Reviving the Handie with Ashley Manta
Handjobs get a bad rap, but today we're bringing them back! In this episode, certified sexologist Ashley Manta joins us to explore why hand jobs deserve more respect. We break down her go-to techniques: the Pepper Grinder, the Bottle Rocket, why a baby bottle warmer might be the most underrated tool in your nightstand, and how foreskin changes the game. We also get into what to do when your partner goes soft, why mindset matters, as well as cannabis and sex and what it's like inside Desire Cruises and Hedonism. ✨ Special Offers: ✨Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25%Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, PhexxJump to the Good Stuff:05:35 – Ashley — sexologist, author, Betty Dodson mentee07:02 – Why hand jobs get such bad PR09:00 – The 3 non-negotiables: two hands, lube, time10:35 – Setting the scene - the "giver's mindset"12:20 – Best positions18:45 – The baby bottle warmer lube hack22:23 – Signature moves: the Pepper Grinder & Bottle Rocket27:06 – Foreskin 10130:55 – Inside Desire Cruises & Hedonism49:31 – Cannabis, CBD myths, and the indica/sativa debatePleasure Highlights:Two hands, lube, and time are the foundation.Confidence matters more than technique.Soft doesn't mean over.Most CBD-only products are underdosed marketing.Consent and intentionality around substances are non-negotiable.Connect with Ashley Manta:Instagram @cannasexualWebsite: ashleymanta.comCourses: elevatedintimacy.comBook: Merry Jane's The CBD Solution: Sex: How Cannabis, CBD, and Other Plant Allies Can Improve Your Everyday LifeEnhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE.Connect with Jordan D’Nelle:Facebook @jordandnelleInstagram @jordandnelleInstagram @TheVVVPodcastTikTok @jordandnelleYoutube @jordandnelleWebsite: Jordan D’NelleEmail: [email protected] this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.comLeave a review on iTunes.Subscribe & Follow on socials!Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast:Apple PodcastSpotify PodcastYoutube @jordandnelle*Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated.Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.PhexxINDICATIONPhexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex.IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATIONRare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx.Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis.Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring.Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction.For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com.Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch.EVFM-PHX-000068
