Becoming Enough: Empowering Black Sheep to Remember Their Worthiness

WOW. I’ve honestly been a little speechless at how well my last video/episode did and how much it resonated and connected with you. This community grew so rapidly, and I’m so incredibly grateful for you being here.This whole sudden, unexpected experience had me reflecting on how much I’ve been trusting in the darkness of the unconventional path. I’ve started seeing more and more physical evidence of things working out, but for YEARS I’ve had to learn how to trust in the unknown.There were two main things that helped me navigate and sustain my unconventional path:1. Finding connection to ancestors, my spirit guides, and nature, and 2. Developing my self-worth to navigate rejection, confusion, and a lack of external validation.I reflect on both and offer advice on how to stay grounded while navigating the unkown. TIMESTAMPS:0:00 Cycle breakers are called to the unconventional path1:53 Your inner critic is the internalized voice of your toxic parent3:11 Unlearning Christianity & discovering spirituality5:47 Spirit guides & ancestors became my light in the darkness7:03 How to ask for a sign from the universe10:00 Decenter your toxic family to hear your intuition clearly11:49 Your toxic family created your worthiness wounds13:29 High self-worth replaces the need for validation15:06 Black sheep, cycle breakers, & eldest daughters are here to create a new worldBye-Bye Binary Workbook (Free)All links, resources, & servicesWatch on YouTubeRELATED EPISODES:Black sheep need their ancestorsHow to use channeled writing in your spiritual practiceThe time I accidentally hypnotized my bf into his past life

I recently attended my 10-year college reunion, and I'm coming to terms with feeling like a deadbeat. But when I dug into it a little deeper, I realized all the decisions I've made today are a result of unlearning toxic family expectations. I share why parentified eldest daughters often become "deadbeat daughters" as a form of self-protection, and what leads us to making the decision to stop living for others.Unlearning societal & family expectations is FREEDOM. If you're tired of the shame that comes with making unconventional decisions, you're in the right place.Subscribe for more content for black sheep by a black sheep 🖤🐑Enroll in The Self-Worth Blueprint for Black Sheep & Cycle Breakers or book a 1:1 session.TIMESTAMPS:0:00 Feeling like a deadbeat daughter0:49 Understanding the parentified eldest daughter2:42 Understanding the deadbeat eldest daughter4:05 How did we get from "most responsible" to "total deadbeat?"7:26 Eldest daughters & their CPTSD9:33 Deadbeat daughters choose peace11:58 We discovered who we are & we're not going back12:39 Sharing my personal unconventional life decisions16:50 Somatic resources to heal your self-worth woundsWatch on YouTube#eldestdaughter #parentifieddaughter #blacksheep #blacksheepofthefamily

Hey black sheep! A few years ago, I explored the shadow side of the black sheep experience through a series of tarot readings.For the next three weeks, I’ll be sharing one tarot reading from that series. This one focuses on the struggles black sheep face with inconsistency and indecision. (If you prefer to see the cards, you can ⁠⁠watch this reading on YouTube⁠⁠.)If you’re a black sheep who is ready to rebuild their self-worth, enroll in The Self-Worth Blueprint for Black Sheep & Cycle-Breakers!I am also offering private tarot readings through the end of the year! Whether you want a general reading to hear from your guides, want advice around career, love, self-worth, or your spiritual journey, or just want to reflect on the year and dream for the next, booking a tarot reading with me is the perfect way hear what you need to. TIMESTAMPS:0:00 Unlocking the Black Sheep Experience0:54 The Weight of Perfectionism and Indecision2:47 The Root of Feeling Alone5:00 Trust Issues and the Uneven Playing Field9:17 Breaking Cycles Before They Repeat15:54 The Power of Discipline and Self-Accountability

