How to get the passion back

Be honest, flirting is fun–even thrilling for some, but it can cross a line into something much less innocent.  In this episode, Alvean and Doug explore the motivations behind flirting and the ground rules that can keep it light hearted and positive without causing harm or crossing over into emotional or physical cheating.  For a complete transcript, click here: LL31-Why Men and Women Flirt

A lot of books have been written on this subject but many deal only with superficial themes.  Alvean and Doug go deeper to help listeners understand some of the fundamental truths about how different genders process thoughts and emotions, and how that knowledge can help listeners avoid the usual misunderstandings that can accompany relationships.  For more and a full transcript, click here: LL30-How Men and Women Differ

In this episode, Alvean and Doug take on a familiar subject–why otherwise loving couples quarrel.  The issues are relatively common, arising from differences over money, divisions of labor, intimacy, and in some cases parenting. They offer some practical suggestions about how to mediate such differences and resolve the underlying factors that lead to dis harmony in relationships.  For a full transcript, click here: LL29-Why Do Couples Quarrel?

It is said that time heals all wounds but is that true or is it love?  In this episode, Alvean and Doug talk about the healing properties of loving and being loved.  For a complete transcript, click here: LL28-Can Love Heal?

Torn between two lovers–its the popular song that this episode reflects.  Is it possible to be in love, honest and true love with two different people at the same time?  You don’t have to wait for the big reveal, the answer is no, but you’ll want to listen to Alvean and Doug to find out why.  Fot a full transcript, click here:LL27-Can you love two people equally?

Surely you have met someone like this–a person who believes they are the center of the universe and nothing you or anyone else says or does can dissuade them of this opinion. Well fasten your seatbelts–Alvean and Doug discuss the best way to address those who behave this way and how best to protect yourself from their outsized egos.  For more and a complete transcript, click here:LL26-It is all about me

Loneliness seems epidemic these days–certainly among younger generations. In this episode, Alvean and Doug talk about some positive aspects of being alone, and how one can use that time to renew self love and affirm one’s feelings about others.  For a full transcript, click here: LL25-Savoring Loneliness

Have you ever heard this expression–possibly from kids but sometimes said in another way it is the sentiment behind adult push back. In this episode, Alvean and Doug dissect the meaning behind that expression and why it is an important indicator of control issues that may be working behind the scenes.  For a full transcript, click here: LL24-You’re not the Boss of Me

Conventional wisdom suggests the answer is yes, but is that really true.  In this episode Alvean and Doug take on the question with some surprising insights int what makes for a lively and rich relationship.  For a full transcript, click here:  LL23-Do Opposites Attract

Arguably, jealousy is one of the most toxic emotions, one that can destroy any relationship.  In this episode, Alvean and Doug talk about its roots in insecurity and poor ideation of the self.  They offer some thoughts about how best to counter it and create an environment that in wholesome, and transparent.  For more click here: LL22-Jealousy