121. Raw Convo's: Right Person Wrong Time

Is Love is Blind secretly a lesbian reality show for straight people? We break it down and give you our raw, unfiltered thoughtsWelcome to Raw Conversations with Les Chat Podcast (the audio version only), your bi-weekly Wednesday deep dive into all things personal growth, relationships, and any random thoughts we have! In this episode, we’re sharing an update on our 75 Soft Challenge, we have 59 days to go, and we’re reflecting on the 16 days we’ve already conquered! Then, we dive into Love is Blind Season 8 and unravel all the drama. Is everyone secretly a little gay? We’re unpacking the idea that marriage and LGBTQ+ relationships might not always mix with traditional views? Was Sara’s “push” on LGBTQ+ issues portrayed unfairly, or was Netflix just trying to make her look annoying?We wrap up with a Q&A session answering some of your questions. "As a masc and fem presenting couple, do we make new friends with the opposite type? Jojo with fems, and Dayra with masc, what does that dynamic look like in real life?"FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat

In this episode, we dive into some common myths about lesbian identities and relationships. We tackle misconceptions like the idea that being attracted to women means rejecting men, that lesbian relationships are always full of drama, or that all lesbians want kids.FAMILY MEETING “I need advice. I broke up with my ex of 3 years after she chose her 'friend' over our relationship.”Source: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/lesbian-myths-debunked FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat 

Is it possible to be with the right person at the wrong time when fear of judgment and not being out holds you back from fully embracing the relationship?Family Meeting:"I’ve been dating a girl for the past year and everything has been wonderful but I’m not out yet. I come from a very religious family and I’m also a people pleaser and unfortunately care what people think. She is the woman of my dreams but I don’t know if we can have a relationship if I’m not out the closet yet."https://linktr.ee/leschat

We’re back after an 8 week break! Ahhhhhhh!!  There is SO much to catch up on but we can’t fit it all in one episode. Dayra shares insights from her recent NYC LGBTQ+ speech, and we give updates on work and new home life. Finally, we share 23 ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day as a single, from binge-watching your favorite series to planning an out-of-town getaway, enjoying a parent-child date, or even hosting a singles dinner with friends.FAMILY MEETING “My wife/partner of 10+ wants an open marriage and says we want different things because we’re in different places in our life.”FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG:https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE:https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree:https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP:https://linktr.ee/leschat

In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits we've noticed since living together. Tune in for all the updates and good vibes! Family Meeting: "Was in a LTR with a man for 8 years, started dating girls last year, part of me wants to explore but I also don’t want to fumble the girl I met because she is amazing"⁠ BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat Family Meeting:FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/⁠   TIKTOK: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠  YOUTUBE: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/⁠ Link tree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/leschat⁠  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 ⁠https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives. We also dive into the movie My Old Ass, where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices. Dayra shares why this scenario would be her worst nightmare, and we wrap up by discussing the things we wish we could tell our younger selves. Tune in for a mix of humor, honesty, and reflections on the wisdom that comes with age. Ashlynn Harris Wide Open Episode - LINK BALI/THAILAND TRIP: Buy an experience, instead of a physical gift for 2025! Mark your calendar for Travel Tuesday 2024, this coming Tuesday, to receive a $50 discount on our trip! Enter code TRAVELTUESDAY50 at checkout on Tuesday 12/3 and Wednesday 12/4 only, so be sure to reserve your spot! Family Meeting: 1. "I have a serious mental illness that I’ve been dealing with for over 10 years. I’ve always taken my meds and I’ve always been fine. If I don’t have any issues managing my diagnosis there really is no reason to disclose this. Am I in the wrong if I’m in a relationship with someone for a few months or 1 year & disclose this?" 2. "I went on a date and I immediately knew I didn’t want to see her again which is why I decided to “practice” telling someone about my mental illness. " FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune in for an honest conversation about healing, support, and the importance of visibility in both Latinx and LGBTQ+ spaces. Family Meeting Question 1. "I met this girl recently and when we met I instantly felt a vibe. The day we met I added her on IG and saw she has a gf. We have met up a few times because I give her private boxing lessons. I have a crush, what is your opinion of why she never mentions her gf?" 2. "I was a part of a Christian group at 21 and experienced religious trauma from conversion therapy. I left that group and came out officially at 28. I went through therapy and now at 31 I’m in a place to start dating. I met a girl and she’s great.. Should I get wifed up or keep my options open?" AutoStraddle Post LINK FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

In this episode of our Q&A podcast, we catch up after a brief hiatus—Dayra just returned from her trip to Colombia! Join us as we dive into your questions, share travel stories, and discuss how life has been keeping us on our toes. & DON'T REMEMBER TO VOTE!! Family Meeting Questions “My gf lied to me about having two abortions…” “I’ve been dating this girl for 4 years but her child is so challenging & disrespectful” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Join us this week as we recap Dayra's unforgettable birthday festivities and celebrate the WNBA's hot season. We’ll also share highlights from our family meeting questions and end with a fun “Who’s Most Likely To” segment. Tune in for laughs, our regular complaints and some insights. FAMILY MEETING “Me and my girlfriend WERE together for almost 6 years, she broke up with me 3 weeks after my father passed away” “My gf of 3 years recently broke up with me to try things out with her ex, a man” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Join us in this catch up episode as we talk about what we’ve been up to, we celebrated JoJo’s birthday in style, we share our unforgettable experiences at a WNBA game (where we spotted Ashlyn Harris) and recount our thrilling helicopter ride over the NYC skyline. In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, we dive into the rich cultural contributions of LGBTQ+ Latinas who have paved the way for representation in the media. From trailblazers to modern icons, we quickly highlight their impact and discuss how they've used their platforms to uplift the visibility of LGBTQ+ Latinxs. FAMILY MEETING “About 5y ago I met my wife through TikTok . She slid in my dms and it was history after that. So I moved in and a year later we moved out of where she was and  got married. Things were good until we hit 3 years” “I recently broke up with my GF of almost two years. On our first date, I found out she was still legally married to her ex wife.” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/