Can We Talk Politics at Work, of Course, We Still Have to Work Together
Politics has a way of finding its way into the workplace, whether we invite it or not.Following the 2026 midterm elections, Kelly and I sat down to talk about something that’s become increasingly difficult: having conversations with people who don’t necessarily agree with us.We started with the election results, the political pendulum, and the effects that changes in government have on business. Tariffs, regulations, project costs, and now artificial intelligence all have consequences that extend well beyond Washington. Those consequences eventually find their way into our organizations, our teams, and our conversations.But somewhere along the way, the discussion became less about politics and more about people.Regardless of how we voted, we still have to come back to work together.And that means finding ways to understand each other without needing to agree on everything.For years, we’ve treated politics, religion, and other personal subjects as things that shouldn’t be discussed at work. There are understandable reasons for those boundaries. But people don’t arrive at work without their beliefs, experiences, fears, or concerns. Those things influence how we communicate, how we interpret decisions, and how we relate to the people around us.This is part of what I call human middleware: the often invisible work people do to manage relationships, bridge differences, interpret intentions, and keep organizations functioning.It’s also a form of Organizational Gravity. The more tension, uncertainty, and misunderstanding people carry, the more effort it takes to accomplish even ordinary things.We talk about why creating room for difficult conversations matters, and why understanding someone is not the same as agreeing with them. A workplace can allow people to speak openly without turning every disagreement into a debate. Sometimes the most valuable thing a leader can do is listen, recognize where someone is coming from, and leave the conversation there.What happens when AI enters the conversation?Our discussion eventually turns to artificial intelligence, regulation, and the uncomfortable questions surrounding the technology’s future.We explore Anthropic’s recent IPO filings, including warnings about the potential for catastrophic or existential risks from sufficiently advanced AI systems. That leads to a discussion about what responsible governance should look like, and whether the pace of technological advancement is getting ahead of our ability to understand its consequences.But there’s a more personal question underneath all of it.What happens to the relationships that make work meaningful when we begin automating more of the work itself?Kelly raises something I think deserves much more attention: the value of human connection isn’t always something we can measure.We spend an extraordinary amount of time working with other people. We develop friendships, build trust, disagree, collaborate, and occasionally drive each other crazy. Those relationships become part of our lives, not simply an output of our jobs.AI may change how we accomplish work. It may reduce the time required for certain activities. But that doesn’t eliminate our need to connect with one another.And maybe that’s something worth protecting as we build the next generation of organizations.A few things we’ve gotten wrong along the wayIn our regular look at Organizational Gravity, I also talk about something more personal: my own failure résumé.Earlier in my career, I spent a lot of time focused on execution. Deliver the project, hit the budget, get the result. That approach was often rewarded, but it came with a cost I didn’t fully appreciate until much later.Sometimes the relationships mattered more than the result I was pushing so hard to achieve.Kelly shares a very different experience. Early in her career, someone told her she would never get anywhere because she was too nice. Rather than accept that advice, she made kindness and understanding central to how she worked with others.It’s a useful contrast between two approaches to leadership, and a reminder that being effective doesn’t require being harsh.We also talk about the people who help us recognize our own behavior. I share some recent feedback from Audrey about trying so hard to communicate a message that I was actually making it harder for people to hear.Sometimes saying less accomplishes more.That brings us to Jefferson Fisher’s communication advice: allowing yourself a breath before responding to something difficult. Simple advice, and apparently something I still need a lot of practice with.Naturally, we somehow manage to connect that lesson to an electric fence, a jumping cholla cactus, and a couple of parenting decisions that probably deserve their own episode.The thought we’re leaving withWe don’t have to agree on politics. We don’t have to share the same approach to leadership, technology, or organizational change.But we do have to find ways to work together.The relationships, conversations, trust, and occasional uncomfortable feedback that make that possible are easy to overlook because they don’t fit neatly into a project plan or a performance dashboard.They are human middleware.And as technology makes more of our work easier to automate, I suspect that very human work will become even more important.Have the conversations. Be willing to listen. Know when to walk away from a debate. And above all, be kind to the people you’re working with.In this episode* 00:24 — The midterm elections and why politics affects business* 03:24 — Political extremes, organizational change, and the J-curve* 09:55 — Politics at work, psychological safety, and human middleware* 14:16 — Human connection and what AI can’t easily replace* 18:22 — AI regulation, Anthropic’s IPO filings, and technology risk* 21:45 — My failure résumé and lessons from a career focused on execution* 24:17 — Kelly’s experience with being told she was too nice to succeed* 28:59 — Leadership feedback, communication, and knowing when to stop pushing* 30:25 — Parenting lessons involving an electric fence and a cactus* 32:50 — Jefferson Fisher, difficult conversations, and the power of a pause* 35:03 — Why difficult conversations are still worth havingSources and further reading2026 midterm election results: The Associated Press confirmed that Democrats won control of both chambers in the November 3 elections. The newly elected Congress will take office in January 2027. Associated Press — Calling Control of Congress in the 2026 Midterms.AI risks and accountability: Anthropic’s November 2, 2026 amended SEC registration statement discusses the possible catastrophic or existential risks of advanced AI, alongside operational, financial, and regulatory risks. Anthropic — SEC Form S-1/A.State AI legislation: The National Conference of State Legislatures tracks proposed and enacted AI legislation, including requirements around transparency, oversight, responsible use, and discrimination. NCSL — Artificial Intelligence Legislation Database.Psychological safety: Amy Edmondson’s research examines the relationship between interpersonal trust, team learning, and the ability to speak up without fear of embarrassment or punishment. Edmondson (1999), Psychological Safety and Learning Behavior in Work Teams.The importance of human connection: The U.S. Surgeon General’s advisory examines the relationship between social connection, health, and well-being. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services — Social Connection.Communication and conflict: Jefferson Fisher’s The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More explores practical strategies for responding thoughtfully, navigating disagreement, and improving conversations. Jefferson Fisher — The Next Conversation.Organizational Gravity explores the forces that shape how organizations function, the complexity that builds along the way, and the people who make it all work.If this conversation resonated with you, subscribe for free, share it with someone you work… Get full access to Organizational Gravity at organizationalgravity.substack.com/subscribe