How to Deal With Failure & Setbacks (final episode)

Shane Parish is the New York Times Bestselling author behind the incredible Clear Thinking, and today we are lucky enough to sit down with him to chat about all of the ways that our minds hold us back, the key steps you can take towards personal growth, and discuss how to be the best version of yourself. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro 02:00 Emotional reactions and strategies for dealing with them 13:45 Blocking people who you cannot deal with 19:05 The behaviours your ideal self would want 22:40 Taking responsibility 31:15 Nice vs Kind People 36:50 Quitting 47:15 Dealing with the fear of failure 52:20 Surrounding yourself with success

After months of training, race day is here, but are you actually going to be able to perform? After a weekend of massive PB's all around here at The Not So Fit Couple Podcast, we think it's high time to discuss the mentality of a PB, how to prep the best way possible and best practices for race day. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro 02:30 Ben is a window shopper 04:00 Ben and Lucy's PB's this month 08:00 12 Weeks Til Summer 10:00 Building your battery 13:00 Shake out runs 17:00 Taper week prior to an event 23:15 Whoop before an event? 25:30 Electrolytes 28:00 Beetroot pees 31:30 Carbs, nutrition and peaking 41:00 Marathon gels 45:00 Nutrition the morning of a marathon 49:00 Olympian Mcdonalds nutrition 51:30 Bill and Ben at Hyrox 55:00 Tips for raceday

Lucy just returned from running 340 miles from LA to Las Vegas with an insane crew, how did it go and what went wrong? If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00:00 Intro 00:04:00 What is the Speed Project 00:9:30 Logistics of Running 340 Miles 00:11:50 This wasn't your normal ultra 00:20:00 The ups and down of an ultra 00:25:00 The hardest Part of Running as a Woman 00:33:30 Death Valley - Vegas 00:41:00 The Finish Line 00:48:00 Doing TSP Again?

have you always wanted to run a cheeky lil mara? Well today Lucy is here today to answer all of your questions, her favourite running shoes for all types of training, bonking on a run, gels, salts and why she insists on wearing oakleys even when it's pitch black outside. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners!  https://mycoach-school.com/join  Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis:  Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon:  Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro  3:00 Bonking your first marathon  6:00 95% of people will never sprint after 30  6:44 Fave Running Shoes  10:28 Marathon Gels  18:00 The voice in my head  24:50 Too slow to run a marathon  28:26 Sunglasses at night  31:42 Splitting my training up  39:20 Difference between a solo ultra and a team ultra

Have you always wanted to compete in a HYROX race but never quite got around to it? Today's your lucky day. @LucyDavisFit is here to answer every single question you could have. Hardest stations, the full 24 hours of race day and what to expect and so much more. We'll be back next week with ben for a normal ep! If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro  4:17 What is Hyrox?  6:30 Hardest Hyrox Station?  9:00 Starting out as a Hyrox Athlete 12:10 what can i expect from HYROX? 17:45 The perfect doubles partner  21:30 Post ultramarathon injuries  24:10 I want abs for my holiday  29:40 Do you feel pressure to push through injuries because of social media?  33:40 People judge the weights that i lift  36:43 Cats Cats Cats 

Our essential exercises, cyber flashing laws and body confidence affecting intimacy is on the agenda today, thank you to everyone who submitted questions for another banging Q&A episode. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 0:00 Coffee Thoughts 5:00 Intro 6:00 How have we dealt with winter this year? 11:30: Body image affecrting intimacy 15:00 All things kittens 22:00 Who pushes more in fitness? 26:00 2 exercises for life 30:00 Cyber flashing laws 40:30 Being addicted to fitness 45:00 Posting about pregnancy 53:00 Harry potter vs Disney 56:00 Fingers or Nipz

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How can i start to think clearly when running? I struggle to breathe properly when i'm out, i always feel out of breath. If this sounds like you, then boy do we have a banger of an episode for you today. If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/

Building strong muscles and building big muscles are two very different things, but what do you need to know in order to effectively do either? Today we're diving in to everything you need to know along with some stories of us trying to build muscle in the past. Have you ever seen a 60kg woman trying to spot a 230kg back squat? ____________________________ If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro 02:30 Muscle Size Vs Strength 04:00 Lucy and Ben's current training 08:30 best rep ranges for different types of training 14:40 Bodybuilding compared to strength workouts 19:30 Having big muscles while running 23:30 5-3-1 training 27:00 Powerlifting 33:00 Exercise selection 35:00 Building big legs safely 39:00 Women Vs Men in recovery 43:20 How can i train for Strength and for Power?

Cassia Tierney Clarke is an incredibly inspirational woman. By age 20 she was obese, binge drinking and lacking direction in her life. After finding movement, running and health and fitness, lost 110lbs on her obesity journey and quit drinking. She now runs her own successful podcast and owns a coaching community where she inspires and coaches people to make their own transformations. Find more of Cassia here: https://www.instagram.com/cassiatierney/?hl=en If you have any other questions for the next episode drop them in here: ngl.link/thenotsofitcouple1 Join MyCoach: Code: NotSoFit for a special discount for podcast listeners! https://mycoach-school.com/join Follow us - https://www.instagram.com/mycoachapp_/ More Lucy Davis: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/LucyDavis_Fit Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPbyT8IyohY6V8ZVfI9uHug More Ben Haldon: Follow - https://www.instagram.com/MyCoachBenji Subscribe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpGRgA3rr1-FY9qLRgkXX3A Shop our products - https://shop.mycoachschool.com/collections/products/ 00:00 Intro  3:00 Is Running good for weight loss? 7:30 Running can be similar to non purge bulimia  15:30 There were moments where Cassia gave up 22:00 Binge drinking  35:00 Losing your drinking identity  49:00 The eraser test