97: Standing Up for Yourself Doesn’t Make You a Bad Person

You might have seen me recently crying on Tiktok over my imposter syndrome. While I was in California, I found myself in a few uncomfortable situations that ultimately led to me doubting myself and my abilities. In today's episode, I talk about my struggles with imposter syndrome, what happened in California, where imposter syndrome comes from, as well as how to overcome imposter syndrome.SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXSPONSORS Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try, to get 10% off your first month go to betterhelp.com/TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Quince. To get free shipping on your orders and 365 day returns, go to quince.com/tryingnot Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Green Chef. Go to greenchef.com/tntc50 and use code tntc50 to get 50% off, plus 20% off your next two monthsIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode, I am talking about why girls have such a bad reputation when it comes to friendships. I have heard so many people, especially men, say girls are so much drama and they're always fighting with their friends. In my opinion, I think the reason why girls have more friendship fallouts is because we have higher expectations for our friends than guys do. Today I'm talking about Healthy friendships I currently haveComparing my boyfriend and his friendships to mineWhy guy friendships and girl friendships are so differentNot allowing disrespect in friendshipsWhen to cut ties and end a friendshipSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you find yourself being jealous and unhappy when others succeed? Listen to this episode. In today’s episode, I talk about why we struggle to be happy for others and how to actually be supportive when others do good. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

ARIES RISE!!!!! It’s officially April and my birthday week. With my birthday coming up, I wanted to talk about previous birthdays where I felt underappreciated by the people in my life. Birthdays can be really hard, especially when you don’t have many friends and feel very overwhelmed. Over the years, I’ve found myself upset over the lack of plans and birthday wishes because all I wanted was to be celebrated. In today’s episode, I talk about celebrating yourself and how you can’t expect others to show up for you if you’re not willing to show up for yourself. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Every year around my birthday, I spiral because I am overly aware of the fact that I am getting older. I used to be so excited for my birthday, and now I dread it because I am afraid of getting older. In today's episode, I talk about the fears of aging, backhanded compliments, beauty standards, and why I am no longer attaching a negative meaning to aging. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Stop minimizing what you want out of fear of what others think.SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXThis Episode is Sponsored By:Factor - Visit factormeals.com/tntc50 to get 50% off using code tntc50 at check out.If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How to stop being bothered by others actions and perception of you. Why you should to stop taking things so personally. Mikayla's episode that inspired me: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5cYgbiocg2UuWhvncuXSwm?si=8hdF6u9NQvuXf7Ky13otPgSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

YOUR GIRL HAS BEEN IN A FUNK. In an attempt to make myself feel better, here are some questions to ask yourself next time you're in a funk. What’s taking up the majority of your time?Who are you spending time with?Are you spending more time in your head or in the moment?What are your current habits?Are you listening to your body and your needs?What is something you can do right now to feel relieved or feel happy?SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

ADVICE SESSION #7!!! This episode covers:Going back to an ex after they left you Being “too sad” or “too much” for people What to do if your partner thinks other people are attractive What to do if your ex is treating their new partner better How to be happy alone when all your friends are in relationships Dealing with being ghosted and rejected Being the best version of yourself If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, we're talking about the different ways to say and show your love for someone. I am constantly hearing people say, "if he wanted to he would" or "he doesn't love you if he doesn't do this." Although there might be some truth behind those statements, in today's episode I talk about why it's not that simple and how everyone expresses their love differently. SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfIf you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google FormThis Episode is Sponsored By:Factor - Visit factormeals.com/tntc50 to get 50% off using code tntc50 at check out.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.