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Just Jen: How to Stay Safe on Dating Apps

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I've done my fair share of online dating, my friends. 

Ok, let's be honest...if you've read my blog, The Truth Hurvitz, you know I've dated MORE THAN my fair share! Ha. 

So, I've taken my past (horrific) experiences and research...to create a program to help you Do Dating Right! This episode is a micro-version that will touch on one aspect of dating- How to be SAFE on those Dating Apps! 

Hope you find it helpful and if you need more coaching you know I'm literally a phone call away. 

xo j 

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Show notes:

[2:15] Dating apps 101

[3:16] BIG RED flags

[7:20] Things you need to do or assess before meeting them in person

[10:55] An exit strategy

[12:27] Join us for the 2021 Mrs2Me SUMMIT on October 22-24, 2021. Grab your ticket here: https://mydivorcesolution.com/mrs2me-summit-2021/

 

 

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