The #1 Networking Tip You’re Probably Not Using (with David Burkus)

Do you want to learn some helpful body language dating tips? We know that sometimes guys just don't get it. You don't want to hurt their feelings but you don't want to date them either. Learn how to tell someone that you are not interested. In this video, we will show you four subtle moves to let them know you are not interested and master the art of rejection.Want to know more about body language tricks for anti-dating?https://www.scienceofpeople.com/art-rejection-body-language-tricks-dating/******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed.Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more.Join the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR******Do you know what cues you are sending to others? Learn how to control and leverage the tiny signals you’re sending – from your stance and facial expressions to your word choice and vocal tone – to improve your personal and professional relationships.This is our latest bestselling book: Cues Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communicationhttps://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/Read it on Amazon, Audible or wherever books are sold!Edit15 more messages******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically.Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick.👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ******Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHSP.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell!******✔ W E B S I T Ehttps://www.scienceofpeople.comFollow Us on:✔ I N S T A G R A Mhttps://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards✔ T W I T T E Rhttps://twitter.com/vvanedwards✔ L I N K E D I Nhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessavanedwards✔ F A C E B O O Khttps://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards#DatingTips #BodyLanguage #VanessaVanEdwards Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to build a community? In this episode of our series World’s Most Interesting People, I sat down with Sarah K. Peck. Sarah is the creator and executive director of the Startup Pregnant podcast that shares pioneering stories of women founders, parents, and leaders in their journeys through both entrepreneurship and parenting. Check out more of Sarah's work: • https://startuppregnant.com/• https://www.sarahkpeck.com/To hear more from Sarah, check out The Startup Pregnant Podcast on your favorite podcast app!00:00 Intro00:25 Meet Sarah03:10 How the Podcast Started04:50 How to Get Sponsors05:36 Action Steps for Readers06:55 Finding Your Audience08:47 Media Outreach10:00 VIPs12:15 The Tipping Point13:36 Action Steps14:14 Building Community16:35 Sarah's Mission******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed.Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft, and many more.Join People School here 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train...******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language, and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially, and romantically.Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion-dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT, and CES, to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. Its mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick.👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ******Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHSP.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell!******✔ W E B S I T Ehttps://www.scienceofpeople.comFollow Us on:✔ I N S T A G R A Mhttps://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards✔ T W I T T E Rhttps://twitter.com/vvanedwards✔ L I N K E D I Nhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessavanedwards✔ F A C E B O O Khttps://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards#Tribe #Community #VanessaVanEdwards Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bad first impressions can be ROUGH. But guess what? It happens to everyone, and perfectionists can be extra hard on themselves about it. In this video, Vanessa gives us tips on overcoming those bad first impressions on second encounters! You can improve someone's impression of you.Read the full article at: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/first-impressions/00:00 Intro01:20 Acknowledge the Bad03:05 Change the setting04:53 Ask for Help06:13 Break social scripts08:20 Tell them you like them******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train...******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person. She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more. Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically. Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick. 