer catches up with the multifaceted Stevie Moon, diving into a rich conversation that moves from the humorous to the heartfelt with ease.. The duo  ventures into discussions about handling vulnerability, the universal challenges of illness, and navigating the complexities of the  industry, including the unspoken realities of performing and the impact of illnesses within the community. The conversation doesn't shy away from the gritty realities of life and work, including a critique of how the pandemic has permanently shifted on-set ethics and the importance of respecting health boundaries. Stevie also touches upon personal battles, bringing a deeply personal perspective to the highs and lows of living with an autoimmune disease. But it's not all serious - the episode is peppered with laughter as they navigate the oddities of life, from the joys and hazards of convention season to the unintended hilarity that can come from misunderstanding industry terminology. As always, Slayer ensures the conversation remains grounded, even when it takes off into discussions on the weird, the wild, and the whiskey-soaked. This episode of “And Now We Drink” is a journey through the laughter and tears that define the human experience, making it a must-listen for anyone intrigued by the real stories behind the on-screen personas of the entertainment world. Stevie Moon’s candidness, paired with Matt Slayer's knack for deep conversation, makes for an episode that’s as enlightening as it is entertaining     Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer invites  actress Evelyn Claire for a long-awaited and highly candid conversation. After years of missed connections and gentle edging—podcast-style, of course—Evelyn finally graces the show, diving into an array of topics that underscore her unique perspective on life, love, and the complexities of the  industry. The conversation veers from light-hearted banter about awkward initiations and D&D connections to more profound discussions on relationships, health, and the pursuit of happiness amidst personal and professional challenges. Evelyn opens up about the nuances of intimacy and her evolving stance on performing and personal boundaries, shedding light on the demanding nature of the film sector and the importance of self-care and authentic connections. Listeners are treated to stories that range from humorous to heart-wrenching, including tales of disastrous dates and the liberating act of destroying one's art as a form of personal catharsis. The episode also delves into the stigmatization of health issues within the industry and society at large, with Evelyn offering a candid reflection on her experiences and the lessons learned along the way. Both revealing and reflective, this episode stands out as a testament to Evelyn's resilience and her unwavering commitment to live on her terms. It's a rollercoaster ride of emotions, insights, and unexpected revelations that not only entertains but also provokes thought on what it means to navigate the complexities of modern life and identity.   New Sponsor Alert! Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this intoxicating episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer joins forces with the effervescent Addis Fouche for a conversation that is as unpredictable as it is delightful. Addis Fouche, an embodiment of confidence and charisma, engages in a freewheeling discussion that covers a kaleidoscope of topics, from the nuances of non-alcoholic sparkling aperitifs to the profound world of astrology, and from the intricacies of the  industry to the art of living life on one's own terms.  The banter flows seamlessly into more personal territories, including Addis's adventures in the t industry, her strong opinions on Aquarius men, and her candid revelations about navigating professional and personal life without alcohol.  From sharing hilariously relatable family anecdotes to debating the merits of male influencers versus plumbers, Addis and Matt explore themes of modern love, the complexity of human relationships, and the evolving landscape of fame and influence in the digital era.  Addis doesn't hold back as she delves into her journey from corporate advertising to SW, highlighting the empowerment and financial independence that stems from her career choices. The conversation also illuminates Addis' passion for challenging societal norms, her advocacy for workers' rights, and her fearless approach to tackling taboo subjects head-on. By the episode's end, it's clear that Addis Fouche is not just an amazing starlet; she's a voice of a generation unafraid to embrace authenticity, advocate for change, and celebrate the pleasures of life, with or without alcohol. This episode is a testament to the power of honest dialogue, the beauty of diverse experiences, and the unbreakable spirit of individuals who dare to live by their own rules.   New Sponsor Alert! Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this booze-fueled episode of ‘And Now We Drink,’ host Matt Slayer catches up with the vivacious Hazel Grace, as they reminisce over their wild adventures and delve into Hazel's colorful life and career. With laughter that's contagious and stories that are unbelievably true, listeners are guaranteed an intimate glimpse into the world of the industry  through Hazel’s charismatic lens. Delivering more than just tales of drunken shenanigans and cheeky banter, Hazel opens up about the unique dynamics of her open marriage and how it intertwines with her work in the  industry. Her marriage, built on trust and refreshing honesty, breaks the stereotype of traditional relationships and highlights the empowering side of choice and  freedom. Hazel's knack for storytelling takes us through a fascinating journey—a behind-the-scenes look at  film editing, her aspirations for her brand inmelanin, and her personal evolution as an ambitious businesswoman. She candidly shares the struggles and successes of running an  industry website, shedding light on the real work that happens off-camera, and the intricacies of the editing room. Listeners are also treated to Hazel's insights on attraction, consent, and the complexities of sexual preferences in a society quick to pass judgment. As Hazel traverses these topics with Matt, their exchange is both enlightening and provocative, challenging the conventions of desire and relationships. Hazel Grace is not afraid to dream big. Alongside candid industry insights, she shares her upcoming travel plans and aspirations to expand her already vibrant life experiences, regardless of the constraints of societal norms. This rollercoaster episode is a heady mix of raw reflections, industry truths, and Hazel's infectious enthusiasm. Pour yourself a drink and toast to one fierce, fearless, and formidable woman who's passionate about her career, unapologetically herself, and determined to change the game. Tune into ‘And Now We Drink’ for a conversation that's as real as it gets."   