A Common Life

What if the most radical act in today's frenetic world is simply embracing the ordinary? For three years, we've been sharing our philosophy of "A Common Life," but we realized we've never fully explained what that means. When someone recently suggested we change our name to "An Uncommon Life," we knew it was time to articulate our vision more clearly.A common life acknowledges that we share this journey with others. In a deeply divided world, we're making a call to remember our fundamental interconnectedness—in our communities, neighborhoods, and on this planet. The Latin root "communis" reminds us that life was never meant to be lived in isolation.While so many voices push us to be extraordinary, spectacular, and loud, we're championing the beauty found in mundane moments. As our digital world accelerates toward virtual reality, blurring the lines between human and machine, we believe slowing down to embrace our humanity is revolutionary.This isn't about elitism—a rich life is accessible to everyone. Whether it's savoring morning coffee, tending a small garden, cultivating relationships, or practicing silence, these simple acts reconnect us with what makes us human. Just a century ago, everyone lived by the sun's rhythms. Today, most can't even tell you when it rises or sets. Reconnecting with these natural patterns pushes us back toward our humanity.Our philosophy embraces seasonal rhythms, place-based living, deliberate simplicity, integration of spiritual and physical life, and the centrality of the shared table. We're inviting you to notice the world around you, participate actively in life's rhythms, slow down intentionally, and connect meaningfully with your community.Join us in this quiet revolution. In a culture obsessed with the extraordinary, perhaps embracing the common is the most radical act of all.Community Newsletter - The CommonDM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

In this episode Morgan and I talk about our family's trip to Vermont for a Permaculture Design Course with Ben Falk, Mark Krawczyk, and Erik Schellenberg. Mentioned in the show:Ben Falk - The Resilient Farm and HomesteadMark Krawczyk - Coppice AgroforestryErik SchellenbergBill MollisonVermonts land-use lawCommunity Newsletter - The CommonDM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

We explore the possibilities and implications of artificial intelligence alongside the everyday challenges and joys of farm living.• Taylor discovers ChatGPT's impressive capabilities when helping his mom with landscaping plans• Discussion on how AI might benefit Kingdom work through translation services and theological resources• Morgan experiences FOMO as city-dwelling friends join a gym with amenities unavailable to her on the farm• Taylor explains plans for regenerative farming practices to replace conventional GMO corn wildlife plots• Nuanced conversation about GMO crops, acknowledging benefits while questioning corporate agricultural control• Challenges of raising livestock and dealing with pests like ticks, considering guinea fowl as natural control• The surprisingly positive experiences with strangers at Costco complimenting their family• Morgan reflects on balancing creative expression with the demands of raising young childrenCommunity Newsletter - The CommonDM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

"What if the simple act of reading a physical book has become a form of cultural resistance? Taylor and Morgan ponder this question while diving into their current obsessions with beef tallow cooking, homemade marshmallows, and thought-provoking literature.The conversation begins with a lighthearted examination of "virtue signaling" in modern homestead culture. Is sharing your reading list or posting about cooking with tallow simply a way to showcase your virtues? Taylor and Morgan acknowledge the grain of truth here while celebrating the genuine joy of discovering and sharing meaningful books, recipes, and ideas with others who appreciate them.Food takes center stage as the couple describes their journey away from vegetable oils toward traditional cooking fats like beef tallow. Their description of making homemade french fries as "a labor of love" captures the special moments created when family gathers around the kitchen, snagging hot fries straight from the skillet. Morgan's triumph with perfecting homemade marshmallows after multiple attempts demonstrates the satisfaction of culinary persistence, while her candid confession about being stuck in a dinner rut will resonate with anyone who's ever stared blankly into a well-stocked refrigerator.Literary discussions reveal both hosts' evolving relationship with reading. Taylor shares his appreciation for Substack's thoughtful, long-form content without the distraction of advertisements, while Morgan enthusiastically describes her latest book haul including works by Julia Cameron and Annie Dillard. Perhaps most refreshing is their mutual liberation from feeling obligated to finish every book they start – a freedom that has expanded their literary horizons and reading enjoyment.This delightful glimpse into Taylor and Morgan's everyday pleasures reminds us that a meaningful life often emerges from these small indulgences and thoughtful explorations rather than grand gestures or achievements. Whether you're curious about beef tallow cooking, looking for your next great read, or simply enjoy authentic conversation, this episode offers a warm invitation to appreciate life's common treasures."Thanks Jenkins!Let us know what you think! Reach out to us at [email protected] Newsletter - The CommonDM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

