The Curated Confidence

In episode 11 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews Alani Bankhead, a leadership coach, a former US Air Force service member, and a Senate candidate, as they discuss Alani's transition from military life to private coaching and her decision to run for the US Senate. Tune in to explore the idea that confidence is rooted in alignment and authenticity rather than performance.TIMESTAMPS00:00 Introduction to Curated Confidence00:55 Meet Alani Bankhead: From Military to Senate02:49 Alani's Military Journey and Transition05:27 Harnessing Weaknesses as Strengths07:59 Empowering Others and Running for Office09:25 Challenges and Resilience in Leadership15:44 The Call to Public Service24:33 Seeking Signs and Finding Purpose24:59 Embracing the Call to Serve25:52 Overcoming Personal Struggles27:18 The Power of Community and Support28:52 Aligning Actions with Purpose30:29 Self-Care and Personal Growth35:18 Confidence and Faith47:15 Final Thoughts and EncouragementQUOTES“The things I thought made me inferior were actually the things that unlocked my greatest successes.” -Alani Bankhead“My military career taught me discipline, sacrifice, and service — but it was the journey after the uniform that taught me how to help people unlearn silence and reclaim their voice.”-Alani Bankhead“I’m not enough, but God is. And that’s all I need to move forward.” -Alani BankheadSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticAlani BankheadLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanibankhead/ WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ 

In episode 10 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews Krista Donargo, a renowned coach specializing in psychology, performance, and leadership presence, as she shares her journey from the fashion and beauty world to real estate and how her creative, modern approach is reshaping the buying experience for today’s homeowners.Tune in for a conversation that illuminates the path to owning your story and expressing your true beauty from the inside out.TIMESTAMPS[00:03:25] Confidence in high-pressure environments.[00:04:41] Confidence under pressure.[00:10:12] Mindset's impact on daily life.[00:12:00] Intentional thinking and self-awareness.[00:16:49] Emotional connection in speaking.[00:20:21] Trust and connection in communication.[00:26:43] Mirror neurons and leadership.[00:31:21] Mindset coaching for high achievers.[00:32:47] Mindfulness practices for clarity.[00:37:41] Rebuilding confidence in graduate school.[00:42:06] Overcoming fear of speaking.[00:44:15] Confidence and self-awareness.[00:48:34] True confidence and connection.QUOTES"Being a woman is just so complicated in and of itself. And then being a woman as a business owner, as a public speaker, as an entrepreneur, it's a multi-layered onion." -English Black"True confidence is actually the opposite. It's about doubting yourself and then taking action even when you feel uncertain or afraid." -Krista Donargo"True confidence isn't loud, it's a line." -English BlackSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticKrista DonargoInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/krista.donargo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KristaDonargoActressLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/krista-donargo-0665808/  WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ 

In episode 9 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews Amy Jordan, founder and CEO of Wundabar Pilates, as she shares her journey from the entertainment industry to revolutionizing Pilates with her innovative approach to movement.Tune in for a conversation filled with inspiration, resilience, and unapologetic truths about owning your story and embodying your worth.TIMESTAMPS[00:03:09] Inside-out confidence building.[00:04:27-00:04:38] Self-worth and prioritizing self-care.[00:09:56] Body awareness and movement.[00:12:16] Trusting your intuition in leadership.[00:16:19] Movement as medicine.[00:19:30] Importance of movement for health.[00:24:23] Delegating tasks effectively.[00:26:13] Brand philosophy in scaling.[00:29:45] Healing through Pilates journey.[00:36:51] Understanding body integration.[00:37:32] Unconditional self-love and acceptance.[00:40:45] Power of positive imagination.QUOTES"Movement can be medicine, and that is when we listen to the body; it becomes our greatest teacher." -English Black"Being in tune with your body, your body sending you messages all the time, whether it's something severe, like a cancer diagnosis or a little more fluid." -Amy Jordan"The reality is you can't do it all. You'll be a jack of all trades, a master of none." -English BlackSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticAmy JordanInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/amyjordanofficial/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AmySowersJordan/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-jordan-127222358/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiXVHuPWFe_I44xW1mhGHvA WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ Wundabar: https://www.wundabar.com/wundastory  

