What Cancer Taught Me

This week Florence sits down with Harley Dee - friend and inspiration - to talk about life, loss, and learning to love your body after breast cancer. Harley opens up about treatment, scars, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing chemical menopause in her 30s. Together, they explore everything from hair loss to egg-freezing, and rediscovering pleasure when your body doesn’t feel like it used to. It’s a raw, truthful and deeply important conversation about survival, self-love, and what cancer really teaches you about being alive. Get to know Harley on IG @theharleylama Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you think, feel or be less alone - and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious - listen and watch AD-FREE! Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence and Reed get cheeky (literally) as they spill all the behind-the-scenes secrets from directing their first anal porn film. From the beauty of real chemistry to the chaos of lube, fluff, and butthole talk - it’s a deep dive into everything they learnt about anal on and off camera. Expect laughs, lube, and a lot of love for the bum. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: ⁠patreon.com/comecurious⁠ Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we go beyond the mic with Ceros - an online tornado of truth known for his YT channel Ceros TV sharing stories about his bisexuality, schizophrenia and femboy loving G-Pa. From marrying a 90-year-old at 18, to sleeping with her daughter... and granddaughter, we go beneath the viral chaos to learn more Ceros's experiences of masculinity, pain and survival. No filters. No performance. Just raw humanity. Get to know Ceros on YT @cerostv Follow him on IG @cerostv Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Big news, Curious F**kers - our gorgeous Florence is expecting a baby! 💕 With life changing in every sense, Florence and Reed are getting real about transformation, identity, and what it means to let go - including Florence (potentially) saying goodbye to OnlyFans. It’s honest, thoughtful, and full of heart - a conversation about growth, boundaries, and change in all its messy, beautiful forms. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence sits down with Dr. Natalie Crawford, a leading fertility expert and author of The Fertility Formula, to unpack how everyday choices impact our hormones, cycles, and chances of conceiving. From diet and toxins to sleep, exercise, and stress, Natalie reveals the five key pillars for supporting reproductive health - and why fertility isn’t just about the moment you start trying for a baby, but the years leading up to it. Florence shares her own journey through miscarriage and navigating the confusing world of TTC, while Natalie offers compassionate, science-backed insights that every curious f**ker needs to hear - whether you’re thinking about kids one day or already deep in the journey. Rate & Review Smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow our guest Natalie Crawford @nataliecrawfordmd Get to know her book - The Fertility Formula And follow her podcast - As a Woman Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let’s get vanilla, baby! This week Florence and Reed dive into the joy of “plain” old sex - because vanilla is anything but boring. From the underrated magic of missionary to the giggles, intimacy, and melt-your-soul moments that don’t need whips or chains, we’re giving simple pleasure the spotlight it deserves. Reed uncovers what her vanilla side looks like, Florence shares some unforgettable vanilla romps (think otherworldly without the kink), and of course, we’ve got your stories celebrating the sweet, sexy basics. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you giggle mid-wank or rethink your O-face in the mirror — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Reed sits down with the brilliant Michelle Elman — life coach, author, and unapologetic boundary queen. From dating without shame to grieving the loss of friendships, Michelle is here to challenge the stories we’ve been sold about love, loyalty, and letting go. We dive into her books The Selfish Romantic and Bad Friend, exploring why demanding more in dating is actually powerful, and why friendship breakups cut just as deep (if not deeper) than romantic ones. Michelle unpacks how ghosting erodes trust, why women are trained to soften their needs, and what it really takes to communicate with honesty (even when it hurts). Expect raw stories (including TV dates and friendship “mass exoduses”), laughter through the pain, and practical advice for anyone wondering: how do you heal when the person who knew you best walks away? Curious f**kers, whether you’re redefining dating, nursing a friendship heartbreak, or just craving real talk on boundaries and self-worth, this episode is going to crack you open. Follow Get to know Michelle onine @michelleelman and get to know about her books here Follow us @comecurious Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @bxsassy2 Rate & Review If you’ve ever felt seen, soothed, or shaken by our convos — drop us a five star, babe. Want more? Catch the full episode, behind-the-scenes extras, and support the pod on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’ve all seen them - the porn-star-perfect O-face, the silent shudder, the dramatic gasp. But babe… is your cum face the real deal, or a total performance? This week, Florence and Reed and Florence are lifting the sheets on orgasm expressions: the ones we make, the ones we fake, and what they really say about our sex lives. We’re swapping our own cringe and glorious cum face confessions, asking why some of us go full Hollywood while others barely twitch, and digging into how porn, partners, and pressure can shape the way we “perform” pleasure. Plus: we look at why authenticity feels so vulnerable in bed and tips for unlearning performative habits so you can cum how you actually want to. Whether you’re a silent cummer, a moaner, a mascara-running-thriller-queen, or still faking it ‘til you make it - this one’s for you, curious f**kers. ERIKA LUST DISCOUNT CODE: Erika Lust creates original, cinematic adult films celebrating sexuality and championing a sex-positive world. You can explore their wide range of categories and genres, including extra goodies for kink enthusiasts. Get 45% off at ⁠erikalust.com⁠ with code COME45 Don’t miss the chance to own your pleasure - visit ⁠Erikalust.com⁠ Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you giggle mid-wank or rethink your O-face in the mirror — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they’re spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?” We dive into how to fight fair (without the silent treatment or full-blown meltdowns), why honesty only works if you can handle hearing the uncomfortable stuff, and how to bring back intimacy when Netflix and exhaustion have taken over your evenings. Asa and David share their own story too — from a suitcase that turned into six months of living together, to a move abroad, to parenthood — and how they built a foundation that can hold both deep healing and wild love. Expect laughter, vulnerability, and so many “aha” moments as we ask: what does it really take to keep desire, connection, and teamwork alive once the honeymoon fades? Curious f**kers, if you’ve ever thought “are we normal?” when it comes to fights, mismatched sex drives, or parenting stress — this episode is your permission slip to breathe, laugh, and know you’re not alone. ASA's Links: IG @coachwithasa The Boundary Blueprint - Asa Baav (free download): www.asabaav.com/the-boundary-blueprint/ Unapologetic 2025 - Asa Baav: www.asabaav.com/unapologetic-2025/ DAVID'S Links:  YT ⁨@TheAuthenticMan⁩  IG @theauthenticman_ Breaking The Chains of Avoidance: www.theauthenticman.net/btca-sep-2025 FREE GIFT Why You Keep Pulling Away (Even When You Don’t Want To): ⁠www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page⁠ To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @_thesassyshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence and Reed are joined by the powerhouse that is Sangeeta Pillai — creator of the award-winning Masala Podcast, author of her new book Bad Daughter and unapologetic queen of smashing South Asian taboos. From sex and shame to pleasure and power, we’re diving into the cultural scripts that shape us — and how to rip them up (with love, sass, and maybe a vibrator or two). Sangeeta shares her journey growing up in a world of silence around sex, discovering her own voice, and now amplifying thousands of others through fearless conversations. We’re talking generational trauma, reclaiming pleasure, and why breaking taboos isn’t just radical — it’s healing. Expect laughter, honesty, and more than a few “oh sh*t” moments as we ask: how do you rewrite the rules when your culture says “don’t even talk about it”? Curious f**kers, whether you’ve battled shame yourself or just want inspo to live louder, this one’s going to hit deep. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your cultural hang-ups — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow Florence: @florencebark Follow Reed: @reedamberx Follow Sangeeta: @soulsutras About Bad Daughter: https://baddaughter.co.uk/ About Masala Podcast: https://www.soulsutras.co.uk/about-masala-podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soulsutras?igsh=ZGpkNXVhZjhucGpq Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices