The Passion Podcast

In this episode Saora and Jeremie Lotemo intimately explore the path of men's healing. - Exploring the deep pain and wounds experienced by men - Womens challenges in: *Finding the balance between expressing boundaries and showing understanding/compassion *Reclaiming voice without swinging to extremes. *Recognizing the impact of choices on relationships and respect. - Importance of respect in relationships and its role in preventing resentment. - Navigating conflicts, controls patterns. - Men's deep desire to provide and serve. - The fear and programming of men being disrespected if they express vulnerability. - Respect is CRUCIAL!!!!!! - Understanding the impulse to control and change one's partner. - Embracing and allowing change by acknowledging and presencing it. - The impact of the mother wound/abandonment wound. - Core beliefs arising from wounds: self-worth and approval seeking. - Masculine presence tied to safety and structure. - The significance of men's circles for healing and connection. - Healing through emotional expression and brotherly support. - Reparenting oneself and nurturing the inner child. - Connecting with nature to heal the mother wound. - Spiritual healing through connecting with the feminine aspect. - Identifying the origin of wounds and symptom detection. - Empowering men with love and respect while promoting growth. Saora Love: WEBSITE- www.saora.love Jeremie Lotemo is a poet, writer & transformation coach. Since 2020, Jeremie has made it his life’s work to help as many people as possible create lives and relationships that reflect their heart’s deepest desire for love and wholeness. Jeremie is also known for his body of work around healing the masculine shadow, challenging strict gender roles, and creating new paradigms of masculinity. LINKS: Website - www.byermeas.com Instagram & Twitter - @byermeas

Where has Saora been? In this episode, the beginning of season 2, Saora shares vulnerably about what’s been going on for her these past months and why she suddenly disappeared without warning. SAORA’S NEW WEBSITE!!! www.saora.love Episode 21- Saora went alone in the wilderness for 7 weeks: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7D1imZ8q9dG3Vsj2mht3dS?si=PftSuiQ3SiWq3vHYWxrdZA

Jason and Saora discuss a broad array of topics including: Conflict = Energy: The Transformative Practice of Authentic Relating Conflict transformation. First step is to do nothing… not react.   Trusting the uncomfortability of the unraveling. Ancestral karma and the clearing of karma as part of our life purpose. The balance between dignity and humility. How Saora got her name and what it means. C*vid being like a really bad medicine trip, and how we can move into post traumatic growth as a community. Nothing is personal… Creating islands of coherence. Jason’s Bio Author of Conflict = Energy, The Transformative practice of Authentic Relating, Jason is a modern renaissance man. Equal parts artist, philosopher, teacher, and media producer, from 2003-2012 he worked for Ken Wilber to create thousands of hours of educational media on the topics of transpersonal psychology, spirituality, productivity, and personal growth. For 4 years before Co-Founding ART International, Jason Studied with all of the major leaders in the circling and authentic relating. This allowed him to synthesize the curriculum into a concise guide and publish Conflict = Energy in 2020. He was the first person to start a podcast for the global AR community and spread The Art of Being Human course to Bali and Europe. Obsessed with how humans can live and relate optimally, he’s facilitated groups and taught authentic relating and circling since 2012 and he has led courses in over 20 cities around the world. Jason is also passionate about translating deep wisdom principles and personal growth methods for main stream audiences. His latest work on Polarity Guidance for managers and leaders, brings the Authentic Relating teachings and practices into companies.  www.jasondigges.com

Saora gets truly raw and vulnerable sharing her experience around identity structures and how to find true and lasting freedom from ourselves. She also shares intimate details about her relationship and the recent challenges they've been navigating and how it all ties in.  Saora Love: I carry a strong medicine… A very well-forged and sharp sword of truth. This is balanced with a large capacity for empathy, compassion, and zero judgement.  
I have been through a lot of intense suffering and a vast array of pain and challenge…always coming out the other side freer, clearer, and more loving. These trials are a huge blessing. Because of them, I am able to support a broad array of humans with a vast spectrum of challenges. The only way I have found this level of embodiment is in fully reclaiming, fully retemplatizing, and fully integrating my whole, multidimensional, infinite self and having unshakeable trust in it all.  Through my mentorship, I guide people back to the only place of true power, which is taking 100% responsibility for every single aspect of reality.   With an understanding of the nature of this realm, I support people to recognize and alchemize the deep allure of identity structures that keep them vastly limited. I help people transcend stuck attachments and reunite with their authentic essence.  I am here for the resurrection and reintegration of wholeness through energy mastery. I am here for those that are ready for a radical awakening. I am an open and unconditional invitation for love. I can see you, because I am journeying the same path. Seer | Identity Slayer | Wisdom Channel | Mystical Mentor Saora's links IG: https://www.instagram.com/saoralove/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/saoralove82/