In episode 8 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews Grace McLaurin, a physician assistant and owner of Vitality Anti-Aging Center, as she shares her wisdom on building lasting relationships with patients, the importance of mentorship, and how to navigate the emotional demands of the industry. Tune in for an inspiring dialogue that goes beyond surface beauty, encouraging listeners to embrace their authentic selves.TIMESTAMPS[00:02:50] The importance of looking good.[00:04:02] Confidence and external appearance.[00:09:05] Confidence through ongoing training.[00:10:41] Artistic eye in injectors.[00:15:25] Building a successful team.[00:19:24] Regenerative medicine in aesthetics.[00:21:40] Building patient loyalty and trust.[00:25:51] Setting boundaries in leadership.[00:30:28] Comparison is the thief of joy.[00:32:08] Cadaver class importance in training.[00:37:16] Relationships and self-esteem in aesthetics.[00:39:34] Aesthetic training opportunities in Hickory.QUOTES"I think confidence comes with knowledge." -Grace McLaurin"Comparison is the thief of joy." -English Black"True confidence doesn't come from chasing trends. It comes from mastery, ethics, and a genuine love for people." -English BlackSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticGrace McLaurinInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/gracemclaurin_pac/?hl=en LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/grace-mclaurin-1669ab4a/ WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ 

 In episode 7 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews incredible Renee Warren, an Award-winning entrepreneur, Angel Investor, Speaker, and Author as they dive deep into the transformative journey of embracing one's true self and redefining success on personal terms.Tune in for real talk, mindset shifts, and the unapologetic truths that help you curate confidence and embrace your authentic self.TIMESTAMPS[00:02:47] World schooling while traveling.[00:05:39-00:05:49] Family playbook for quality time.[00:10:31] Learning to be okay with discomfort.[00:11:44] Personal growth through adversity.[00:17:48] Our mess is our message.[00:21:37] Wealth and giving back.[00:23:13] Rich girl energy mindset.[00:29:10] Women's roles and societal expectations.[00:30:14] Balancing partnership and individuality.[00:36:31] Legacy beyond material achievements.[00:39:42] The importance of recognition.[00:43:41] Breaking cycles of self-doubt.[00:48:43] The Pink Skirt Project.[00:51:40] Intuition in decision-making.[00:53:07] The power of self-belief.QUOTES"You can choose to be the victim, and live your life in this depression. Or you can be like, I'm done with this. I'm moving on." -Renee Warren"If good people make a lot of money, they can do great things. So why don't we all just strive for that?" -Renee Warren"The recognition of the fact that we don't need to be climbing the same mountains in order for us to have a great relationship was the biggest blessing." -Renee Warren SOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticRenee WarrenInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/renee_warren/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thereneewarren/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/warrenrenee/ WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ Renee Warren: https://www.reneewarren.com/ 

 In episode 6 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews the incredibly talented Nicole Fisher, founder and CEO of Nicole Fisher Interiors, as she shares her journey from the fast-paced world of editorial fashion to creating soulful, one-of-a-kind interior spaces.Tune in for real talk, mindset shifts, and unapologetic truths that empower you to embrace your story and express your worth.TIMESTAMPS[00:02:43] Design journey from fashion to interiors.[00:06:06] Confidence to pursue passions.[00:10:25] Design building confidence through aesthetics.[00:15:31] Balancing timeless and current design.[00:20:50] Follow your heart in design.[00:22:07] Confidence and personal evolution.QUOTES"When a house or space really reflects you and you're able to feel so comfortable in it that it just puts you at ease when you walk through the door, you innately feel confident." -Nicole Fisher"If you let go of all these, you know, quote unquote rules and just go with what makes you happy, what makes your heart happy, then you'll love it." -Nicole Fisher"True design is about refreshing, not necessarily reinventing, and about building something timeless that reflects who you are at your core." -English BlackSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticNicole FisherInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicolerfisher/ WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ Nichole Fisher: https://www.nicolefisher.com/ 

 In episode 5 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews Anita Guerini, the Chief Experience Officer and partner of the Pink Skirt Project, as she shares her powerful story of resilience, healing, and empowerment after overcoming childhood abuse, relational abuse, and substance abuse.Tune in for an inspiring conversation that highlights the beauty of owning your story and expressing your worth unapologetically.TIMESTAMPS[00:03:52] Pain into purpose transformation.[00:04:03] Healing from childhood trauma.[00:10:21] Breaking generational patterns.[00:12:30] Healing from past trauma.[00:20:12] Decision-making in personal growth.[00:20:52] Believing in yourself.[00:27:07] Pink Skirt Project movement.[00:30:48] Global expansion for women.[00:36:15] Spiritual connection and resilience.[00:40:10] Shift from survival to leadership.[00:44:09] Community and rebuilding confidence.[00:47:55] Creating a safe space for women.[00:50:44] Curating your confidence your way.QUOTES"The recipe is, there is no secret. You need to decide. You just need to decide if you want something." -Anita Guerini "It is truly about a decision. And it's not like, yes, I decide I want to make a million dollars. It's like you believe it so deeply in your core that failure is just not an option." -English Black"What's keeping you young is that you have God in your life. You have spirit in your life." -Anita Guerini"Confidence isn't born from a perfect past. It's forged through the fire of resilience, persistence, and courage.” -English BlackSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticAnita GueriniLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anita-guerini-61201b353/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anitabestlife/?hl=en WEBSITESThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ The Pink Skirt: https://www.thepinkskirtproject.com/ 

