Ep. 25 Toxic People

This deeply moving final episode of The Mentored Podcast, Season One, explores the profound legacy of our co-host and mentor, Martin Sanders. Joining Carson in the studio is Martin’s son Bo, who carries forward much of his father’s wisdom, humour, and unshakable commitment to developing others. With his father Martin’s unexpected death in January 2024, the conversation is a heartfelt tribute and a powerful reflection on what it means to leave a lasting mark on those you love and lead. Martin’s son Bo offers a glimpse into the man behind the mic — the father who instilled values, the mentor who shaped lives, and the leader whose influence transcended generations. He shares personal stories about their relationship, from moments that defined his path to leadership to the tender wisdom Martin imparted along the way. Listeners will hear about the resilience of someone’s legacy and the beautiful blend of grief, gratitude, and inspiration that comes with it. What does it mean for a leader’s lessons to live on after they’re gone? How do we honour those lessons in our daily decisions and relationships? This episode powerfully reminds us that leadership isn’t about titles—it’s about impact. Martin Sanders understood this better than most, and his influence endures through his family, friends, and countless mentees. If you’ve been searching for clarity on how to live and lead in a meaningful way, this conversation will inspire you to rethink what true leadership looks like. It’s a tribute, a conversation, and an invitation to reflect on your legacy. Don’t miss this special episode and the wrap-up of Season One of Mentored.

What does family mean to you? For years, we’ve stuck to a picture-perfect concept of family, but does that image serve us anymore? On this last episode for Season One of  Mentored Podcast, Carson and Martin look at family issues encountered when mentoring leaders and how you might be more like family to others. Family issues can profoundly impact a leader's decision-making, focus, and emotional well-being. Understanding this connection is crucial for mentors developing leaders. Let's have a conversation to learn how to create an environment where leaders feel supported. Carson and Martin will be tackling big questions like: What if the family you’ve longed for could be built? How can we get past those negative voices from our upbringing? Is it okay for Christian leaders to admit their families aren’t picture-perfect? (Spoiler alert: Yes, it is.) Why is it that people try to control their image and its impact on laughter. Martin and Carson also share some personal stories—because, hey, even these two grandpas have had their moments with their families. If you’ve felt the pressure to have it all together or wonder how to show up as “family” for others, this conversation is for you. Take a break, pour a coffee, and join us as we unpack the complexities of family, leadership, mentoring and authenticity. 🎧 Listen now—and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Because family? It’s more than blood. It’s building connections that shape a better tomorrow. ❤️

In our latest episode of the Mentored Podcast, we're diving into Toxic People—how to identify them, understand their impact, and mentor leaders dealing with these tricky personalities in their teams.

Are you ready to turn the tables on temptation and transform it from a stumbling block into a stepping stone for growth? Mentored Podcast episode 24, "From Lure to Learn: Temptation," is designed just for you. Temptation is a challenge that all leaders face, regardless of their position or experience. No one is exempt from its lure. Embracing this reality, Martin and Carson approach the subject with humility and wisdom, transforming it into an opportunity for growth and strengthening their leadership journey. In this episode, Martin and Carson explore the heart of temptation, its spiritual strategy, seductive allure, and the powerful lessons it holds for those willing to listen. They will unlock some secrets to recognizing temptation's voice and uncover methods to resist its pull while maintaining your spiritual integrity and leadership. As leaders, we're often faced with choices that test our resolve. This episode will empower you to see these moments as opportunities for growth, drawing on wisdom from James 1:12: "Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him." Join us as mentors Carson and Martin share stories, insights, and practical advice that will strengthen your leadership and deepen your faith. Let’s explore how to turn temptation’s lure into a valuable lesson that enhances your personal and spiritual journey. Tune in, and let’s learn together how to lead with wisdom, grace, and unshakeable faith.

In this episode, Martin and Carson share their personal experiences, illustrating the pivotal role of feedback in leadership development. Join us for a lively and approachable discussion on how to provide constructive feedback and the consequences of missing this crucial step. Perfect for team leaders and mentors eager to foster growth and success within their teams.

The Mentored Podcast is designed to give you informed insights into things that you have wondered about or need but are unsure how to get to the next level. So, in this episode, we’re talking about something our podcast hosts are really good at - leadership blunders. Step into the world of leadership wisdom with this compelling episode of the Mentored Podcast. Our seasoned mentors, Carson and Martin, will candidly explore the realm of leadership blunders, shedding light on the common missteps that can derail even the most well-intentioned leaders. This episode offers awareness to help create a blueprint for avoiding these all-too-common errors, from the pitfalls of failing to cast a clear vision to the disconnect that arises when leaders lose touch with their teams. Uncover the importance of focusing on the right priorities and maintaining strong relational connections with your staff. Through insightful discussions and personal anecdotes, our mentors provide practical guidance that empowers you to lead with clarity and purpose. Whether at the helm of an organization or aspiring to enhance your leadership skills, this episode delivers actionable advice to help you navigate your leadership journey with confidence and grace. Tune in to transform your approach and become the leader you are meant to be.

