Butch Queen After Dark

Today, one of Chicago's favorites, Matt Cage, joins David Brandyn on Butch Queen After Dark to talk about life after the DL. The professional wrestler and adult creator opens up about coming out, unlearning selfish habits, and discovering the intimacy he’d been missing.From his “selfish top” era to embracing versatility, Matt shares how exploring his desires changed the way he connects with partners—and why coming out was only the beginning. We also get into bathhouse adventures, chemistry on camera, fetish wrestling, and why kissing comes first.Follow David & Butch Queen After Dark:• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandyn/• Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen/• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@davidbrandyn• Website: https://www.davidbrandyn.comFollow Matt Cage:• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourkingcage/• X: https://x.com/yourkingcageSubscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone finding their freedom. And email [email protected] with your listener letters!Butch Queen After Dark comes out every Saturday and sometimes Wednesday. Who do you want me to interview next?!

On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, viral creator Dae'Kwon, aka The Boy With the Looks, joins David Brandyn for a sexy Halloween episode!From his viral makeup videos challenging masculinity to his wildest fantasies, Dae'Kwon opens up about sex, dating, confidence, and expressing his femininity without apology.Follow Dae'Kwon: @boywiththelooks (Instagram) | @boywiththelook (TikTok)Follow David Brandyn @davidbrandyn (Everywhere) Follow Butch Queen After Dark: instagram.com/butchqueenSubscribe to Butch Queen After Dark for honest, funny, and unapologetically sex-positive conversations every Saturday and sometimes Wednesday.Have a question, topic suggestion, or want to be a guest? Email [email protected].

On this episode of Butch Queen After dark, award-winning adult performer, filmmaker, and sex educator King Noire joins David Brandyn for an uncensored conversation about sex, sexuality, pleasure, and the adult entertainment industry.From being kicked out of his home as a teenager to building a career in adult entertainment, King Noire opens up about how sex work changed his life. He shares his journey with pansexuality and polyamory, the racism and fetishization he's experienced in porn, and why he and his partner created Royal Fetish Films to challenge industry norms.Get into it!Follow King Noire:Instagram: @therealkingnoireX/Twitter: @kingnoireRoyal Fetish Films: royalfetishxxx.comMusic: Search King Noire on Spotify and Apple MusicFollow Butch Queen After Dark:Instagram: @butchqueenDavid Brandyn: @davidbrandynSubscribe for more candid conversations about sex, kink, relationships, and everything we're usually told not to talk about. And email [email protected] with your listener letters!

What's it really like being Black, gay, and sexually liberated in Jamaica?On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn welcomes Jamaican dancer, performer, content creator, and LGBTQ+ advocate FayJohn, our first international guest!Jamaica has a reputation for being one of the more challenging places to live openly as LGBTQ+, but FayJohn is here to give us a firsthand look at the queer community, including its nightlife, dating scene, cruising culture, and sexual freedom.We get into everything from secret queer parties and hookup apps to sexual fantasies, being vers, and why you should never assume who's a top or bottom based on appearances.FayJohnInstagram/TikTok: @fayjohn_David BrandynInstagram/TikTok/X: @davidbrandynButch Queen After DarkInstagram: @butchqueenIf you enjoyed this conversation, make sure to LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE! Subscribe to Butch Queen After Dark for new episodes every Saturday and sometimes Wednesdays!Have a question, story, or topic you'd like us to explore? Email [email protected].

This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with content creator, commentator, and internet personality Justin James, aka The King of Reads, for an unfiltered conversation about sex, scandal, dating, and life in the public eye.Justin opens up about his sexual awakenings, his love of intimacy, and why kissing might be the most underrated part of sex. We get into the world of sides, the pressure to perform sexually, and why some gay men feel obligated to top or bottom even when they don't enjoy it.But things get even juicier when Justin addresses the recent online controversy surrounding his dating life. He shares his side of the story, discusses HIV stigma and misinformation, and reflects on the challenges of dating while being a public figure.

