I Just Wanna Say

Daddy issues…. We all got ‘em. Rather the Nigga yo momma told you was yo daddy ain’t claimed you since conception or your daddy’s little princess. The relationships with the men that created us hold more weight than we think or like to believe. How can the person who’s DNA is encoded in you not effect you? We love our dads and forgive them for the mistakes they made when they were young or old. Growing up shows you that it’s not one straight path leading to success. Those mistakes they made molded us too. Unfortunately, it probably made you a little rough around the edges, a little angry, you’ve probably even had a bought with depression. We’ve all been there this is deep stuff guys but we’re all friends here and this is a safe space. Let’s talk about it.

We made it to episode TEN!!! We celebrate big and small milestones over here my baby! It feels good to have had an idea and brought it into fruition. Anyway, this episode is veryyyy special like got some Henny chilling on ice very special because we are doing a GIVEAWAY. A super big deal knowing damn well we shouldn’t be giving shit away. Y’all should actually be sending us shit but that’s a topic for another day. We just love y’all so much that we will sacrifice our twos and fews to show our appreciation for rocking with us for 10 episodes. We wish we could give all 5 of a y’all a gift but we can’t so we’ll do it this way lol. Listen for the winner. This week we are diving into entrepreneurship and giving up on the dreams that aren’t paying the bills. When do you give it up? At what point do you say okay let’s hang up the IG Reels and pickup a 9 to 5 ? Or do you think you have to choose? Entrepreneurship is hard especially when you’re business ain’t making no money but everybody else’s is… IG will get your creative juices flowing but it can also steal your joy and send you into a depression that can ultimately change the whole trajectory of your life. So, we beg to ask the question… would you rather build your own business or be the CEO of one the few companies that actually run the world, like Apple or Amazon? Thanks for being here week after week after week.

We all know that friend break ups are just as detrimental as breaking up with that d***, I mean your man. But what if you lost them both at the same time… because of some shxt they did together. Like, some grimey shxt like ionno have sex with each other. WTF, I couldn’t imagine the betrayal. It’s never happened to us but if it happened to you. Tap in, what happened did you forgive them? Did you take one of them back? I need to know how you not listening to us from the prison library right now. Cause ain’t no way. Ain’t fawwwkin way! I mean you never know what you’ll do in a situation until it happens to you. But babbbyyyy I would go insane. Anyways, this is an explicit podcast and is not intended for children lol unless the children belong to us and we don’t have a babysitter. Judge ya momma!!! Thanks for coming backkkk and kicking it with us on another Tuesday.

Hey Friendddd! We just wanna know how y’all feel about dating outside your race. Is it 2022 and you think that we need to grow up and let that petty shit go, love is love? I mean I could understand that but shit racism is alive and well TA-DAY and if you don’t think that there is some type of disparity between races than what Instagram are you on? I would love to live a day in your rose colored glasses. Its harrrrdd loving a black man but even harder loving the ones that hate us. The ones that blatantly show their hate to the public on platforms like twitter or in the songs that we pay our money to stream regularly or the undercover haters that do everything in their power to break us under the guise of love. It’s not easy being a black woman and it’s no secret but it’s hard when our blackkkkk brothers strongggg brothers that we down for no matter what tear us down while putting the queens of the caucus mountains on a pedestal. The same Queen your great-great-great granddaddy couldn’t look in the direction of without being lynched! So, I will forever recite the precious mantra that raised us…Step back white boy, you don’t shine. I’ll get the colored boy to beat yo behind.… and as hard as it is we need to agree that the men/women that have told us in more ways than one “Negro please. Didn't any one tell you that this was an all white party? Somebody, get this jiggaboo away from me” need to stand on what they say. Like do you hate your mom? And yes we all have daddy issues but I can’t take that out on everybody. I know there is black King ready to worship you and understand your plight while being present and raising the black heirs to the empire you two build together. I don’t wanna romanticize the dating pool cause I know it’s hard out here but baby manifest that life you deserve. Join us as we discuss are trueeee feelings on interracial dating why it is No bueno for the IJWS hosts. Tap in and tell us we’re wrong, again this is a safe space among friends we not here to judge or change y’all minds cause y’all not changing ours. Happy Tuesday! Thanks for sticking around another week !!!

We got one question and I know y’all want the answer too. OH MY GOD WHAT HAPPENED TO VIRGIL? Naw fr though. We’ve all done it…. Some of us a little more extreme than others. Cause when you love someone you just don’t treat them baddddd. Yo momma held yo daddy down in the 90’s whether he was a drug dealer or the youth pastor at yo grandma’s church home. Y’all can lie to each other but we ain’t buying it. The problem isn’t holding your mate down. The problem comes when you do it for too long and you lose yourself. The money ain’t coming in and you start feeling used and abused… a fool. Tap in and tell us how holding your man/girl down changed your life or ruined it 🤷🏾‍♀️. We’re all friends here and this is a safe space. Happy Tuesdayyyy!

Happy (R rated) Tuesdayyyyy!!! This week we brought on a few friends to help us dive into the topic of ✨porn✨ because if you don’t know by now the IJWS host are a little prudish… or so you thought. This conversation got deeeeep friend. What’s your go to porn category? Y’all into BDSM or is that jussssttt Me? Do you have a fetish? Are you a Urophilia like that one n**** that my friend was messing with? I NEED TO KNOW. This is a judgement free zone wellll we might judge you a little bit but it’s okay cause we all friends here. No, seriously if you aren’t really into porn it’s cool too, come chat with us and you just might wanna give it a spin for yourself. Again, no pressure…we ain’t tryna turn you out or nothing. EXPLICIT CONTENT: This episode (really this whole podcast) is not intended for children. Parental discretion is strongly advised. Sexual language and profanity will be used the entire episode.

We’re backkkkkk. Okay, so last week we fell off a little but… can’t nobody hold us down. Oh no, we got to keep on movin’. This week we wanna know would you rather be in a polygamous relationship or an open relationship? And how much of your answer to that question was influenced by your upbringing and the parents that raised you? Were you raised by a traditional GOD-fearing heterosexual nuclear American family and that really turned out not to be your style now you’re in a cult and a part of a happy polygamous marriage? We really wanna know how you did it. What was the moment when you decided to forge your own path and how did it feel breaking your parents heart lol. Just kidding, we’re so happy you’re back with the get back. Talk to us we talk back. Disclaimer: we appreciate every position held by every professional and a job is a job we happy you got one. Don’t take us too serious. TW: We will discuss parent child relationships and if this is a trigger for you, skip this episode. We’ll still love you.

Join us as we explore the meaning of sisterhood and why we uphold friendship to such a high standard in our sister circle. What does sisterhood mean to you? How do you separate your sisters and your partner? What boundaries have you set within your sisterhood that keeps it strong? Take a glimpse into our lives and the steps we take to maintain how a bond that we put work in daily so that it can last the test of time.

What is cheating to you? Regardless of how you define it. It’s embarrassing and will not be tolerated amongst us and our ijws friends. 😂 Would you consider polygamy? What makes a man cheat and what makes him stay… inquiring minds would like to know. Tap, tap, tap in and share this with your other friends so that they can become our friend too. We wanna know what you all think join us on International Women’s Day as we discuss one of the main things that men and women disagree on CHEATING. Friend… we made it. We may be tired, we may be late, but we are here!!! Sheesh… 2022 is all about consistency and look at us being consistent lol. Thanks for joining us

On this weeks episode of the ijws podcast we take a deep dive into outdated gender roles with guest Kenneth and Dre. Join us as we debate our views on the double standards that we deal with every single day.