THE X PODCAST

Welcome back to The X Podcast, where we talk openly about all the things you’re probably already thinking but are scared to say out loud.   Today, Waseem Mustafa and I are hacking the male brain so you can be the Insta baddie who gets everything she wants. 💅 We get into where to meet rich men, how to ask a guy for money, and what to stop putting up with when you’re dating.   Then I put Waseem on the spot with rapid-fire scenarios in Entertain It or End It? and Rich or Poor? Watch Edition. I give him the scenarios, he gives me his verdicts, and I make him explain himself. 😭   In between the jokes, we talk about how to carry yourself on a date, how to be upfront about what you want, and how to tell if he’s worth getting serious with. Waseem also shares what he thinks you should never tell a guy about your ex if you want him to see you as the prize.   And if he fucks you over? As Waseem would say, “Go fuxk his dad.” 😭 Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ Where to find Waseem! https://www.instagram.com/drip.stivities/ Comment down below!  

HEY GUYS!!! WELCOME TO THE NEW SEASON OF THE PODCAST MISSED YOU GUYS!!! 🥂🎉 We're kicking things off with a JUICY one, and my first guest is none other than Blake Robertson from Netflix's The Ultimatum! 👀 and trust me… we're getting INTO IT. I'm sitting down with Blake to talk about EVERYTHING from this season of The Ultimatum the drama, the relationships, the behind-the-scenes tea, and all the questions you've been dying to ask.How did he REALLY get on the show? How much did Netflix pay him? What actually happened with Hailey? And the BIG question… DID HE HOOK UP WITH ASHLEY?! 👀 I put Blake in the hot seat, and nothing is off-limits. We're talking where things stand with Hailey today, his current relationship status, his upcoming move to Miami, and of course, dating, relationships, family trauma red flags and everything in between and if we think Blake is a narcissist. Let's just say… we're starting this season with a BANG🔥 Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ Where to find Blake! https://www.instagram.com/theblakerobertson/?hl=en Comment down below!

Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's 🤍 This episode is honestly hilarious. I’m joined by my gay friend Massimo, who I met here in Miami, and we basically turn this conversation into a full Miami pre-game. Miami is a whole different world when it comes to dating, nightlife, and the people you meet here… so in this episode we’re spilling the tea. We talk about everything the reality of the Miami dating scene, sugar babies and sugar daddies, where people actually go out in the city, and the weird culture around money, status, and relationships here. We also get into the food scene in Miami, the difference between Miami and other cities, and why the lifestyle here can be so extreme.and his solution? Apparently I need to move to New York lol If you’ve ever wondered what dating and nightlife in Miami are really like, this episode is basically the honest conversation people have JUST ON BLAST LOL. Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ Comment down below!

Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's 🤍 This episode is really special to me. A few weeks ago I met Kelly in Miami, and from the moment we connected we both felt like it wasn’t random. I had been praying for God to bring the right women into my life strong, godly friends and our friendship honestly feels like an answered prayer. Kelly’s dad is a pastor, and in this conversation we talk about how faith shows up in the hardest seasons of life. We get into breakups, letting go of people you once loved, and how sometimes God removes someone from your life to make space for something better. We also talk about why praying for someone you used to love can actually bring peace, how breakups can push you closer to God, and how to trust His plan even when you don’t understand what he’s doing. If you’re going through a hard season, feeling lost after a breakup, or just trying to grow closer to God, this conversation is for you. Sometimes the people God sends into your life come exactly when you need them most.

Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's 👀 In this episode we’re catching up on some real life updates. From deciding to stay in our Miami apartment for the next six months, to a conversation about whether guys and girls can actually be just friends. But the craziest part? I unexpectedly ran into my ex-boyfriend. What started as a chaotic moment turned into something I didn’t expect at all… clarity, closure, and a reminder that sometimes things really do happen for a reason. Miami stories, relationship talk, and a very real moment of growth. Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ Comment down below!!

Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's 👀 In this episode, I sit down with Big Mo, a professional host who has announced some major events including the Jake Paul fight. Mo and I actually go way back to the XMMA days, when I was working as a ring girl and we first met backstage talking about our dreams and where we wanted life to take us.Five or six years later, seeing him on stage announcing for Jake Paul gave me chills because I remembered those conversations so clearly. He was doing exactly what he said he wanted to do.Now that we’re both living in Miami, we finally sit down to catch up and talk about the journey chasing dreams, moving cities, dating in Miami, and Mo’s advice for young men when it comes to approaching women. It’s a full circle moment and a conversation about believing in what you want and actually going after it. Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ Where to find Big Mo https://www.instagram.com/official.bigmoigsh=MXQ2dWszNWlsNXVzeQ%3D%3D  

Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's In this episode ft the The Journey Podcast, we flip the script and dive into dating from the male perspective .As a woman who usually interviews women, I wanted to sit down with men and ask the questions we don’t always hear answered honestly. We talk about: • Dating from a man’s point of view • Who really has it harder in modern dating — men or women • Can men and women truly be just friends in a relationship? • Why women act the way they do when dating • Why men struggle to open up • Girlfriends vs. guy friends boundaries • The truth about asking for advice from the opposite sex This conversation is raw, honest, and unfiltered. If you’ve ever wondered what men actually think about dating, relationships, commitment, and modern women this episode is for you. Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ Where to Find The Journey Podcast 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-IwcJPYNhUopC6M0VsURGw  

Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's .... Well you may really have an X after this week's episode. In today’s Valentine’s Day special, we start by pulling back the curtain on last week’s Findom episode and go fully behind the scenes of what actually happened before the Zoom call from money expectations to boundaries, agreements, and what needed to be secured on both sides. Then we get into Valentine’s Day itself: the one day a man truly has to show up. I call my girlfriends in relationships, my single friends, and the girls “talking to someone” to ask the real question what’s the standard and what should you actually expect? We also talk dating, boundaries, self-respect, and why two situations I tried this year didn’t make it past the talking stage. Because Valentine’s Day doesn’t lie it shows you exactly where you stand. ✨ If he wanted to, he would. And this episode explains why. Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/

Hey guys, welcome back my X's 🤍 In this episode, we dive into a real, honest conversation about financial domination (findom) and what it actually looks like beyond the stereotypes. My guest breaks down when he first realized he was a loser and, how it showed up in his life, and what initially sparked his interest. We talk about whether this desire connects to upbringing or psychology, his experience with therapy, and how this dynamic functions as a form of escape rather than control in his everyday life. We also explore the contrast between his public identity and private desires how he runs a successful business, makes high-stakes decisions all day, and why surrendering control is what brings him relief. We discuss dating, real-world relationships, spending habits, and how power dynamics play out both personally and professionally. This episode includes an open discussion and live example of findom dynamics, as well as a deeper look at how desire, control, and identity intersect in modern relationships. This conversation is educational, psychological, and unfiltered intended to inform, not glamorize along with a few treats for the goddess. Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ Comment down below guys😂

Hey guys, welcome back my X's 🤍 This week's episode starts off heavy lol. I had a full- on mental Breakdown realizing I turned 30 lol.I start by sharing 30 things I’ve learned while turning 30, and then Tanya jumps in with her own thoughts. We reminisce about celebrating 10 birthdays together, what it’s like sharing a birthday with your roommate (who also moved from Canada and started this journey with you), and our quirky two-year, two-day Aquarius connection. Of course, we blow out candles, sip champagne, gossip a little, and laugh about what it really means to hit the big 3-0. 🥳 Where to find me 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ https://www.instagram.com/xthepodcast/ Where to find Tanya 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/tarossii/?hl=en 🎧 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and comment your biggest takeaway from this episode. #Turning30 #BirthdayVibes #RoommateGoals #AquariusSeason #LifeLessons #ChampagneAndChaos