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Why is my body changing, and what am I supposed to do about it? It's one of the questions I hear most in midlife and menopause spaces.My friend Val Schonberg, RDN, MSCP is back on the podcast to talk about her new book, The Weight of Menopause. We get into why we still don't fully know why so many women gain weight in menopause, what the research says (and doesn't say) about estrogen and hormone therapy for weight, and how weight loss drugs keep moving the goalposts.We also talk about the big space between "it's 100% preventable if you try hard enough" and "there's nothing you can do." That middle ground is where you can support your heart, bones and blood sugar with patterns you can keep for life, and where body image work and your values come in.You don't have to make weight a proxy for health, at any stage.In this episode:• Why low estrogen alone doesn't explain midlife weight changes• What hormone therapy can and can't do for weight• How a weight-neutral approach supports your health• Why your values belong in the body image conversationCONNECT WITH VALWebsite: https://valschonberg.comBook: The Weight of MenopauseJOIN MEJoin me live on November 22 for my free masterclass, How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause (without letting the scale run the show): https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeatBook a connection call with me: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFFREE SUPPORTGrab my Free Guide: Your Doctor Said 'Lose Weight', Now What?RELATED EPISODESEpisode 136 Health vs. Weight: Debunking the Biggest Wellness Myth with Val Schonberg, RDEpisode 210 Body Image in Midlife and the GLP-1 Era with Dr. Charlotte MarkeyEpisode 209 Menopause Joint Pain: Estrogen, Hormones & Food MythsWhat did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

When Deb Benfield joined me last December, so many listeners told me they had never heard the term internalized ageism. And once they had, they couldn't unsee it. So I invited Deb back to go deeper.Deb and I talk about how the stories we absorbed about aging (hello, Mrs. Roper's muumuu) shape how we feel about our own changing bodies in perimenopause and menopause. We get into the aging hierarchy and how it piles on top of the body hierarchy, why menopause weight gain gets read as "letting yourself go," and why so many pro-aging influencers still look like the same old ideal, just with silver hair.We also talk about what helps: moving your body in ways you enjoy, rest, connection, and making health choices from your values instead of from fear. And Deb offers a beautiful reframe on independence that makes room for interdependence and asking for help.If this conversation stirs something up for you, that's a good sign. Noticing the default programming is where change starts.CONNECT WITH DEBWebsite: https://www.debrabenfield.comUnapologetic Aging (Deb's book): https://www.debrabenfield.com/bookInstagram: @agingbodyliberationJOIN MEJoin Deb and me live in the Midlife Feast Community on November 18 for a deeper conversation about internalized ageism and longevity culture. The recording will be available to watch anytime in The Feaster Library.Join us here:https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/themidlifefeastcommunityBook a connection call with me: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFFREE SUPPORTFree Guide - Your Doctor Said Lose Weight - Now What? https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/now-whatRELATED EPISODESEpisode 173 How To Age Without Apology with Deb Benfield RDNEpisode 97 The Impact of Ageism on Body Image in Midlife with Deb Benfield, MEd, RDNWhat did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

October is a full month around here, and I didn't want World Osteoporosis Day to slip by without bringing Rebekah Rotstein back to the table. Rebekah is the founder of Buff Bones, and she has been living with osteoporosis since her diagnosis at 28, so she knows this topic from both sides.Bone health finally has a seat at the table in midlife conversations, which I love. It also means a lot more noise. In this episode we clear some of it up:• What bone density means and what a DEXA scan measures (and why full-body DEXA centres aren't the same thing)• Why the years around your final period matter so much for your bones• How hard strength training needs to feel to stimulate bone, and whether you have to lift heavy• Where jumping and impact fit, and why they aren't right for every body• Weighted vests, vibration plates and grip strength, and what the evidence saysIf you've been worried that you're not doing enough for your bones, I hope this conversation leaves you clearer and a lot calmer.Have a bone health question for Rebekah or me? Send it my way.CONNECT WITH REBEKAHWebsite: https://buff-bones.comJOIN MEStart your 7-day trial: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrialBook a connection call with me: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFFREE SUPPORTGrab my Free Menopause Nutrition Guide + 10 Recipes: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/MenopauseNutritionGuideRELATED EPISODESEpisode 114 Beyond the Metrics: Getting Intuitive About Bone Health with Rebekah RotsteinEpisode 68 Got Buff Bones? How to Improve Your Bone Fitness & Reduce Your Fracture Risk with Rebekah RotsteinEpisode 65 The Impact of Movement on Your Bone Health in Menopause with Niamh DalyWhat did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

