167- Your Body Is Not the Problem — The Pace Is // Why and How to Listen to Your Body for Lasting Results
Why slowing down may be the missing piece in healing, strength, and confidence
If you’ve been doing “all the right things” — exercising, stretching, eating well, trying to rest — and your body still feels tight, painful, fatigued, or stuck… this episode is for you.
So many women believe their body is broken when healing doesn’t happen fast enough. But more often than not, the issue isn’t what you’re doing — it’s the pace you’re asking your body to heal at.
In this episode, Dr. Des breaks down why rushing healing backfires, how cultural pressure teaches women to override their body’s signals, and what your nervous system actually needs in order to feel safe enough to change.
This conversation isn’t about one symptom or diagnosis — it’s about learning how to work with your body instead of against it.
In this episode, we explore:
Why women are conditioned to rush healing and “push through”
How the nervous system responds to pace — and why safety matters more than intensity
Signs your body may be asking you to slow down (even if your mind says otherwise)
The difference between real progress and burnout disguised as discipline
What a supportive, sustainable healing pace actually looks like
How slowing down can lead to stronger, more confident movement long-term
You’ll walk away feeling less pressure, more clarity, and a deeper sense of trust in your body — without being told to stop moving or lower your goals.
✨ This episode sets the foundation for everything that comes next, including how pace impacts pain, tension, strength, and connection in the body.
Ready to feel supported instead of guessing?
If you’re craving structure, guidance, and a pace your body can actually trust, this is the approach I use inside RESTORE, my 12-week pelvic floor & core healing program inside the Pelvic Floor, Core & More App.
RESTORE walks you through breathwork, movement, strength, and nervous system regulation in a way that feels safe, doable, and sustainable — no rushing, no pushing, no shame.
👉 Learn more about RESTORE and the app below!
🎧 Up next: We’ll dive deeper into how pace, stress, and nervous system safety influence connection, desire, and healing — and what to do when your body feels shut down instead of open.
As always, thank you for being here and for choosing to listen to your body — not override her.
~ XO
Dr. Des 💛
🌀 Ready to feel stronger, more confident, and in tune with your body?
If you’re done guessing and googling…
If you’re ready to stop modifying your workouts out of fear…
If you’re ready to move, lift, run, and LIVE without leaking, pain, or pressure...
Then it’s time for RESTORE — my 12-week signature pelvic floor & core rehab program Evidence-based. Nervous system-informed. Holistically healing.
Inside RESTORE you’ll get:
✔️ 12 weeks of progressive breathwork, mobility & strength
✔️ 5- and 20-minute workouts to fit your life
✔️ Deep pelvic floor education (with zero fluff)
✔️ Real-life tools to reduce pain, improve leaks, and feel like YOU again
✔️ Access to our private community and support
Inside RESTORE, we cover:
Breathwork + pelvic floor connection
Mobility + posture
Nervous system regulation
Core control + strength building
Real-life application to everyday movement
And how to stop leaking, rushing to the bathroom, or feeling disconnected from your core
You’ll walk away from RESTORE with clarity, confidence, and a body you trust again.
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💎 Learn More About RESTORE below, my 12-week program that walks you step by step through pelvic floor and core healing — so you can stop leaking, reduce prolapse symptoms, and feel strong again.
https://balancedmomtality.com/restore
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✨ Next Steps:
📲 Download the Pelvic Floor, Core & More App → for guided breathwork, mobility, and strength progressions you can do at home.
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