New Sponsor Alert! Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Welcome to another tantalizing episode of ‘And Now We Drink,’ where your host, Matt Slayer, unapologetically dives into the uncensored lives of his guests. In this installment, we catch an intimate and revealing chat with the illustrious Nikki Nightand Carly David These two powerhouses in the  industry dish about everything from trolls and their method of engagement to the importance of paying taxes, a dire lesson for all online workers. Nikki, affectionately known as the fairy cam mother, shares her experiences and passion for helping models maximize their earnings, while Carly brings her sharp wit to the table, discussing the ins and outs of marketing for the industry. They toast around the mic, which has seen its fair share of mouths, while candidly addressing their run-ins with internet negativity and the unwavering spirits that drive their success. Our guests aren't shy about their personal lives either. From discussing the ethics of blocking (or not blocking) trolls to taking an anti-vax mother for a wild R-rated ride, Nikki and Carly keep it real. It's a conversation that veers effortlessly from professional endeavors to personal confessions. They explore unconventional bedroom requests, strange noises mid-intimacy, and the embarrassments that occasionally occur between the sheets. No stone is left un-turned, no taboo untouched. Though be warned, listeners might encounter more information than anticipated. Expect laughs, cringes, and moments of profound business advice amid the chaotic hilarity, with commentary that only these industry mavens can deliver. Tune in if you dare     New Sponsor Alert! Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this raucously entertaining episode of And Now We Drink, host Matt Slayer is joined by the vivacious Anna De Ville and AVN managing editor expert Peter Warren. The trio embarks on a meandering journey through topics that only can sprout from a podcast that encourages drinking and candid conversation. Anna, never one to eschew honesty, dives right into the intricacies of her pre-podcast ritual—which, in this case, includes pre-gaming  Equally unapologetic and full of charm, she recounts experiences about her profession, her commitment to her performances, and the challenge of finding books that satiate her voracious appetite for reading (Barnes & Noble, keep up!). Peter, aside from offering a steady stream of laughs, navigates concerns about his award nomination responsibilities. He reassuringly clarifies Anna's recent nominations, and the pair bond over the surreal aspects of navigating fame, lifestyle, and maintaining personal health amidst their busy schedules. Their back-and-forth banter shifts from Anna's passionate ideas for a film about interrogation techniques to the duo’s amusingly self-deprecating award predictions. Matt, the maestro of this cacophony, interjects with his trademark wit—managing to steer the conversation from near derailing to moments of heartfelt acknowledgment of each other’s success and struggles. Listeners should be prepared for an ebb and flow of hilarity, insider industry insights, and the raw authenticity they've come to expect from And Now We Drink. It’s a wild ride, from the confessions of pre-recording alcohol indulgence to debating the intricate details of award show nominations and the personal lives that weave through the glitz and glamour. Don’t miss a chance to join this intoxicating dive      New Sponsor Alert! Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this raw and unguarded episode of ‘And Now We Drink,’ host Matt Slayer welcomes Jordan Maxx back to the show for a deep dive into everything from efficacy of old-timey health remedies. to threesomes at conventions. A thought-provoking blend of industry shop talk, personal revelation, and philosophical exploration, this episode will leave listeners with much to ponder. Drink up and tune in for this uncensored exploration of life, the universe, and everything in between.    New Sponsor Alert! Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this latest buzzworthy episode of ‘And Now We Drink,’ host Matt Slayer is joined by comedian Trevor Keveloh, and it's all about raw, edgy humor washed down with a dose of sober reality. Trevor dives into his journey of sobriety, maintaining 6 years without a drop of alcohol, while unapologetically sharing his wild escapades from the past. He doesn't hold back, revealing his dating misadventures and comically reflecting on trying to impress a former hookup with his recently honed ‘A-game’.  Matt and Trevor wax philosophical on the unpredictability of life, showbiz, and the value of real relationships in a cut-throat industry like comedy. They explore the stark contrast between life in entertainment and the conventional Midwestern expectations, showcasing Trevor’s refusal to sacrifice his creative pursuits for stability. As they trundle down Trevor’s memory lane, the episode careens from candid revelations about the business end of running stand-up shows to the idea that sometimes failures prove to be valuable experiences.  Whether Trevor is recounting his unexpected encounters with icons like Jon Voight, analyzing his tumultuous love life, or discussing how connections can pivot one’s career trajectory, the episode is a heart-to-heart roller coaster. The common thread in this conversation is the relentless drive to pursue passion over pragmatism—a bold affirmation for fellow dreamers and doers. Get ready for a heavy dose of Trevor's hard-earned wisdom paired with Matt’s sagely provocations—no topic is off-limits when these two hit the mic.     New Sponsor Alert! Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink