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As if losing someone you love isn't bad enough, how do you handle the grief and the stress that is created when your loved one leaves a mess behind? This can be a literal mess of clutter and collections and cleaning out the deceased's property or the mess of taking care of unfinished business of life, insurance, bills, and legalities.

Many people become overwhelmed, and it can create stress, illness, and breakdown in relationships.

What do you do when you just want to be sad and process your grief, and you can't even get to it until the mess is cleaned up?

You call on Rachel Donnelly. After many experiences with loss, including the death of her parents at a young age, Rachel founded Black Dress Consultants, a consulting firm that helps individuals and families manage the unavoidable tasks and logistics of after loss and end-of-life.

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Rachel strategically manages the unavoidable tasks of after loss and end- of-life so that individuals and families can stop wondering what they should be doing and get back to the things that matter.

If you would like to find out more about Black Dress Consultants, you can contact Rachel at www.blackdressconsultants.com

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Sherrie Dunlevy- #Inspirationista, is a best selling author, speaker, podcast host. She is also the founder of the the "Graduating Grief Academy” and online support community.

Sherrie is on a mission to help grieving people step out of pain and step into living with purpose passion and joy.

To join the Graduating Grief positive support community Click here:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/gradgrief

To find out if you are ready to graduate from the pain of your grief, take the free quiz:

https://graduatinggrief.com/quiz

To order a copy of her best selling book “How Can I Help?” go to www.SherrieDunlevy.com/author.

To invite Sherrie to speak at your next event, conference or to book a "How Can I Help?"- Workshop at your business, hospital or school, contact Sherrie at [email protected]


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