This year's World Menopause Day theme is chronic pain in midlife, so I'm following up my conversation with Robyn Kievit NP RD (ep 209) on hormones and joint pain by walking you through the differences between pain and inflammation, and sharing five evidence-based tips for managing pain in midlife and menopause. I also share why I'm cautious about the collagen, turmeric and eggshell membrane supplements filling so many cupboards.If you're living with chronic pain in perimenopause or menopause, I hope this helps you spend less time worrying about every bite and more time adding in the things that work.JOIN MEWatch the hormone therapy Q&A with Robyn Kievit inside the Midlife Feast Community. The recording is available to watch anytime in The Feaster Library.Start your 7-day trial: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrialBook a connection call with me: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFFREE SUPPORTGrab my Free Menopause Nutrition Guide + 10 Recipes: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/MenopauseNutritionGuideRELATED EPISODESEpisode 209 Menopause Joint Pain: Estrogen, Hormones & Food MythsEpisode 204 Day 4: Add, Don't Subtract - A Better Way to Think About Menopause NutritionEpisode 200 Oatmeal, Overthinking, and Why Food Feels So Complicated in MenopauseWhat did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

For most of my life, I believed that changing my body was the answer to how I felt in it. As a teenager, after my pregnancies, and again in perimenopause, I was sure that losing weight would finally let me stop thinking about my body. It didn't, and the research tells us I'm far from alone.Today I'm joined by Dr. Charlotte Markey, body image scientist and psychology professor at Rutgers University. We dig into what body image is, why weight loss so rarely delivers the comfort it promises, and how GLP-1 medications are changing the body image landscape.We talk about:• Charlotte's simple definition of body image: how comfortable you are in your own skin• Why body dissatisfaction often moves to a new target after weight loss• Her research showing that people with more body acceptance felt less pull toward GLP-1s• Informed consent, body autonomy, and what to ask yourself before starting a medication to feel better in your body• The freedom in remembering that we don't work in Hollywood• Why acceptance needs a rebrandIf you've ever believed a smaller body would finally bring you peace, this conversation is for you.CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTEWebsite: https://www.thebodyimagebook.comInstagram: @char_markeyJOIN MEStart your 7-day trial: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrialBook a connection call with me: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFFREE SUPPORTUn-Diet Your Mindset Guide: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindsetRELATED EPISODESEpisode 197: Menopause and Body Image: How to Accept Your Changing Body with Alli Spotts-De-Lazzer, LMFT, CEDS-C() Episode 186: GLP-1s, Intuitive Eating & Finding Food Freedom: A Conversation with Sam Previte RDEpisode 109: The Body Acceptance Mistake That’s Keeping You Stuck in the SuckWhat did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

Joint pain, stiffness and those tin man mornings are some of the most common symptoms of menopause, yet they don't get the same air time as hot flashes and mood swings. With World Menopause Day on October 18 focusing on chronic pain this year, I invited Robyn Kievit, NP, RD, CEDS, MSCP, the first dietitian to become a nurse practitioner, to help me unpack what is going on in our joints and muscles.We talk about why estrogen matters for muscles, joints and connective tissue, why the ups and downs of perimenopause can feel harder than life after menopause, and what the research says about hormone therapy and pain. We also dig into the testosterone hype versus the evidence, what to consider if you are thinking about starting hormones later, and why it is okay if hormones don't work for you.We also put on our dietitian hats, and you'll hear why no single food is inflammatory or anti-inflammatory, why your overall pattern of eating matters more than any one meal, and how to think about the supplements piling up in your cupboard.If your joints and muscles are aching, I hope this conversation helps you feel less alone and more prepared for your next appointment.CONNECT WITH ROBYNWebsite: https://robynkievit.comBeyond Nutrition course for dietitians and clinicians: https://robynkievit.com/course (use code JENN10)JOIN MEJoin Robyn and me live in the Midlife Feast Community for a hormone therapy Q&A on October 14. The recording will be avaialble to watch anytime in The Feaster Library.Start your 7-day trial: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrialBook a connection call with me: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFFREE SUPPORTGrab my Free Menopause Nutrition Guide + 10 Recipes: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/MenopauseNutritionGuideRELATED EPISODESEpisode 164 Autoimmune Disease in Midlife: Beyond Diet Culture Myths with Dr. Alison Danby ND: Episode 67  Hot Flashes 101: Can you eat to beat the heat?Episode 142 Non-Hormonal Alternatives to HRT with Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz: What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

