Powerful, Not Perfect

In this episode of Powerful, Not Perfect, I sit down with author, Tiffany Velasquez, for a vulnerable discussion of her story of brokenness, faith, and the power of God’s presence. Tiffany’s journey reminds us that our past doesnot define our identity—God does.Together we dive into Tiffany’s experiences growing up in abroken home, the struggles of navigating distorted fatherhood, her season of running to alcohol for comfort, and the redemptive work of Jesus that gave her freedom and new identity. Tiffany shares practical wisdom for forgiveness,pressing into God’s truth, and continuing to say yes to faith even when life gets hard.What You’ll Hear in This Episode:How Tiffany learned to forgive her parents despite deepwounds from childhood.A first prayer from her book that set the tone for herhealing journey.The impact of an English teacher’s simple journalingassignment and how reflection shaped her sense of self.Why your identity is not defined by someone else’sbrokenness—and how God heals what others have damaged.Exploring where you searched for identity in your teen yearsand how to reflect on that question today.Tiffany’s journey with alcohol and exploring the question ofwhether anyone can actually have a healthy relationship with alcohol. What it looks like to move from just surviving totruly living with purpose.How fitness became part of her healing journey.The heart behind the devotionals and worship songs includedin her book.Recognizing the enemy’s attacks and standing firm in God’speace.What it means to be rooted, not perfect (Colossians2:7).How saying “yes” to God isn’t just once—but a daily choice,especially in parenting, fostering, and adoption.How children expose our defaults, patterns, and triggers—andwhy that’s part of God’s refining work.Tiffany’s shift from lukewarm Christianity to fully livingfor Jesus.This conversation will encourage you to see your storythrough the lens of God’s grace, find healing in His presence, and anchor youridentity in the One who calls you beloved.Scripture Highlight:“Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives bebuilt on him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught.”—Colossians 2:7Connect with Tiffany Velasquez:Purchase - Alone, but Not really at https//www.tiffanyvelasquez.comInstagram: @_tiffanyvelasquezListen & Watch Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/5cy6j1K2npk2Tt06uOvkuDApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/powerful-not-perfect/id1818913835Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DaleABettencourt

"The Magic of Curiosity: An Honest Conversation with Drew Worsham”In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Drew Worsham—a pastor, church planter, life coach, and illusionist. We discuss his new book "The Magic Of Curiosity" and explore how curiosity shapes faith, how fear and growth can exist side-by-side, and how raw honesty with God can lead to profound intimacy.Drew opens up about a deeply personal journey involving his son’s health that shook his faith—and ultimately drew him closer to Jesus. We also talk about the role of curiosity in parenting, marriage, mental health, and even how it intersects with technology.This episode is an invitation to step into an honest, curious, and awe-filled walk with God—not one of perfection, but transformation.Topics Covered:Drew’s journey through pastoring, coaching, and illusionWhy curiosity is key to faith and personal growthNavigating doubt, fear, and the invitation to be honest with GodThe dangers of distraction and tech’s impact on curiosityParenting and marriage through the lens of curiosityHealth, failure, and the perseverance that brings growthA powerful story of faith tested through Drew’s son’s heart conditionKey Quote from Drew's book:“Here’s the thing about curiosity and faith; It’s not about having all the answers, it’s about stepping into an endless adventure of discovering who God is and who you’re becoming in Him. It’s less like completing a puzzle and more like exploring an ocean. No matter how far you sail, there’s always more to discover and new depths of His love, wisdom, and truth that leave you in awe.”Instagram: @drew.worshamWebsite: drewworsham.comBook: The Magic of Curiosity (Amazon.com: The Magic of Curiosity: Unlocking Personal Growth, Deeper Connections and Creativity in Every Area of Life eBook : Worsham, Drew: Kindle Store)Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/5cy6j1K2npk2Tt06uOvkuD Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/powerful-not-perfect/id1818913835Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DaleABettencourtHost Instagram: @daleabettencourt