Unlock the Hidden Lessons in Leadership found in Failure Tune in to the latest episode of The Mentored Podcast, where Carson Pue and Martin Sanders we dive deep into the often-untold stories of failure in leadership. Discover how setbacks can be powerful stepping stones to success as they explore real-life experiences and practical insights. Failure has a broad spectrum but is primarily the result of unmet expectations. Carson and Martin speak about how these expectations can be both external and internal. They bring insights from thirty-four different books on failure as well as their experience mentoring leaders about their failures. Both of these season mentors believe we all fail at some time, and that failure can be the foundation of growth. In mentoring we use  an empowerment model where we say to men tees that the can succeed widely and fail miserably and we are going to celebrate both. Leadership is not about perfection; it’s about learning from your failures and growing stronger. So, join us for a conversation that will inspire and equip you to turn challenges into growth opportunities. Whether you're an established leader or just starting your journey, this episode offers valuable takeaways to enhance your leadership skills. Don't miss out on these transformative lessons in The Mentored Podcast. Listen now and embrace the path to becoming a more resilient, insightful leader.

In this insightful episode of the Mentored Podcast, hosts Carson and Martin tackle a topic that often remains in the shadows but profoundly impacts leaders—regret. The Mentored Podcast was created to share mentoring wisdom and assist in the development of leaders. Whether you're a seasoned leader or just starting, this episode offers valuable insights that empower you to turn past regrets into stepping stones for future success. Listen today and take the next step in your leadership development. What you will learn in this conversation: Understanding Regret: Carson and Martin define regret as more than just "what ifs." They dig deeper to uncover its inclusive and multifaceted nature. They emphasize that it's normal for leaders to have regrets and that acknowledging this is the first step toward growth. Processing Regret: Learn how to identify and process your regrets. These two experienced mentors offer practical strategies for moving forward and transforming these feelings into powerful learning experiences. Personal Stories: Carson and Martin candidly share their own leadership regrets and how they navigated these emotions. Their stories provide a relatable and empathetic perspective, encouraging leaders to reflect on their own journeys. Encouraging Transparency: The episode advocates for more openness among mentors and leaders about their regrets. By fostering an environment of transparency, leaders can turn regret into a catalyst for growth and improvement. Come Join us now and tune in now to gain a fresh perspective on regrets and how they can be transformative in your leadership role.  Don't miss out on this enriching discussion.

Episode 19 Summary: Reframing Reality in Mentorship Welcome to Episode 19 of "The Mentored Podcast." Carson Pue and Martin Sanders, two seasoned mentors, bring their wealth of experience to the recording studio, sharing practical wisdom on how to help leaders. This episode explores the importance of reframing reality when mentoring leaders. Join Martin and Carson, two seasoned mentors, as they explore how wise voices and mentors play a pivotal role in shaping the narratives that guide our lives. Warning: This episode might hit close to home for many listeners, offering perspective and insights that could reshape how you view your own story. Key Highlights: Pause and Refresh: Discover why Carson and Martin frequently encourage leaders to press pause and reassess their perspectives on reality. The Power of Narratives: Examine how mentors help individuals scrutinize the stories they live by and how these stories influence their actions and decisions. Personal Stories: Some women find themselves trapped by their mothers' impressions, while many professionals cling to outdated narratives from decades ago. Reframe and Grow: Learn how mentors can help update these narratives, helping leaders see themselves as they truly are today. Workplace Challenges: Martin and Carson discuss how work environments can grind leaders down, focusing only on weaknesses. Mentors can help leaders address these dysfunctions and reframe their narratives about their administration to reflect the truth rather than organizational press releases. Core Identity: Your true identity isn't built on the narratives handed to you by others but rather on your spiritual centre. Questioning Values: The episode concludes with a meaningful conversation about the values we assign to different aspects of our narratives and the importance of questioning them. Tune in now to gain valuable perspectives on leadership mentorship and personal growth. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how to reframe your reality and step into your true potential. Listen to Episode 19 --- Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments or join the conversation on social media with #MentoredPodcast or on Facebook. We look forward to hearing how this episode resonates with you.

In this episode of the Mentored Podcast, we sit down with Carson Pue and Martin Sanders, two seasoned mentors who have dedicated their lives to uplifting and empowering leaders. Key Takeaways The Need for Encouragers: Everyone needs someone to uplift and encourage them, especially leaders. Personal Stories: Carson and Martin share impactful moments when they were encouraged by others, demonstrating the power of support. Mentorship Insight: Mentoring isn't just about affirmation; it’s about genuinely encouraging leaders by saying, "You have got what it takes, and it is going to be harder than you think." Roles of Mentors: One of the primary roles of a mentor is to encourage younger leaders, helping them gain perspective and confidence. Speaking Life: By speaking life into others, mentors can help individuals gain a broader perspective and overcome challenges. Call to Action Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation. Listen to the full episode on our podcast and discover how encouragement can transform leadership. Tune in now and empower yourself with the wisdom of Carson Pue and Martin Sanders!