This episode unfolds the beauty of slowing down to notice life’s simple pleasures and the enriching conversations that strengthen relationships. We explore the concept of a 'familiar walk,' the heartwarming story of adopting Luna, and what it means to define a ‘rich life’ in partnership.• Emphasizing mindfulness through daily walks • Sharing nature journaling prompts to engage the senses • Connecting with the beauty of subtle changes in nature • The heartwarming tale of adopting a stray dog, Luna • Reflecting on creating a rich life through shared goals • Practical gardening updates for the upcoming season Let us know what you think! Reach out to us at [email protected] Newsletter - The CommonDM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

"Parenting is not just a role; it’s a profound influence that shapes the heart and soul of a home. We promise you'll gain invaluable insights from JR Miller's "Homemaking" as we discuss parenting's pivotal role in nurturing a loving and Christ-like environment. We challenge the cultural norm of outsourcing parental duties, emphasizing the irreplaceable value of being present and intentional in our children's growth and education. By prioritizing character development over merely enforcing good behavior, we explore how parents can truly transform their homes into sanctuaries of growth and love.Transitioning from living for oneself to dedicating life to raising children can be an emotional journey filled with silent struggles and unspoken triumphs. We candidly address the tension between nurturing children and maintaining one's identity, acknowledging the shame and sadness that sometimes accompanies this shift. Through personal reflections and cultural insights, we aim to lift the veil on these struggles, sharing a poignant image of unseen support in the form of angels completing a weary parent's work. Accepting our imperfections while striving to do our best is a recurring theme, offering comfort and understanding to parents navigating this complex journey.A nurturing home environment goes beyond aesthetics, involving active engagement and shared experiences that build treasured memories. We highlight the significance of fathers actively participating in their children's lives and the power of simple courtesies and affection in family interactions. The dynamics between parents significantly influence children's behavior, and we advocate for an atmosphere of love and cultural enrichment within the home. Excitingly, we ponder the idea of involving children in future segments, especially with Wendell's anticipated enthusiasm, leaving us eager for the joyful possibilities this could bring to our discussions."Find the book Home-Making by J.R. Miller here.Find us Elsewhere:Instagram - @_ACommonLife - MorganCommunity Newsletter - The CommonTaylor on SubstackMorgan on SubstackDM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] or [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

"Picture this: you're living in a city where grabbing a forgotten item from the store is a minor inconvenience, and neighbors are only an arm's length away, ready to lend a cup of sugar. Now imagine trading that spontaneous, bustling life for the serenity of the countryside, where you're surrounded by rolling hills and friendly cows, not convenience stores. We reflect on our big move back to rural living after five years in town, sharing heartwarming tales of community support and the unexpected challenges that come with a longer drive to the nearest gas station. It's a journey that takes us back to our college days, where borrowing from neighbors in apartment complexes was as simple as knocking on a door.Is the slower pace of country life worth the trade-off for the spontaneous joys of city living? We weigh the pros and cons, reminiscing about the bonds formed in our urban neighborhood and the unique sense of community we found in the countryside. There’s a special beauty in knowing your neighbors, whether in town or out in the country, and we shine a light on the intentional decision to embrace the rural lifestyle. From longer drives to the irreplaceable peace and privacy, the contrasting dynamics of both environments make for a thoughtful conversation about where we truly feel at home.Our rural adventures don't stop there – we dive into our experiences of homesteading and the sheer joy of raising livestock, even when facing challenges like unexpected wildlife encounters. Farming has taught us life's most valuable lessons and the magic of being connected to the land and seasons. We also share a preview of our Substack newsletter, filled with gardening tips and personal stories, aiming to inspire others to live intentionally and harmoniously with nature. Whether you're dreaming of country living or simply curious, join us as we explore the deeper connections that come with embracing the rural life." Another doozy AI description. Thanks Jenkins. Find us Elsewhere:Instagram - @_ACommonLife - MorganCommunity Newsletter - The CommonDM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

