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How do you tell the difference between a connection and an attachment?      One always is, one is made. One is from love, one comes from fear. Can you guess which?    Since we are all individual, sovereign beings with our own control of our feelings and the life we create for ourselves personally, anything that tries to usurp that power is not for our good.      Attachments are the justification we use to feel like a victim of circumstance. It's the pressure, rules, and shoulds that lead to telling ourselves that we better do this OR ELSE...    Listen to this to find out how they control our actions and how to release attachments to feel free and connected.

If goals are the action steps we want to take and intentions are how we want to feel, then where does the money I want to make come in??  When planning for a quarter or week or day, if we focus on what we can control then we can always be successful.  But we don't control how much money we make or   if someone loves us or not or  how many clients want to work with us, etc.   How can we have what we want to be, do or have when we aren't in control?   First of all, you are in control, ONLY you are in control but in a very different way than action taking. And, it's all in the way you allow it in. Listen to find out how to adjust your perceptions and manage your belief systems to be able to have what you want by fine tuning a few things.

Order has several meanings that all relate to your business. How does it make you feel when you hear the word order? Does it make you feel calm or stressed out? Do you feel supported or overwhelmed? Usually we relate order to controlling chaos. As business owners though we think we should have complete order, right? There may be a reason or two that it's ok to have some chaos. Order can also relate to prioritizing and this is one of the most efficient ways to make business decisions. Listen to this episode for the answers to how you can use all meanings of order to your advantage!!

When you expect something there's a level of knowing that accompanies that thought. This is the step in the decision to allowing process that can move ahead your desire or slow it down. If you know it then you aren't in the way. Putting meanings on an expectation can also effect the outcome. Depending on your belief system it can slow you down or send you on a wild goose chase away from what you want. And when working with a team in your business, your processes around expectations will determine how the whole team works. Listen to find out how to use expectations in these and other instances to ensure your outcomes are what you want!

Creating, creativity and being a creative in business can be a little confusing. Is it a good thing? How is it helpful? All business owners create. We've created our business values, messaging, brand, etc and yet I've heard some say they aren't "creative." All creatives have a business. We want to be paid for our art which is our work so we need processes, systems, marketing, etc and yet I've heard some speak of art being a business as a negative thing. It could be that some limiting beliefs around the inclusion of creating and creativity in business may be keeping us from being more productive, efficient and profitable. Could it be that accepting a righteous cultural belief around how a creative should  be struggling, disorganized, or suffering in order to be deemed  successful is in fact, the reason many are not financially stable and  their art is not being seen? Listen to see how to integrate creating, creativity and the creative with a sound profitable business.

As you optimistically run thru the lilies of your life enjoying the eager anticipation of your big vision materializing, have you ever had a "friend" say to you, "You need to be realistic." ???? Or maybe when the 2 of you are standing there looking at the same thing, your optimistic perception is met with a determined theory around why it  won't work. Or it isn't good and they are so worried about you acting like you've got your head in the sand about this thing. Then they say, "I'm just being realistic.", as you feel yourself being drug down the hole to despair??? Who is right??? What if there's no right or wrong, just a decision made and empowered determination put behind it? One way or the other, it's your choice to decide how you want to look at something. Listen to find out which one gets you more of what you want; which one will make for a more successful business and happier life!!!

We don't use the word eager a lot. The image of an "eager beaver" seems kinda uncool and needy. What if we use eagerness as a way to lean back into our sureness or confidence instead? Feeling an eager anticipation of what we are sure is  coming. Now it brings with it a high-vibe knowing and we are empowered while still feeling very playful. Yes, it's not only ok, but very healthy to be playful. It's so much easier and smarter to  move forward this way. You are actually helping along the very thing that you have an eagerness about by being even more open to letting it happen. Listen to find out how to get to a place of eager anticipation and the steps from there that will bring into being what you want!!

Why do we feel we need clarity?? How do we know when we have it? We use our need for clarity to give ourselves permission to act. Because of this, we often let it be the very thing that stands in the way of having exactly what we want. That back and forth and indecision is something that we've just gotten used to. We let the worry about the outcome be a way of life, even what is expected. Culturally it can be required. Listen to find out what clarity really is and why we want it so badly. You'll also learn how to get it whenever you want and what gets in the way.

Wanna do more with whatcha got?? We're talking OPTIMIZE!! We do it when we think we have to, so why not be deliberate about paying attention to getting the most out of what we already have. >>>Such an awesome way to totally stay in appreciation! When we're in appreciation we already are more creative, intuitive, innovative and happier. This is how to allow more into both your business AND your life with no extra effort. Basically, optimizing is the key to the "work smarter" model. Listen and explore how living this way can make you even more abundant with what you already have!!

When you know better (not more) you do better (not more). Anytime someone says, "How do you do this?", they are asking to learn. To really EDUCATE, it takes more than basic knowledge which is what a freebie offers. This applies to you and your clients or customers. Knowing what to do is just the first step to truly creating the vision you have so if you stop here you are limited in moving forward. You also can't skip a level, they're building blocks. You must have one to move to the next. If you try to skip over there's major frustration because the learner isn't ready. By deepening the learning it deepens the satisfaction of the learner because they are expanding and growing at a pace that feels comfortable. You can take the levels in Bloom's Taxonomy and use them as a guide to the levels a person travels through and equate them with the clients' journey or onboarding a team member or personally learning something new. Listen to this for how each of these levels equates to your business and to your own interests!!