Emotional Safety and What it has to do with Marriage & Sex

Micro-cheatingThis type of cheating involves developing inappropriate and intimate connections outside your relationship. Micro-cheating is subtle and doesn’t involve physical intimacy. But the lies, secrecy, and betrayal that come with micro-cheating can destroy a relationship.1.    Secretly messaging someone2.    Meeting with someone without your partner knowing3.    Being emotionally attached to someone that’s not your spouse4.    Saying things like “if I weren’t married.”5.    Maintaining contact with your _____________________6.    ___________________ joking7.    Creating a dating profile8.    Trying to impress someone you have a crush on (Dressing up for them)9.    Coming off as single when you aren’t10. Sending someone photos of yourself11. Having secret ____________________________-12. Discussing your intimate desire with someone who isn’t your spouse13. Following inappropriate accounts on social media14. ___________________ with someone that’s not your spouse in person or by text  Support the show

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How to tell Your Marriage is a Priority in your life?  1.                  It’s in the budget.2.                  It’s on your schedule.3.                  In your __________________.4.                  In your prayers.Support the show

10 COMMANDMENTS FOR MARRIED COUPLES ON SOCIAL MEDIA 1. DON’T SPEND MORE TIME ON SOCIAL MEDIA THAN YOU SHOULD. 2. NEVER HIDE THINGS FROM YOUR SPOUSE ON SOCIAL MEDIA.3. SHARE YOUR PASSWORDS WITH YOUR SPOUSE.  4. NEVER EVER BEFRIEND ANYONE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX YOUR SPOUSE IS UNCOMFORTABLE WITH.5. UNFRIEND ANYONE WHO CROSSES NORMAL BOUNDARIES. 6. POST PICTURES. 7. DON’T BE AFRAID TO PROCLAIM YOUR LOVE FOR YOUR SPOUSE ON SOCAL MEDIA. 8. NEVER USE YOUR STATUS OR POST TO COMPLAIN ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE. 9. THINK BEFORE YOU TYPE. 10. NO MATTER HOW MANY FRIENDS AND FOLLOWERS YOU HAVE on social media, remember that your #1 friend should be your spouse. Support the show

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Things that could be killing your sex life …Feeling unappreciated Not being pursued outside the bedroom. (Not feeling pursued or desired.)Not talking about sex StressMenopauseMedications (beta blockers, birth control, antidepressants, blood pressure meds)Depression TirednessNot feeling pursued or desired. BusynessGetting stuck in a rutPoor health and poor hygieneED and low Testosterone PornNot feeling emotionally safe Letting your children sleep in your bed every nightPhysical limitations Support the show

Sometimes "I love you" sounds exactly like ... "I love you."But other times, it sounds like...Be careful.Text me when you get there.I was just thinking of you.Remember that time we.....?I miss you.Love spending time with you.Can I do something to help?I'll be right there.I'm worried about you.I'm listening.Yes, I have time.I saw this and thought of you.I know this is your favorite.I want to hear all about it. Keeps mouth shut.I'm so thankful for you.I'll always love you, no matter what.Support the show

1.    Have a relationship with God. 2.    Love God before your ___________________. 3.    Pray for one another.  4.    ____________________ together 5.    Go to Church together 6.    Read the Bible together. 7.    Be reminded you’re married to one of God’s kids 8.    Serve others (and one another) together 9.    _____________________ one another. Support the show

1. Focus on God more.2. Build your F__________________3. Date more.4. Improve _____________________5. Praise and Encourage more.6. Be more Open and Honest.7. Get _________________________Support the show

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