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Just Jen: How To Show Love Without Saying A Word

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Ahhh...

Words vs. Actions. 

I'm a "words" girl. Obviously! I love to spill my guts and word vomit out my feelings anytime I get the opportunity! But my partner of five years, he's an "actions guy." It's not always easy for us to communicate when sharing our wants and needs; pretty odd, seeing as I'm a relationship coach, right? 

What's that saying? The shoemakers' kids go without shoes? Lol! We work on it, and we are doing much better than when we began dating, trust me! Keeping it real around here! 

What is your 'Love Language"? And can you say 'I love you" without actually saying it? 

Not as easy as you might think! 

Take a listen to today's Just Jen micro-episode and join my private FB group so we can talk about it! 

xo j 

 

 

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Show notes:

[2:13] Love Languages

[3:26 ] Put down your phone

[5:44] Asking and listening to your partner's advice

[7:18] Be supportive

[8:16] Don't sweat the small stuff

[9:57] Making time for each other

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