"Can selecting the right life partner truly set the course for a lifetime of happiness or heartache? Join us as Morgan takes the wheel, exploring the profound themes of JR Miller's "Homemaking," specifically chapter three, "The Wife's Part." With Taylor's insightful commentary, we address listener feedback and delve into the delicate art of choosing a spouse who fulfills the deepest needs for love and companionship. We candidly discuss our own marriage journey, acknowledging that it's a continuous work in progress while offering personal insights that might resonate with your experiences too.Explore the essence of what it means to be a true wife in marriage. We examine the core tenets of faithfulness, trust, and how these powerful traits can elevate a relationship to new heights. Through the wisdom of Proverbs 31, we highlight how genuine submission and mutual respect can inspire love and openness within a marriage. This conversation isn't just about fulfilling roles; it's about discovering how a wife’s influence can profoundly impact her husband’s life and heart, creating a harmonious and supportive partnership.The discussion doesn't stop at the front door. We navigate the valued tradition of homemaking and its significance, especially in families with young children. Within our social circles, staying at home as a mom is a common choice, bringing its own set of challenges and rewards. We emphasize the nurturing power of creating a warm, welcoming home environment and reflect on the wife's role as a beacon of mercy beyond her household. As we explore the joy found in domestic management and the strength derived from love and faith, we encourage our listeners to embrace their unique gifts. Be sure to subscribe and stay tuned for our upcoming discussions on the pivotal role of parents in the family dynamic."Thanks JenkinsAI for an excellent summary. Find the book Home-Making by J.R. Miller here.Find us Elsewhere:Instagram - @_ACommonLife - MorganInstagram - @RiverFlyFarms - TaylorCommunity Newsletter - The CommonTwitter - @Taylor__MyersLinkedIn - Taylor MyersNeed some help with help with your garden or homestead? Book a 15 minute free consult with Taylor to see if he can help.DM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

"What if the secret to a thriving marriage lies in the everyday acts of love and kindness we often overlook? Explore this compelling idea with us on A Common Life Podcast as we dissect the husband's role in crafting a harmonious home, drawing inspiration from JR Miller's classic "Homemaking." Morgan and I tackle the profound impact of love expressed through daily actions and how it mirrors the unfaltering love Christ has for the church. This episode is a heartfelt invitation to husbands to embrace their roles as the gentle anchors of their homes, ensuring that affection and empathy are the cornerstones of marital bliss.In the midst of life's chaos, how often do we forget to honor those who stand by us? We delve into the subtle yet powerful practice of cherishing our partners while they're alive, emphasizing the importance of acknowledgment and involvement in life's decisions. Our conversation sheds light on the dynamic interplay of gender roles and marital expectations, urging partners to grow individually and together. By recognizing each other as invaluable companions, we explore how marriages can be nurtured with mutual respect and active love.Through thoughtful discussions, we unpack the nuances of maintaining kindness, particularly from a husband's perspective. The episode underscores the transformative power of gentle words and the necessity of empathy in supporting one's spouse through daily challenges. Whether it's acknowledging your partner’s efforts or sharing the load of life's burdens, this episode serves as a gentle reminder to express love not just through grand gestures but through everyday actions that foster a flourishing marital relationship. As we gear up for our next episode on the wives' roles, we welcome your thoughts and feedback to enhance our exploration of these timeless insights."Thanks Jenkins (our AI summary bot).Find the book Home-Making by J.R. Miller here.Find us Elsewhere:Instagram - @_ACommonLife - MorganInstagram - @RiverFlyFarms - TaylorCommunity Newsletter - The CommonTwitter - @Taylor__MyersLinkedIn - Taylor MyersNeed some help with help with your garden or homestead? Book a 15 minute free consult with Taylor to see if he can help.DM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”

"Imagine two trees, rooted side by side, growing together yet separately. This episode opens with such a metaphor as we reflect on the essence of marriage and its transformative role in our lives. Drawing insights from JR Miller's timeless work, 'Homemaking,' we unravel the significance of weddings as cultural celebrations and explore how they set the stage for a lifelong journey with a partner. Personal stories from our own wedding experiences illustrate the importance of having a network of supportive loved ones and how marriage enriches our individual callings.Listeners will gain a fresh perspective on nurturing healthy relationships. We explore the delicate balance between interdependence and independence, highlighting the distinction between viewing marriage as a covenant versus a contract. There's a heartwarming discourse on the importance of patience, courtesy, and the small acts of kindness that sustain love over time. We also emphasize the sacredness of anniversaries, encouraging communal celebrations that reaffirm commitment and connection.Finally, listeners will discover practical wisdom for building lasting partnerships. We delve into the complexities of shared spaces and emotional growth, underscoring the importance of communication and forgiveness in preventing misunderstandings. Through a personal poem, we celebrate the beauty of differences, revealing how contrasting yet complementary roles create a unique and enduring bond. As we gear up for future discussions on roles within marriage, our hope is to inspire a journey of happiness, growth, and mutual understanding."Thanks Jenkins. Find the book Home-Making by J.R. Miller here.Find us Elsewhere:Instagram - @_ACommonLife - MorganInstagram - @RiverFlyFarms - TaylorCommunity Newsletter - The CommonTwitter - @Taylor__MyersLinkedIn - Taylor MyersNeed some help with help with your garden or homestead? Book a 15 minute free consult with Taylor to see if he can help.DM us on the Socials or email us at [email protected] on the podcast was composed by Kevin Dailey. The artist is Garden Friend. The track is the instrumental version of “On a Cloud”