Become the deadbeat eldest daughter and set yourself FREE. Letting yourself be misunderstood, breaking up with perfectionism, and relieving yourself of hyperindependence is the way forward for cycle-breaking eldest daughters.TIMESTAMPS:0:00 becoming the deadbeat eldest daughter holds the keys to your freedom1:48 the weight of being the eldest daughter3:43 step 1: stop self-sacrificing5:10 step 2: be misunderstood6:23 step 3: break up with perfectionism8:50 channeled message to eldest daughters from air10:23 air says "don't hold back your anger"11:23 harness trickster energy14:09 the only reward for being "a good woman" is an autoimmune diseaseCOLORADO SPRINGS: Upcoming workshop on 10/11 "Channeled Writing: Connecting with Air"Private Self-Worth CoachingThe Self-Worth Blueprint for Black Sheep & Cycle Breakers

I kept seeing angel numbers like 508, 906, 303, etc. and it brought on a potent message about the stillness in between the action.You might feel stuck or stagnant right now, knowing that you are SO worthy of your desires, listening to what your guides are telling you to do, and still getting frustrated that you're not seeing the growth you expected.If you've been facing a period in slowness in your life, with friendships or love, or in your spiritual business, this reading is for you.Ready for a personal tarot reading? Book yours at https://www.blacksheepexperience.com/tarot-readings

Hey black sheep, I’m Roshni (they/them), a survivor of a toxic family and the founder of Black Sheep Experience. I teach black sheep and cycle breakers to leave the toxicity behind and reclaim their self-worth. In this video, I share 7 core life principles I use with my clients as a self-worth coach. Book a self-worth coaching session with me at blacksheepexperience.com/selfworthcoachingTIMESTAMPS:0:10 emotions as teachers, guides, portals1:37 black & white (all or nothing) thinking k*lls your progress4:26 alchemy is the best revenge5:49 the mountain was meant to be climbed, not carried7:58 you can’t self-abandon your way to happiness9:16 healthy relationships can handle your anger11:29 healing is not a race (ur just an earthling)Watch on YouTube

⁠Self-Worth Blueprint for Black Sheep & Cycle Breakers⁠TIMESTAMPS:0:00 Everyone has the jealous friend, no one is the jealous friend3:02 Toxic parents teach you to compare yourself5:40 Comparison breeds insecurity6:48 Black sheep are late bloomers9:44 Healing your comparison wound makes you a better friend11:09 Healing your comparison wound is part of walking your aligned path12:27 Life is way more fun when you're confident14:12 EFT Routine for your comparison wound (repeat after me)22:26 You should be obsessed with yourself23:00 Healing your self-worth as the black sheep/cycle breakerWatch on YouTube

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Your toxic family's use of conditional love trained you to seek out approval from others. It taught you that you were only worthy of love when you achieved it. You learned to put yourself aside in hopes that if you just did what they asked, you would someday be enough.But what you didn't realize is that their use of conditional love was a control tactic. In this episode, we explore what conditional love is, why toxic parents love their kids conditionally, and how this impacts you. Most importantly, I shared how you can break free from this toxic cycle, even if you are no contact.TIMESTAMPS:0:00 conditional parents conditioned you1:01 what is conditional love?6:25 why do toxic parents love conditionally?8:12 how does conditional love impact you?11:45 how to break free from the cycle of conditional love15:14 Why you need to break this cycle even if you’re no contact16:22 choose yourself to break the cycle 20:48 let’s hang in COSWatch this on YouTubeThe Self-Worth Blueprint for Black Sheep & Cycle BreakersSelf-Worth Coaching SessionsChanneled Writing: Connecting with Nature (Event in Colorado Springs)

Eeeek! I've spent some of this summer honing my animal communication skills, and I'm so excited to share some of these stories with you!Get a pet reading! ($10 refunded to you when you complete a feedback form after the session!)Channeled Writing: Connect with Nature event in Colorado Springs on 8/28!Connect with me on InstagramAll other resources & services from Black Sheep ExperienceWatch this video on YouTube