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/capti... ****** Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHS P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! ****** ✔ W E B S I T E https://www.scienceofpeople.com Follow Us on: ✔ I N S T A G R A M https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards ✔ T W I T T E R https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ✔ L I N K E D I N https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessava... ✔ F A C E B O O K https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards #vanessavanedwards #firstimpression #firstimpressions #networking #networkingtips Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to know how to build a team? In this episode of our series, The World’s Most Interesting People, I sat down with Shane Snow to discuss how to build a dream team. Shane is an award-winner journalist, co-founder of Contently (one of Inc.com’s fastest-growing companies), best-selling author of Smartcuts: The Breakthrough of Lateral Thinking and Dream Teams: Working Together Without Falling Apart.His writing has appeared in Fast Company, Wired and The New Yorker and he’s a fellow of the Royal Academy of Arts and recipient of Columbia University’s Innovator Award.Check out Shane's book, Dream Teams: Working Together Without Falling Aparthttps://www.shanesnow.com/dreamteamsWant more details on how to build a team?https://www.scienceofpeople.com/dream-team/00:00 Intro01:15 The BIGGEST mistake non-dream teams make02:42 Define Problem03:40 Match project to role05:00 Two problems07:20 Diversity Trainings12:35 Cultural Fit v Cultural Add15:15 Diversity of Thought Studies17:40 Intellectual Friction20:47 The MOST interesting team Shane has ever come across******Science of People is a human behavior research lab. We will teach you what makes people tick. Come play in our lab and pick up a copy of our best-selling book, Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People for even more on decoding, communication and personality. 👉 http://amzn.to/2xM4tiO ******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed.Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more.👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train...******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically.Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick.👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ******Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHSP.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell!******✔ W E B S I T Ehttps://www.scienceofpeople.comFollow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Looking for something unique to do with a friend? Check out these 25 fun and creative ideas! From attending free events at local bookstores, dressing up and visiting art museums, to starting a podcast, volunteering, and more. These ideas will spark your creativity and provide endless fun. Watch the video and choose your favorite idea to try out with your friend today!Read more: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/things-to-do-with-friends/In this video: 1:59:22 - One: Local Bookstore Events1:59:37 - Two: Visit a Local Art Museum1:59:49 - Three: Thrift Store and Art Museum1:59:54 - Four: Attend an Open Mic Night0:07 - Five: Train for a 5K0:14 - Six: Volunteer at a Nonprofit0:21 - Seven: Plant a Tea Garden0:29 - Eight: Start a Podcast0:34 - Nine: Look at Old Photos0:40 - Ten: Attend a Conference1:01 - Eleven: Recreate Favorite Restaurant Meal1:08 - Twelve: Paint and Sip Class1:27 - Thirteen: Go for a Hike1:34 - Fourteen: Play Kickball or Frisbee1:47 - Fifteen: Play Mafia2:05 - Sixteen: Watch Favorite Childhood Movie2:12 - Seventeen: Take a Dance Class2:19 - Eighteen: Day Road Trip2:32 - Nineteen: Themed Dinner Party2:37 - Twenty: Visit an Antique Show2:44 - Twenty-One: Start a Vinyl Collection2:49 - Twenty-Two: Disposable Camera Adventure3:08 - Twenty-Three: Craft Personalized Gifts3:23 - Twenty-Four: Create a Vision Board3:35 - Twenty-Five: Pretend to be a Food Reviewer******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this interview, I sat down with Matt Kepnes, otherwise known as Nomadic Matt. Matt is the founder of NomadicMatt.com and the author of How to Travel the World on $50 a Day: Third Edition: Travel Cheaper, Longer, Smarter.Matt has been to over 90 countries and is a true travel expert. He’s also an introvert.He traveled to Costa Rica at the age of 23, one of his first international trips and decided to do a formal tour group, specifically so he wouldn’t be alone. According to 23 year-old Matt: “Traveling alone? That’s crazy talk!”On this trip, Matt had an aha moment: Travel creates an opportunity for a fresh start and to break away from the weights, perceptions and history of home.“In Costa Rica, I became the man I always wanted to be.” –Matt KepnesCheck out more of Matt's work: • https://www.nomadicmatt.com• How to Travel the World on $50 a Day: Third Edition: Travel Cheaper, Longer, Smarter https://amzn.to/2GJkwSX******Science of People is a human behavior research lab. We will teach you what makes people tick. Come play in our lab and pick up a copy of our best-selling book, Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People for even more on decoding, communication and personality. 👉 http://amzn.to/2xM4tiO ******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication ( https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/ ) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People ( https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/ ) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ******PS- Like, Share, and Explore the Science of People:☞ Website: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/#travel #VanessaVanEdwards #traveltips Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To be strong in business, you must have strong people skills. There is a science to soft skills, and we want to teach it to you or your team. We have taken the latest groundbreaking research from behavioral psychology, neuroeconomics, and corporate communication to build the single best soft skills training in the industry.People School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ:• Empower Leaders and Managers• Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools• Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration• Improve Client Relations & SalesIf you are ready to level up your career, People School registration is now OPEN! 