Spiritual Psychology Masterclass: The Power of Asking and Desiring

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares insights from the Marriage Repair Workshops. Maurice emphasizes the importance of developing a reliable system for personal revelation, using his own experiences and those of others to illustrate effective methods. He discusses the concept of "Man in the Mountain" mode, where men take time away to seek divine guidance, rejuvenate, and return with renewed energy and insights. Listeners will learn practical strategies for improving personal revelation and understand its critical role in repairing and strengthening marriages. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-mighties-sons-of-the-covenant/ Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFWSHTyNalo Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares a clip from a live Marriage Repair Workshop. Maurice uses the metaphor of driving a stick shift to explain the delicate balance required to maintain the spirit and harmony in marital conversations. He emphasizes the importance of sensitivity and adaptability, likening the levels of marital intimacy to the gears of a car. Maurice encourages men to take responsibility for the spiritual and emotional atmosphere in their marriages, offering practical advice on how to navigate through different stages of intimacy. Listeners are invited to explore the Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures for further guidance and support. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/improving-intimacy-in-your-marriage/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfBZj-uCiGI&t=3s Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares a clip from a live Marriage Repair Workshop. Maurice discusses the importance of creating and regularly updating a marital mission statement to demonstrate commitment and engagement in the relationship. He emphasizes the value of detailed and evolving plans for a healthy marriage, likening it to constructing a solid building. Maurice provides practical advice on how to maintain and improve this mission statement, ensuring continuous growth and communication. Listeners are invited to explore the Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures for more in-depth guidance and support. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/a-window-into-the-men-of-moroni/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2IKtOVG1Ws Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares insights from the Betrayal Trauma for Dummies class. Maurice discusses the significant trauma many women experience and how it impacts their marriages. He emphasizes the importance of empathy, understanding, and self-care for men to support their spouses effectively. Maurice advises men to take necessary breaks to rejuvenate and return with a clearer mind and renewed energy. This episode offers valuable guidance for those navigating the complexities of betrayal trauma and seeking to strengthen their relationships. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/what-is-betrayal-trauma-how-does-it-impact-me/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ohQCiqAEzM&t=3s Check out the Betrayal Trauma for Dummies: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/betrayal-trauma-for-men/

In this insightful episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares principles from the Betrayal Trauma for Dummies class. Maurice discusses the importance of rejuvenation for men and the need to approach relationships with empathy and intentional self-care. He emphasizes how men can avoid accidental selfishness and better support their spouses by taking necessary breaks to rejuvenate and return with edifying energy. This episode offers valuable guidance for those working through betrayal trauma and seeking to strengthen their marriages. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/seeds-and-weeds-attending-to-our-psychological-garden/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oSa5D_LIO4s Check out the Betrayal Trauma for Dummies: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/betrayal-trauma-for-men/

In this impactful episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses key principles from the Betrayal Trauma for Dummies class. Maurice addresses the challenge men face in understanding their spouses' experiences, particularly in the context of betrayal trauma. He emphasizes the importance of developing psychological empathy and recognizing accidental selfishness. Maurice also highlights the necessity of self-care and rejuvenation for men to effectively support their partners and maintain their own well-being. This episode provides valuable insights for those looking to strengthen their marriages and better understand their spouses' emotional needs. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/betrayal-trauma-for-men/ Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DT-llENfyvc Check out the Betrayal Trauma for Dummies: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/betrayal-trauma-for-men/

In this thought-provoking episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares insights from a live Marriage Repair Workshop. Maurice explores the challenges of managing expectations and needs within a marriage, emphasizing the importance of stewardship over preference-based decision-making. He discusses how both partners can contribute to building a resilient and fulfilling relationship, even when all needs are not met. Maurice encourages listeners to embrace a mindset of growth and continuous improvement, drawing on timeless principles to strengthen their marriages. Listeners are invited to explore the Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures for further guidance and support. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/our-support-system/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKG5Tpv7aPE Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this engaging episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the crucial differences between preference-based and stewardship-based decision-making in marriage. Drawing from a live Marriage Repair Workshop, Maurice uses relatable analogies to illustrate how focusing on presiding, providing, and protecting can create a stronger, more fulfilling marital foundation. He emphasizes the importance of understanding each other's unique gifts and creating an environment that fosters growth and harmony. Listeners are encouraged to explore the Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures for comprehensive guidance in rebuilding their relationships. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/8-steps-to-mastering-the-art-of-presiding-in-marriage/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfNQYddKqtM&t=2s Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this enlightening episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares a profound clip from a live Marriage Repair Workshop. Maurice explores the concept of emotional sensitivities and how unrecognized toxic behaviors can impact a marriage. Using relatable analogies, he discusses the importance of understanding and validating each other's unique emotional needs. Maurice also emphasizes the significance of creating a healthy environment for both partners and provides practical advice for building a "born again" marriage. Listeners are invited to explore the Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures for further guidance in repairing and strengthening their relationships. Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/taming-your-dangerous-emotions-and-reclaiming-your-power/ Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBAVPy0qBvM&t=1s Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this insightful episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares a powerful clip from a live Marriage Repair Workshop. Maurice addresses common challenges women face in responding to their spouses' behavior and emphasizes breaking the cycle of codependency. He discusses the importance of acting based on principles rather than attempting to influence a partner's behavior. This episode provides valuable guidance on maintaining consistency, handling difficult situations, and reinforcing marital mission statements. Maurice encourages listeners to explore the Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures for comprehensive support in rebuilding relationships. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/shouldnt-you-be-able-to-rely-on-people-what-if-others-are-not-meeting-your-needs/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2UuPMNKPnY Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/