In episode 4 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews Kindra Morse, the dynamic force behind the Her Purpose podcast, as she shares her journey in the network marketing industry, where she has contributed to generating over $100 million.Tune in for inspiring insights and actionable strategies to help you step into your power and curate your confidence!TIMESTAMPS[00:02:36] Purpose and living fully.[00:03:39] Purpose and identity transformation.[00:08:54] Building identity from within.[00:11:08] Worthiness of receiving success.[00:15:32] Clarity in career transitions.[00:20:13] Confidence and self-commitment.[00:22:12] Building confidence brick by brick.[00:27:49] Hustle culture vs. purpose-driven success.[00:29:30] Relationship with money and purpose.[00:34:04] Purpose and self-identity.[00:36:33] Courage to follow your dreams.[00:40:56] Empowering women through alignment.QUOTES "The only way that you can combat building that in your life is by making those choices because you want to, not because you're obligated." -Kindra Morse"You will most likely sacrifice the things that matter most to you." -Kindra Morse "Alignment is something that you find within yourself and you can have whatever life you want to have no matter what the outside world does." -Kindra Morse"The world will continue to show you where, through people and places and circumstances where you're not free." -Kindra MorseSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticKindra MorseFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/kindra.mariemorse/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kindramariemorse/ X: https://x.com/kindra_morse WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ 

In episode 3 of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews Dr. Sara Trammell, the visionary behind Beauty Bus in Abilene, Texas, who discusses the importance of self-confidence, empathy, and listening to your intuition in both business and life.Tune in for real talk and unapologetic truths that will inspire you to curate your own confidence!TIMESTAMPS[00:02:01] Starting an aesthetic practice.[00:03:57] Mobile medical spa journey.[00:08:35] Listening to gut instincts.[00:12:23] Wellness integration in aesthetic practice.[00:18:42] Self-talk during setbacks.[00:21:21] Hormonal changes and mental health.[00:23:19] Fostering self-confidence in others.[00:27:10] Navigating team dynamics and leadership.[00:32:47] Entrepreneurship and self-worth.[00:36:16] Overcoming fear in business.[00:38:29] Focus on your own work.QUOTES"I'm not afraid or ashamed to talk about that, because I really find that when you start small and then grow something, then you really learn all there is to learn about the system." -Dr. Sara Trammell"God has a way of providing what you need, and He has done that for me over and over and over again."  -Dr. Sara Trammell"I think we can all find something lovely about that person if you're really being open-minded." -English BlackSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticDr. Sara TrammellInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.saratrammell/ https://www.instagram.com/beautybus_abilene/ WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ Abilene Beauty Bus: https://abilenebeautybus.com/ 

In this second episode of The Curated Confidence, English Black interviews Dana Zeitler, a seasoned veteran in the aesthetics industry and owner of DLux Beauty, as she shares her journey in the aesthetics industry, highlighting her artistry, business savvy, and ability to connect with patients through engaging social media.Tune in for an engaging discussion filled with humor and wisdom!TIMESTAMPS[00:02:35] Confidence evolution in aesthetics.[00:04:44] Learning injection techniques effectively.[00:08:33] Confidence and aesthetic treatments.[00:12:09] Clarity in communication.[00:15:48] Assertiveness in female leadership.[00:22:03] Hiring happy staff.[00:25:58] Patient empathy in challenging situations.[00:30:29] Key to longevity in aesthetics.[00:33:29] Purpose in helping others.[00:36:50] Patient relationships and trust.[00:39:53] Curating your confidence your way.QUOTES"I believe that you can make a mistake once but you shouldn't make it twice." -Dana Zeitler "You have to sit in that discomfort and realize, you’re growing and it’s really important." -Dana Zeitler"Life is all about connection. And this profession is no different." -English BlackSOCIAL MEDIAEnglish BlackLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/english-black-6218039/ Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/thecuratedaestheticDana ZeitlerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/naplesbeautyinjector/ WEBSITEThe Curated Aesthetics: https://thecuratedaesthetic.com/ D Lux Med Spa: https://dluxmedspa.com/