A Mexican and a Redneck Father the World.

Resting allows you to recharge the creative wellspring inside of you. You have a functional mind and a subconscious creative mind. When you do not rest the subconscious, you feel exhausted. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

In this episode we discuss why it is important to have hard conversations before marriage.  We explore how conversations about values, finances and children are not just conversations but verbal agreements. We also discuss why pre marriage conversations will teach you how to communicate with each other before you are in a committed marriage. New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

Everyday is full of potential. List as we discuss how to see the potential in every moment and situation. Every moment before this moment was preparing you for right now. New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

Why do you choose to help someone? That is the topic we will explore in this episode.  People function and process bad situations much better if we have someone who can help us through the situation. New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

In this four part series, we interview Will. Will describes the challenges and growth he has experienced being the father of a disabled child. In part 4, we learn about Will's relationship with his other children and how he leads his family.  Contact will on Twitter at @wgrapperhaus Or contact Will at https://gracepointebc.org New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

In this four part series, we interview Will. Will describes the challenges and growth he has experienced being the father of a disabled child. In part 3, Will discusses the unique set of challenges and the unique set of blessings that he and his wife have experienced as parents of a disabled child. Contact will on Twitter at @wgrapperhaus Or contact Will at https://gracepointebc.org New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

In this four part series, we interview Will. Will describes the challenges and growth he has experienced being the father of a disabled child. In part 2, Will describes the foundations of his marriage and how learning about his unborn Child's issues affected his marriage. Will describes the suppressed issues in him that were brought out as a result of the diagnosis. Contact will on Twitter at @wgrapperhaus Or contact Will at https://gracepointebc.org New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

In this four part series, we interview Will. Will describes the challenges and growth he has experienced being the father of a disabled child. In part 1, Will describes his daughter's condition and his reaction to the discovery of her condition.  We also learn about Will's upbringing. Contact will on Twitter at @wgrapperhaus Or contact Will at https://gracepointebc.org New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

In our experience, nature is one of the best teachers. Too many adults and children in America spend too much time inside. People are stressed, weak and unhealthy. Going outside will fix those issues. Looking at nature and wildlife reminds us that life does not have to be complicated and it is okay to simply exist.  1. Nature will kill you because you did not obey the rules. In reality you will kill yourself because you did not obey the rules. This lesson is important because respect is a universal language for all living things. 2. Nature will make you push yourself if you want to succeed. We discuss gardening as an example. If you don't take care of the garden, it will not take care of you. 3. Nature will force you to slow down by design. Nature is designed to slow you down and make you pay attention to your surroundings. If you don't you could end up in a bad situation. New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]

This episode is a continuation of episode 20 "How To Be A Man When You Don't Have A Father Around".  We discuss some thoughts from episode 20 and how they have inspired some new thoughts on mentorship.  When does the mentor/mentee relationship end? Some will end naturally, some will last for a season of life and others will last a life time and become true friendships. For the lifetime mentorship this will become a parent/child type relationship.  What is a mentors purpose? The mentor is there to help you develop your adult identity while helping you work through your daily tasks. Additionally, we need a mentor to see what we don't see. There are three perceptions for every person: Who we think we are, who people think we are and who we really are. A mentor will help you reveal who you really are.  New episode every Wednesday. Find us on Twitter: Ben@Redneck_Father & Juan@mexican_father Email us at: [email protected] [email protected]