Why Am I So Angry at My Kids? Finding Grace in the Upcoming Holiday Season
Hey Mama, have you already felt the holidays closing in, with the extra mental load, the school events, the shorter days, and the pressure to feel joyful, and then found yourself snapping over something small? You're not alone, and there is real hope.In this solo episode, I talk about why so many Christian moms feel worn out before Thanksgiving even gets here, and why that doesn't make you a bad mom. Most mom anger isn't really about the spilled milk or the sibling fight in front of you. Anger is usually a signal pointing to something underneath it: a trigger, an insecurity, an unmet need, or a belief about yourself or your kids. When you learn to read that signal, the anger starts to make sense, and it gets easier to respond instead of react.I share my own story of blaming God, my parents, the world around me, and even my child, because I could not see that the source of my anger was coming from within. When I took my little one to a therapist hoping to get her help, that wise woman told me my child was normal for her age, and that I was the one who needed help. It was hard to hear, but it was exactly what I needed. I even cried out, "Lord, why did you give me children if I can't love them the way I am supposed to?!" God heard that prayer, and He started me on a healing journey. I share more of that story in my book, Lord, Why Did You Give Me These Children?!We look at some of the common roots I see in the moms I walk with: exhaustion and burnout (even Elijah needed sleep and food before he could hear from God in 1 Kings 19:5-8), unmet needs like rest, help, connection, quiet, and time with the Lord, old wounds from how anger was handled in the home you grew up in, and lies we believe, like "they never listen" or "I'm a terrible mom." The truth I hold on to is this: it's okay to feel angry; it's not okay to hurt others with our anger. Scripture invites us to look inward with God, not to beat ourselves up but to be healed: "Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts!" (Psalm 139:23). Your first step is not trying harder. It's awareness, and the free Trigger Tracker is a simple, practical way to start that search.Grab your coffee (even if it's cold and reheated) and press play. You'll finish this episode feeling seen, steadied, and reminded that progress, not perfection, is the goal.If this episode blessed you, please like, subscribe, rate, and review so we can help more hurting mamas find hope and restoration in their motherhood journey!Resources:Free mom-anger guide and Trigger Tracker: https://nataliehixson.com/mom-angerMy book, Lord, Why Did You Give Me These Children?! A Faith-Based Approach to Mom Anger Acknowledgements:Producer and editor: Natalie HixsonMusic: Simon Reid www.simonreidmusic.comQuestions, thoughts, feedback? Send me a text!Connect with Natalie:Natalie’s Website: nataliehixson.comInstagram: instagram.com/angrymamacoachFacebook: facebook.com/angrymamacoachYouTube: @angrymamacoachAmazon: Natalie HixsonAcknowledgements:Producer and editor: Natalie HixsonMusic: Simon Reid www.simonreidmusic.com