NMF: I dated a man-child who is also a TikTok influencer

We've all done stupid things to impress a crush, but what this diva went through on a rope swing to try and look cool was something else... Tangents include holiday house room equity, school water safety training, and Mr Walter's wanderings.LINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodSubscribe to It's A Lot on YouTube and watch full episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@itsalot_podReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's the end of week 3! Jack and Sammi are really hitting it off, and Nat is reaching new heights of delusion. Plus, one of the boys is sent packing and Abbie and Amy crack up about a hypothetical bombshell idea.LINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodSubscribe to It's A Lot on YouTube and watch full episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@itsalot_podReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Love Island alum Shawnee joins Abbie to discuss her elimination, the backlash to her comments about Ava and Sammi, and what she believes was driving those remarks.LINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodSubscribe to It's A Lot on YouTube and watch full episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@itsalot_podReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Shawnee Schein @shawneescheinExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're on to Week 3 and things are really kicking off!! We've got recoupling, more of Nat’s insecurity around Jack, an elimination, and the villa’s weird games. Abbie also reflects on her similar reactions during The Bachelor, plus some teasers for her upcoming interview with Shawnee... Stay tuned!!LINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodSubscribe to It's A Lot on YouTube and watch full episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@itsalot_podReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Trisha Paytas is many things... A YouTube icon, an actress, a Broadway performer, a (former) professional rage-baiter... Now, a memoirist. In an Australian podcast exclusive, Abbie sits down with Trisha to discuss her new book 'Crying On The Kitchen Floor', and the ups and downs of her long career in entertainment and on the internet. Trisha talks about the work she had to do to revisit her childhood, the link between self-worth and bad relationships with men, and whether she thinks she's ever been truly 'cancelled'. Plus, Trisha opens up about her and her husband Moses' reactions to the recent revelations from YouTubers (and Trisha's in-laws) Ethan and Hila Klein.LINKSBuy Trisha's book Crying On The Kitchen Floor: https://www.simonandschuster.com.au/books/Crying-on-the-Kitchen-Floor/Trisha-Paytas/9781398566781Buy tickets to THE ERAS OF TRISH TOUR, coming to Australia and New Zealand March 2027: https://www.tegdainty.com/tour/tp27/Listen to Trisha's podcast, listen to her podcast, and more https://linktr.ee/trishapaytasSend us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuests: Trisha Paytas @trishapaytasExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's two of Abbie's favourite topics for a Nightmare Fuel all in one: horrible share-houses AND insecure manosphere freaks!!! Thoughts and prayers to this chook for surviving six months in that hellscape because WOW. There's sharps at the kitchen bench, no bathroom hygiene practices in sight, and some shocking extra details that leave Abbie speechless.LINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodSubscribe to It's A Lot on YouTube and watch full episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@itsalot_podReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

MAJOR POSSIBLE LOVE ISLAND SPOILER WARNING!! It's broken over the last few days that a certain cast member may have posted a hard launch with another Love Islander to a finsta account... Is this legit??LINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodSubscribe to It's A Lot on YouTube and watch full episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@itsalot_podReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We've got a new bombshell this week on Love Island Australia, with Miss New Zealand AKA Sammi! She seems lovely but a bunch of the girls are immediately rude to her for no reason :( Finishing off week 2 strong with more insecurities, a questionable hook-up, a little bit of gaslighting, but also some fabulous conflict resolution so that's something! LINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodSubscribe to It's A Lot on YouTube and watch full episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@itsalot_podReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie got up at 6am to catch up on Love Island and although we're not at Real Housewives or MAFS levels of drama, things are starting to heat up!! We've got LYING WEIRD MEN, women tearing each other down and insulting each other's appearance, plus jealousy and emotional suppression! WOOHOO! Also, enjoy some deep epiphanies from Amy and Abbie about how the microcosms of reality TV reflect and accentuate heterosexual societal norms tee heeLINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials (we now have video eps on YouTube!) https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

ABBIE GOT HYPNOTISED!! She gives Amy a play-by-play of what happened, including some very strange side-effects on the woman hypnotising her (that were actually really helpful for unmasking??). Abbie also reflects on why conventional talk therapy has not always worked for her, how the session helped her approach catastrophizing, hypervigilance, and feeling unsafe in a different way.LINKS:Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9Follow It's A Lot on socials (video eps now on YouTube!) https://linktr.ee/itsalotpodReview the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-reviewCREDITSHost: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeySocial Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth BaxterNote: All advice within this podcast is general, and does not take into account your personal situation. Please consult with a healthcare professional before making any decisions about any specific therapies. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.