If you've ever wondered whether your "healthy eating" has started to feel more like anxiety, this episode is for you.This week I'm joined by Jessica Thiefels, host of Nope, That's Not Normal, to talk about disordered eating. That's the wide, often invisible space between a relaxed relationship with food and eating disorders. Jess shares how a restrictive healing protocol in her twenties slowly turned into a decade of rigid eating, and the moment she said out loud, "I think I'm straddling the line."I open up about my own story too, including the food lists I once handed out to my patients. Together we talk about some of the signs to watch for like rigidity, anxiety, and a "cleaner" standard you can never reach. We also get into why midlife is such a vulnerable time: a lifetime of body dissatisfaction meets intense menopause nutrition messaging, and women are praised for the very behaviours that are wearing them down.Jess is hosting the first Disordered Eating Awareness Week, October 19 to 23. I'm on the midlife panel on October 20, and it's free to join.If this conversation stirs something up, please be gentle with yourself. You don't have to figure it out alone.Join Disordered Eating Awareness Week (free): https://disorderedeatingawarenessweek.comWant support?Book a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me): https://f.mtr.cool/HNVSNHTOCUTry the Midlife Feast Community free for 7 days: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrialFree support to get you started:Un-Diet Your Mindset: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindsetFood Guilt Decoder: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/FoodGuiltDecoderRelated episodes:#113 Clean Eating Pitfalls in Midlife & Menopause with Dr. Morgan Francis: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/15069896#55 Raising the Red Flag About Eating Disorders in Midlife with Val Schonberg, RD: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/12276579#94 How to Trade Wellness Culture for Well-being in Midlife with Christy Harrison, RD: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/14177909What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

Most of us can still remember the diet ads from our youth. We can't remember why we walked into the kitchen, but we can remember the jingle.My guest this week is Lu Chekowsky, an Emmy Award winning creative director who spent her career inside the industry, spending time at MTV and Facebook, all while quietly struggling with her own body. Her memoir, Don't Buy What I'm Selling, traces the origin of how those messages shaped her, and how she found her way back out.We talk about the ads that shaped Gen X, what really happens in the room when a campaign gets built, and why Lu says we are outnumbered. She means that as a kindness.If you have ever wondered why the food noise is so loud, and why diet culture is everwhere, this one will explain a lot.Learn more about Lu and where to buy her book at https://www.lchekowsky.com/Related episodes:Menopause and Body Image: How to Accept Your Changing Body with Alli Spotts-De-LazzerWhy You Don't Trust Yourself Around Food (and How to Rebuild It) with Fiona SutherlandDay 1: How to Un-Diet in Midlife and MenopauseNeed help un-dieting your way out from diet culture? Book a 20-minute Midlife & Strategy Session Call: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFExlore the Feaster community and find food freedom and body confidence: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/themidlifefeastcommunityWhat did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

Welcome to a new season of The Midlife Feast! I'm kicking off this season by naming the mindset that might be making things harder: treating your body, midlife, and menopause like an ongoing project to manage. I walk through what that costs, how it shows up in real life, and how we can shift from obsessive optimization to a steadier partnership with our bodies, including:• the core question that changes everything: what if your body wasn’t a project to solve? • the moving finish line and why “enough” never arrives • the audit mode where meals and movement become performance metrics • how tracking, wearables, and nonstop data can disrupt body attunement • the betrayal narrative  and my own reminder that these thoughts can show up even after years of intuitive eating • shifting from project manager to partner and the questions that create ease  Related EpisodesThe One Thing Menopause Dietitians Want You to Know About Nutrition with Laura Clark, RDWhy You Don't Trust Yourself Around Food (and How to Rebuild It) with Fiona SutherlandHow to Appreciate Your Changing Menopause Body with Dr. Charlotte OrdWant more support?Free Un-Diet Your Mindset Guide→ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindsetJoin my Group Coaching Community free for 7 days → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrialBook a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me) → https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFAnd if you've loved today's conversation and found it helpful, please share it with a friend who needs to hear this and leave a review wherever you listen to podcasts. What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.

Welcome to Day 5, the final episode of the Midlife & Menopause Un-Dieting Mini-Series!Over the last four days, we've explored four pillars that can help you build a more trusting, flexible relationship with food: understanding, self-compassion, attunement, and gentle nutrition.But what happens when you put them all together?In this episode, we're looking at the fear that stops many people from letting go of food rules: If I stop dieting, does that mean I stop caring about my health?The answer is no!You'll learn how to use nutrition knowledge without turning it into another set of rules, and how to care for your health without making food a full-time job.Because the alternative to dieting isn't giving up. It's finding a way of eating that actually works for real life.Free support to get you started:Un-Diet Your Mindset → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindsetFood Guilt Decoder → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/FoodGuiltDecoderWant more support?Try the Midlife Feast Community free for 7 days → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrialBook a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me) → https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SFRelated episodes:Day 1 → https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19715276Day 2 → https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19720938Day 3 →https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19721372Day 4 →https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19728345What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!🖥️ Join me on November 22nd for a free masterclass: How to Eat for Your Health in Menopause without letting the scale run the show Save your spot here ➡️ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/howtoeat📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now!  Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.