👉 Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/people-school/00:00 Intro00:43 Who is Vanessa Van Edwards?01:28 Intro to People School******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/people-school/People School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed.Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft, and many more.👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/people-school/******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are other people constantly underestimating you? Or do you feel like you're not living up to your potential? To gain true confidence, you need to feel appreciated and understood. In this video, I’ll take you through my 10 actionable steps to never feel underestimated again.In this video:00:00 Intro00:30 Step #1 - Do you underestimate yourself?02:11 Step #2 - Be a giver04:26 Step #3 - Embrace the naysayers06:43 Step #4 - Increase your confidence08:59 Step #5 - Stop people pleasing10:01 Step #6 - Learn your smart phrases11:14 Step #7 - Stay calm and move on12:13 Step #8 - Stay humble13:01 Step #9 - Focus on yourself14:51 Step #10 - Always be learningLinks in this Video:Blog Post: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/underestimatedHow to Become a Networking Master with Jordan Harbinger: https://youtu.be/6lkWWBBMnpYHow to Compliment Someone Without Feeling Fake: https://youtu.be/BfDTqw9Fr5g5 Ways to Be More Interesting: https://youtu.be/xzvqkaSDJNs14 Social Skills to Help You Win in Life: https://youtu.be/4nm3vgg8k-0Cigna's 2018 Loneliness Index Study: https://www.cigna.com/about-us/newsroom/news-and-views/press-releases/2018/new-cigna-study-reveals-loneliness-at-epidemic-levels-in-america******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/#vanessavanedwards #underestimated #selfesteem #scienceofpeople #misunderstood Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you know how to psych yourself up and enjoy yourself? The most successful people have professional warm-up routines. Find the best way to motivate yourself before doing your next big thing. I’m going to share the science of how to get yourself psyched up. I think EVERYONE should have a pre-performance warm-up routine that will gets you to the optimum level of excitement. Self-motivation is the force that keeps pushing you to go on.Before every show, TV host Stephen Colbert has a ritual. And it's a little superstitious. * He rings a little bell in his bathroom. * As he walks toward the stage, he waits for one of his writers to tell him, "Squeeze out some sunshine." * He does a two-handed shake with his production assistant. * He gets one Altoid.* He stands in place just offstage and slaps himself in the face twice. * He gets one particular style of Bic pen (assistants scour office supply stores looking for them), chews on the cap, and puts it back in the box. * Finally, he makes eye contact with his band leader before walking on stage. If it works for Colbert, might it work for you? Well...not the slapping yourself part, but definitely the psych-up routine!Want more details onhttps://www.scienceofpeople.com/psyched-up/00:00 Intro01:20 Why you need a psych-up routine02:29 Use imagery03:57 Remove triggers05:18 Harness a little rivalry06:23 Power nostalgia07:20 Anxious is good09:00 No defensive pessimism09:45 Bonus Idea: Create a performance playlistVideo mentioned: 5 steps to Create the Perfect Playlist for Working https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YSCH1CPGFA&t=5sCheck out Daniel McGinn's book- Psyched Up: How the Science of Mental Preparation Can Help You Succeed https://www.amazon.com/Psyched-Up-Science-Preparation-Succeed/dp/159184830X******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you.With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed.Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more.👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train...******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically.Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hi Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our inner critic can be harsh, but it's there for a reason. Switching up the inner critic to work in your favor can help put you into a positive mindset.In this video, Kindra and I talk about how your inner narrative can actually serve you and the decision to see your story from a different perspective is best to avoid an iceberg moment through the steps mentioned in Kindra's book.Check out Kindra's book: https://www.chooseyourstorychangeyourlife.com/In this video: 0:00 Intro3:14 Your inner critic3:34 Changing the narrative9:06 Your old story vs your new story10:58 Money stories13:40 "Should" stories14:55 Verbal and emotional iceberg moments20:49 Kindra's final thoughts******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/#innercritic #positivemindset #innernarrative #yourstory #chooseyourstorychangeyourlife #kindrahall #vanessavanedwards #captivate #captivatebook #cues #cuesbook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices