Saved Not Soft

Does God pick my spouse? In this episode, Malik and I talk about choosing a partner for marriage, seeking God's wisdom, and what it means to see marriage as a sacred covenant. Is there one person God has chosen for you—or are you called to make a wise, prayerful choice and faithfully build a life together? We share our thoughts on discernment, commitment, and the beauty and weight of the marriage covenant.

On this episode we have a very special guest; Megan Ashley joining us for the podcast! Megan is like a big sister to Emy and we shared all things prayer, intimacy with Jesus, fellowship with the Holy Spirit, and avoiding a "performing" christian walk. Enjoy!   Get $10 off your Elah Ring with code SAVEDNOTSOFT: https://bit.ly/4yopj2Z

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What does atonement mean—and why is it essential to truly knowing Jesus? In this episode, we move beyond simply talking about Jesus to understanding who He is, what He accomplished, and why it changes everything. Beginning in Genesis and tracing the story through the tabernacle, the priesthood, the Day of Atonement, and the book of Hebrews, we see how the Old Testament continually points toward the cross. We'll explore the meaning of atonement, the role of the high priest, the significance of the Holy of Holies, the sacrificial offerings, and how Jesus fulfills it all. He is our perfect High Priest, our spotless sacrifice, and the mediator of the new covenant—the One who offered Himself once for all to cleanse us, reconcile us to God, and restore us to fellowship with Him. God came wrapped in flesh to pay the price for our rebellion. Jesus is both the One who offers and the offering itself. Through His blood, believers can now approach God's throne of grace with confidence and become dwelling places for His presence. Before we can rightly understand Christian teachings such as submission or modesty, we need a solid foundation in the person and work of Christ. We must know who we are following—and understand the cost, beauty, and grace of belonging to Him. Key Scriptures: Genesis 3; Exodus 25; Psalm 110:4; Zechariah; John 1; Hebrews 1:1–4, 4:14–16, 5:5–10, 7:23–28, and 9:11–15.

Talking about money in church should not be awkward—especially when Scripture has so much to say about it. In this episode, we are removing the shame, fear, and defensiveness surrounding finances and returning the conversation to its proper foundation: our love for Jesus. Beginning with the sacrificial generosity of the gospel, we explore how our spending, giving, working, and saving reveal what has captured our hearts. We'll break down the biblical differences between generosity, stewardship, and tithing; confront manipulative teachings about "sowing specific seeds"; and discuss why genuine giving should never come through pressure or compulsion. We'll also examine the holiness of work, the danger of disguising idleness as spirituality, and the responsibility to faithfully develop whatever God has placed in our hands. Through the Parable of the Talents, we'll see that stewardship is deeply connected to how we view our Master—and that God is worthy of more than our leftovers. Finally, we'll talk honestly about the tithe, the difference between obedience and generosity, and why Christians are called to become builders in the local church rather than merely beneficiaries of what others have sacrificed to build. The question at the center of this episode is simple: Am I faithfully stewarding what God has placed in front of me?

In this episode, Malik and I sit down for a real conversation about what it actually looks like to lead as young adults. We talk about the weight of leadership, the reality of being Christian influencers, the pressure of being seen, and the difference between having a platform and having true responsibility. This is not a polished "we have it all figured out" conversation. It's honest, simple, and grounded in what God is teaching us about influence, humility, obedience, and leading well before you feel fully ready. For every young leader, creator, minister, or believer trying to steward what God placed in their hands, this one is for you. Support the show

In this episode, we're talking about what it means to live fully alive in Jesus — not distracted, not numb, not ruled by fear, and not stuck in unbelief that better days are possible. Life is too short to spend it chasing temporary praise, burying your gifts, avoiding obedience, or letting distraction steal the joy that is found in God's presence. This conversation is a call back to hope. Back to love. Back to awareness of the nearness of Jesus. From Martha being distracted, to Mary pouring out what others called "waste," to Lazarus walking out of the grave, we are reminded that Jesus is not only the resurrection — He is the life. Pouring your life out for Jesus is never a waste. Even if people misunderstand it. Even if it costs you. Even if it looks foolish. The only wasted life is the one spent apart from Him. So if you've been distracted, discouraged, fearful, or feeling like you've lost your joy — come home. There is fullness of joy in His presence, and there is still life to be lived faithfully. Support the show