🎙️ You weren’t made to be average: A conversation with entrepreneur Eric Knopf⸻🔥 Episode Summary:In this powerful episode of Powerful, Not Perfect, we sit down with Eric Knopf—entrepreneur, speaker, and co-founder of Webconnex and Epic Life Ministry—to explore what it truly means to live boldly for God in every area of life.Eric shares the backstory of launching a weekly ministry while leading a fast-paced tech company, raising a family, and writing transformative books like The Will of God. From redefining calling and purpose to the critical difference between energy and time management, Eric offers practical and spiritual wisdom for anyone wanting to make an eternal impact without burning out.Whether you’re navigating a major life decision or battling doubt in your mind, this conversation will equip you to live more intentionally, courageously, and powerfully—just as Romans 12:2 calls us to.⸻💡 What We Talk About in This Episode:​ How Epic Life Ministry started and what it taught Eric about leadership​ Fears, failures, and unexpected lessons from stepping into ministry​ Why managing your energy matters more than managing your time​ The biggest misconceptions about God’s will—and how to find peace in it​ Daily disciplines to win the battle in your mind​ How to armor yourself with scripture memorization. ⸻📖 Featured Quote:“The will of God doesn’t answer all our what questions like we want it to because the answer is always the same: Do everything unto the Lord and glorify Him in all you do.” — Eric Knopf⸻🙌 Connect with Eric Knopf:​ Website: https://www.ericknopf.com​ Epic Life Ministry: https://www.epiclife.org​ Instagram: @ericknopf​ Book: The Will of God (available on Amazon)⸻🎧 Leave a Review & SubscribeIf this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend and leave a review! It helps others discover Powerful, Not Perfect and join us on this journey of living boldly for God’s purpose.Listen & Watch Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/5cy6j1K2npk2Tt06uOvkuDApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/powerful-not-perfect/id1818913835Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DaleABettencourt

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In this episode of Powerful, Not Perfect, I sit down with Aaron Dolce from Rock of Roseville for a deep, practical, and Spirit-filled conversation on the gift of prophecy. Together, we explore what it means to hear God’s voice, how to grow in discernment, and how to walk humbly and courageously in the prophetic. Whether you’re curious about how the prophetic works or looking to grow in it yourself, this episode will inspire you to lean in, listen, and step out.Topics CoveredWhat the prophetic is—and who it’s forAaron’s first encounter with the prophetic and what it revealed about GodHow to distinguish between your own thoughts and God’s voiceThe role of humility and recovering from getting it wrongMisconceptions about prophecy and how to approach it biblicallyTeaching children to hear God’s voice and steward the propheticHow the prophetic shapes how we see others, the Church, and ourselvesPractical steps for receiving and releasing prophetic wordsWhat to do when your afraid of getting it wrongA personal prophetic moment that left Aaron in aweKey Scripture Highlighted“The one who prophesies speaks to people for their strengthening, encouragement, and comfort.”— 1 Corinthians 14:3GuestAaron DolcePastor at Rock of RosevilleInstagram: @aarondolceConnect With UsHost Instagram: @daleabettencourtThank you for listening, subscribe, share, and leave a review if this episode encouraged you!

🎙️ Spiritual Fathering: Identity, Growth, Legacy⸻📄 Show Notes:In this powerful episode of Powerful, Not Perfect, we sit down with Eric Waterbury—faith leader, life coach, and spiritual father to many—for a heartfelt conversation on what it truly means to father others spiritually in today’s world.Eric unpacks the often-overlooked role of spiritual fathering and why it’s essential for unlocking identity, cultivating spiritual maturity, and establishing legacy. Together, we explore how spiritual fathers don’t just teach—they call out destiny, walk through wounds, and guide others into wholeness.If you’ve ever longed for a mentor who speaks to your soul—or felt a quiet nudge to be that person for someone else—this episode is for you.⸻🔑 In This Episode, We Cover: • What spiritual fathering really is—and what it’s not • How it shapes identity, character, and confidence in Christ • The difference between mentoring, coaching, and spiritual fathering • Why today’s culture is desperate for spiritual fathers • How to begin walking as a spiritual father or finding one • The legacy of fathering: what lasts when performance fades⸻📣 Connect with Eric Waterbury: • [Instagram - @ewaterbury • [Epic Life Podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/epic-life-podcast/id476981634?i=1000421975826⸻🎧 Listen + SubscribeIf this episode encouraged or challenged you, would you take a moment to share it and leave a review? It helps more people find truth, transformation, and purpose.🟢 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your podcasts.

Welcome to Powerful, Not Perfect. I pray that the stories shared in this podcast encourage and inspire you to live a bolder life. Listen to insightful conversations I have with leaders in their communities, work places and families. We can all learn from mentors, coaches, friends, and fathers who are pursuing and living out their God given purpose. Life ain’t easy, so let’s do it together, iron sharpens iron. Reject perfection. Be Powerful. Be transformed.