Men’s fear of power… Fear of becoming the tyrant What is a tyrant and what do men need to face to address the fear of the tyrant? Common patterns men go into to get their needs met. Men's nature to be provisional and how it can get distorted with mommy wounds. Men's sexual trauma How erectile dysfunction is actually often the bodies strong guidance system and not disfunction at all. Men's eros, the power of it and how to navigate it. Learning to ride the beast of your eros or it will ride you. Dealing with guilt and shame around sexuality and what can be on the other side of sexual wounding. Men's journey from lover, magicial, warrior to king.  Nicola D'Alonzo In service to the king. Masculine Anointment. Grail King Oracle https://www.facebook.com/nicola.dalonzo.9

The traumas of separation will break up union if we let it. Saora has a very deep discussion with Sarah Poet about how can both people can own their side and be accountable about radical honesty about what’s going on inside of you. They pull apart the topic of owning the truth of your experience and the stories you then create. It's about true union… 
Union within, union with other and most importantly union with the divine.
 3:04 Sarah introduces herself. 5:58 Trauma and supporting each others nervous systems. 7:20 The bullshit that’s taught in the polarity world. 10:18 How trauma lives in the body. 11:15 The importance of bringing your traumas into the light in a wholesome and sovereign way. 12:25 Sarah guides an exploration to discover any residual traumas, and gives advice around how to work together to meet and heal it. 17:17 The foundation of innocence and working on the same team. 18:20 When you com from presenting what’s happening within the body now… No one can be wrong. 20:00 The traumas of separation and what causes them. 25:15 Sovereign sacred union. 26:30 The ways we project mother/father wounds onto each other. 31:01 Carrying wounded victim templates and how it destroys union. 34:30 soul union bonding/enmeshment. 38:44 Claiming our desire for union, the trap of meaning making and how we can get trapped in relationships for too long. 41:00 Potential infiltration in relationships. 44:00 Potential shadows in dom/sub dynamics. 47:50 Eroticized wounds… 52:30 What are you okay with tolerating? Looking honestly if we’re going into eroticized wounds. 54:50 What does regenerative energy feel like? 101:00 Healthy versions of polarity. 105:00 Polarity in the unified field. Sarah Poet is a truth seeker, a thought leader, a former school creator turned feminine/masculine integration expert, and, as it turns out, a medicine woman for modern times. It is Sarah’s mission to serve the true evolution of human consciousness, to integrate feminine & masculine on all levels, and to bridge us collectively from separation to connection. Sarah helps couples, individuals, and organizations heal the separation traumas inflicted by patriarchal culture and come into deeper connection via integrity, embodied intimacy, resiliency, authenticity, & love. Sarah will go with you to the depths, responding exactly to your unique path or query, to uncover your deepest and most empowering truths. Listen to her TEDx, her Sacred Remembering Podcast, & book time with her at https://www.SarahPoet.com. IG: @embodiedbreath

Saora shares about her huge journey where she went into the wilderness alone for almost two months. No power, reception, no buildings... Just her and nature. She shares about her deep rite of passage and also just a general life update.

Take a peek inside this beautiful and deep relationship. Mikaal and Touch get raw and real about what works and what doesn't work. 

Saora Love gets really vulnerable and shares about her life in a whole new way. If you want to get to know her more... Listen to this.

Unraveling the common challenges that come up in relationships. The ways that men and women misunderstand each other and powerful ways to create more union, happiness and polarity. 7:30 The differences between men's and women's needs. 11:05 The purity and good intention of men's desire to provide. 12:00 The two reasons why men stop providing. 13:12 More productive ways that men/women can get their needs/desires met. 16:40 The main challenges men have around supporting women in ways that they desire. 22:49 A helpful format for communication. 25:22 Understanding the beauty of sameness and difference and how to work with both. 27:50 Women yearning for men's leadership and how everyone would be greatly served by men learning to understand how a woman really functions. 29:42 The difference between women's resentment and a women's need/desire to be independent. 32:00 A process for healing judgement.   35:46 How women perceive men in a certain way and it compromises their openness. 37:10 “Where are all the good men”… How this is very telling and damaging. 38:54 The trap as women to bring any kind of superiority into a relationship. 41:00 The ways women can be more understanding of men and the things they have to move through. 44:00 How unhealthy it is for a couple to process everything together. 46:00 The edges Justine has had to face within herself. 54:00 The biggest projection that Saora has had to face. 56:20 How we want people to be things that they simply are not. 58:45 the difference between worth and compatibility. Justine's links: Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/justine-baruch-32b47b18a/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/justinebaruch/ https://justinebaruch.com/how-men-women-handle-stress-differently Her programs: http://justinebaruch.com/adored-group-program https://justinebaruch.com/lead-your-love