Queen Kendall pulls up to Butch Queen After Dark for a conversation about sex, confidence, porn, transition, dating, and why she’ll take a Butch Queen over trade any day.She opens up about her first major sexual awakening, group sex, being a self-described side off camera, and why her personal sex life is all about being taken care of after spending so much time performing for other people. We also get into what attracts her to Butch Queens, her definition of trade, hygiene, dating as a trans woman, and the very specific question she uses to decide whether she’s really attracted to somebody: “Would I eat his ass?”Follow Queen KendallInstagram: https://instagram.com/phuckyotattoozX/Twitter: https://x.com/LongLiveKendallFollow DavidInstagram: https://instagram.com/davidbrandynX/Twitter: https://x.com/davidbrandynFOLLOW BUTCH QUEEN AFTER DARKInstagram: https://instagram.com/butchqueenSubscribe to the channel, like the episode, and let us know your thoughts in the comments.Have a longer question or a topic you want discussed on the show?Email: [email protected]

It’s Locktober on Butch Queen After Dark, and this week we’re talking chastity, cages, domination, discipline, rubber, fitness, and what happens when you take your penis out of the equation. David sits down with Sir Jasper to talk about his journey from identifying as submissive to becoming a Dom—and how putting on a chastity cage unexpectedly helped him get there.Jasper also opens up about being a Black gay man navigating expectations around masculinity, penis size, topping, and the “BBC” stereotype, and how chastity helped him realize that his dominance didn’t have to come from his dick.Follow Sir JasperInstagram: https://instagram.com/the_fitness_domX: https://x.com/the_fitness_domBluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/thefitnessdom.bsky.socialCheck out his book The Discipline System.Follow DavidInstagram: https://instagram.com/davidbrandynFOLLOW BUTCH QUEEN AFTER DARKInstagram: https://instagram.com/butchqueenSubscribe to the channel, rate the video, and drop your thoughts in the comments.Have a longer question or a topic you want discussed on the [email protected] episodes of Butch Queen After Dark every Saturday—and sometimes Wednesday.

On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Gabriel joins David for an inightful conversation about sexual freedom, spirituality, nudism, kink, and living without shame. Gabriel explains how nudism became a form of sensual and artistic self-expression, how shamanism and left-hand path philosophy shape his life, and how tantric practices can create deeper sexual connections.The conversation also gets into spit play, role-playing, dominance and submission, being a switch, navigating an open marriage, and supporting a partner whose interests differ from your own. Have a topic you want discussed or someone you want to see interviewed? Email [email protected] David: instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark: instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Gabriel: instagram.com/mikegabrielcox

Happy Bisexual Awareness Week! In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Damn Daddy Onyx for an open, funny, and unapologetically freaky conversation about bisexuality, dominance, leather culture, marriage, and sexual freedom after 40.Damn Daddy shares how exploring his attraction to men became a sexual awakening, why he identifies as a top who enjoys dominating other tops, and how one night at a Black ONYX event changed his understanding of leather culture. He also opens up about navigating kink while married to someone outside the leather community, establishing hard limits, practicing consent, and embracing body confidence as he approaches 47.Follow David instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Damn Daddy instagram.com/damndaddyonyx

Actor, comedian, writer, and UCB Artistic Director Chris Renfro joins David Brandyn for a funny, candid conversation about what happens when your relationship with sex completely changes.Chris opens up about going from a self-described capital-S “Slut” in their twenties to nearly two years of celibacy, and how stepping away from sex gave them space to rethink what they actually wanted from hookups, intimacy, gender, and relationships. The conversation also gets into Chris’s evolving relationship with gender fluidity and they/them pronouns, experimenting with different identities during the pandemic, navigating gender expression as a working actor, and the importance of having friends who give you room to change.Follow David instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Chris instagram.com/themeatskeleton