225. Afghanistan reflexions and Why I wrote Three Simple Things: Leading during chaos

Stop watching other people.  You will never get good while watching because your perspective is different.  Get into living your life from your Point Of View.

Erik Weir and Thom Shea talk about Unbreakable and Three Simple Things.  And how to Transition from war to civilian life.

Warrior Wisdom.  How would you live one more day?  What would you life be like if you didn't have to deal with your past or have to build toward your future?  What if you had just this day?

The disillusioned human condition of being told things are other than they are.  The constant deception of the people by the media and by many politicians has caused our youth to not be capable of simple things that matter.

  Few of us even know freedom anymore. Teach your kids to earn it. freedom frē′dəm noun 1.  The condition of not being in prison or captivity. 2.  The condition of being free of restraints, especially the ability to act without control or interference by another or by circumstance. 3.  The condition of not being controlled by another nation or political power; political independence.

We all misunderstand what happens during any type of communications.  The first misunderstanding is we always believe what we hear.  The ears are designed to only think what they hear are true.  However, you need to have another sense back up that notion.   That is how media dupes us all.  Nothing in the media is actually true, if you research it for facts. That is important to realize. True authentic communication first requires you to   Listen without judgement (listen not believing in order to free them up from their past so they can be present) Speak without drama (drama is uncommitted words that cause both people to lose interest and not be present) Get clarity (that means interrupt if you don't know what they are saying and to ask them to repeat what you said) Those three points are authentic communications

Suffering is when you think things should be different.  When you think the struggle isn't what you need to do.  

The ability to build a strong relationship is simple but not easy. All you need are three simple things: Listen without judgement Speak without drama Intimacy Learn how here Spartan Training

Marriage to an alpha female makes the man stable and the family stable.  Marriage may be meant to build a stable environment so that each and grow and transform into their best selfs.  Submissive women never grow.

Relationships don't have to be complex.  They just have to be all in.  Nothing held back and no way out.   video can be seen on Youtube at @thomasshea