Special Edition [] Riley and Donald Kindt [] A Father, A Daughter, and the Power of Support
đ§ Episode Summary: In this heartfelt, funny, and emotional father-daughter edition of Outside the Pins, UW-Oshkosh alum Riley Kindt is joined by her father, Deke, for a raw and powerful conversation on legacy, love, and what it means to show upâfor your family, your team, and yourself. From backyard trampolines and youth sports stories to Dekeâs recent cancer diagnosis, the Kindts open up about the moments that shaped them, the perspective gained through adversity, and the unwavering support system that made it all possible. It's about more than volleyballâthis episode is a celebration of grit, gratitude, growth, and the beautiful mess of doing life together.đ The Kindt Family Foundation: Love, Loyalty, & LaughterRaised in a family of athletes (including an NFL legacy), Riley shares stories of growing up under the guidance of a dad who led with heartânot volumeâand modeled resilience in every way. Whether she was working through her 16th birthday car accident or her 16th missed tip in practice, Dekeâs steady support and high expectations became her compass.đ Cancer, Perspective & PurposeDeke recounts the shocking moment his daughter noticed his yellow skin after a fishing tripâleading to a life-changing cancer diagnosis. With honesty and grace, he shares the brutal truths about navigating treatment delays, palliative care conversations, and the frustrating gaps in cancer care. Through it all, Rileyâalongside her aunt and extended familyâhas been a relentless advocate and caregiver. The journey has changed everything: diet, mindset, faith, and purpose.âItâs been hardâbut itâs also been beautiful. Iâm reminded every day how supported we are.âđ Volleyball as a Vehicle for Life LessonsFrom her first tooth falling out on a tee-ball field to nearly quitting club volleyball, Rileyâs story is filled with memorable, formative momentsâand always, someone in her corner. Coaches from her MVP club days to college created environments where she felt wanted, supported, and inspired to keep going. Deke remembers every bit of it. Every serve. Every mile driven.âMy parents went everywhere for me. I had to do the same for Riley. No question.âđȘ Work Ethic Without ApologyWhether wearing long sleeves to sweat more in practice or redefining what a âsuper middleâ looks like, Rileyâs unmatched motor and toughness became part of her identityâand her legacy. Her dad, now battling cancer, credits her as part of the reason heâs fighting so hard.đ The Next ChapterNow a nurse, homeowner, and engaged to her fiancĂ© Cole, Riley continues to support her family while navigating adulthood with the same determination she brought to the court. Deke, grateful and proud, reflects on how incredible it is to see his daughter leading in life the way she once did in sport.đ Costa Rica & Collective JoyOne of the standout memories for both came during the teamâs international trip to Costa Rica. From ziplining to waterfall swimming, Deke embraced every momentâeven when the current took him under (but the phone stayed dry!). For Riley, seeing her family and teammates connect across borders made it unforgettable.đ Legacy of Support â From Stands to SidelinesThe Kindt familyâand the entire Oshkosh Familyâcreated an atmosphere of unconditional support in the stands that mirrored the culture built on the court. Win or lose. Starter or not. Everyone mattered.â€ïž Final Takeaways:From Riley: âIf youâre upset, go outside. Move. Work through it. That came from my dad. And now I live by it.âFrom Deke: âThe fight is worth it when youâre not in it alone. And thanks to this family, I never am.â