A Goal Isn't Enough To Clear The Road Ahead

What would it look like to truly live life together? To continue to pour into your own dreams and collectively build one together? Today I want to share a slightly different conversation than I normally do with my guestsI’ve had the pleasure of sharing these two freinds as previous guests but as I’ve seen them laugh, support, and grow together over the years, in a world when we can lose sight of what it means to be a partner and in love I wanted to give you a chance to learn and hear a bit of the way they show up in each others lives and the reality of kindness and joy lived out together This is an honest conversation about life changes, working with your partner, the excitement and preparation for the year that lies ahead, strengths and weaknesses, and what it looks like to be intentional with each other and themselves So tune in today and meet the first couple I’ve interviewed together ever on the podcast And thank you my sweet friends it continues to be a gift of my life to have both of you in mine, to know you and be known and loved by you both through years of life’s changes, ups and downs, and all the memories that have and continue to be, love you both so much 

Change demands more than just a goal, a desire, and a hope.. it demands action and honesty with ourselves, a willingness to look at what we give our time and our energy to and if we are willing to change those daily actions to see change in ourselves and our future.

This has been a year... at least for me, and almost everyone else I've talked to. BUT! It was also full of wins, joys, and things that made us better, so before we say a final goodbye to 2025 ask yourself these 5 questions and take a few minutes to reflect on just how much you did for yourself and how much you are looking forward to in 2026

What are you doing in life that will inspire your future grandkids?Today I want to introduce you to Brett, Brett is someone that is writing a story his grandkids will one day sit in awe of as he leans back in his chair to tell them; about the time he swam from Europe to Asia, the time he saw an anaconda deep in the jungle, and the way he pursued his dreams and his relationships with effort and intention.Brett and I chat about our shared fear of flying, how some songs pull us quickly to a place of peace, and how a simultaneous survival plan is always running in the back of his mind. He shares what it means to live a life of freedom, to be a good friend that sees “work” in a relationship as a sign of care and value, and how fear in no way is a reason to pull away from something we know will lead to a better version of ourselves on the other sideHe shares a message I think we all need to hear, how dedication is greater than any natural talent of opportunity, how the choice to show up and keep showing up for the dream you have will lead you further than any bit of luck ever could We chat about what it means to constantly “push” a timeline and how we both resonate and are grateful for a mindset that kept delaying what “made sense”Brett is someone who is making an impact by what he creates, by sharing the reality of his life through his work, sending a clear message that, anything is possible, that you can realize whatever dream or idea you might have, that life is worth pursuing fully and so are the people you get to share it withSo tune in today and meet Brett, a human who has chosen to be a friend, one who continues to inspire others, and one who will remind you to choose presence any chance you can And to you Brett thank you, thank you for being the kind of human that shows up, isn’t afraid to put effort forth, for your sincerity and a truly genuine conversation. It is a pleasure to know you and I’m looking forward to many future memories exploring this world with you

What if you never had fomo ever again? Today I want to introduce you to Ricardo a human that sees life as the adventure it was intended to beHe shares why leaving the world and people better than we find them matters most, how he grew up seeing the world with his dad and how he still views himself as a kid with a camera on an adventureWe chat about what it looks likes to go dm space for others to find what inspires them and learn about other cultures and nature, how he feels about women within the creative industry, and the importance in putting a camera down in moments we want to remember Ricardo is someone that is marked by joy and a bend towards optimism, someone that understands the value of making time for what we need on a personal level so we can make a better impact on a global level So tune in today and meet Ricardo, someone who will remind you to find happiness in what you do no matter what that is, and to pursue it with everything you’ve gotAnd to you Ricardo thank you, thank you for being such a beautiful part of these memories, for your intentionally in how you show up in friendship, for your accepting, open, and encouraging heart. You are a light and it’s an honor to know you and watch how you continue to make an impact for the better on this world 

When was the last time you met someone who had everything they wanted?Today I want to introduce you to Adrian, Adrian is one who has found more than his home in the sea, he is one who has chosen to learn every lesson it teaches, and celebrate every blessing it givesI had the pleasure of meeting him on my recent time in Mauritius and got to share time on the water with him and my friends. I believe there is something within those that connect with the sea, those who listen to it, respect it, and find profound joy in sharing itAdrian shares how bringing happiness to others brings him joy and purpose, how patience, discipline, and happiness have come from the sea both in tangible ways and in how it has shaped who he is We chat about how loss impacts who we become, how changing the world might make something better or simply different, and how we might have to sacrifice who we have become if we gave up loss and struggle He shares the impact of dreaming and drawing his dreams, in choosing to focus on them and make them happen, how he believes anyone can accomplish what they desire if pursue a goal and focus on it, and how investing your energy can change everything in your life We chat about the headache of paperwork, the reality that most people don’t see and the less glamorous parts of working for yourself, but the important reality in understanding that the days we push harder are for something that brings us joy and something we love Adrian is one that carries the presence of the ocean with him, one who lives with intentionality, discipline, and one who chooses to intentionally express love to those who matter most to him, from hugging his mom every morning, to pouring effort into sharing happiness with others on the seaSo tune in today and meet Adrian, one that will remind you how abundantly beautiful this life is, how we can find strength in trial, and how dreams can be brought to lifeAnd to you Adrian thank you, thank you for sharing your home, your knowledge of the sea, your presence on the water, and your pursuit of happiness to be shared with me and my friends. I look forward to seeing you again 

Just a few raw unfiltered thoughts of a big decision 

Can a story about the birds be a negative thing?Today I want to introduce you to Athena, Athena is one of the people in my life that I wonder how she wasn’t there sooner. The conversations, space that reminds me how real and valid all the things we experience and feel in this life are, how she isn’t afraid to be honest, and truly owns the life she gets to live. I’ve got a deep respect for this girl and an even greater ability to lose track of time while we chat Athena is one who has learned and absorbed what it is to grow within oneself, to take every experience and ask, “how do I see myself, and how can I improve.” It takes a lot to be one that seeks to explore with joy and wonder, while never losing sight of the weight every moment holdsWe chat about what it means to feel justice and fairness, both as a kid, and in our adult relationships, what it means to give yourself grace, yet still hold yourself accountable to what you know you can achieve and not let fear get in the way She shares how a book she is reading led to a question, one she asks me, and one I believe speaks to what we value, or even what we should lean into valuing most in lifeWe chat about the impact of major life changes, ones we have both made, and ones that others tried to keep us from making, how outside validation should not dictate your life, and how you wanting something is enough of a reason to pursue itAthena is the kind of friend we don’t always get to know in this life, the kind we must be real and honest with ourselves first, but when you are, and when you get to meet someone like her, it reminds you how worth self acceptance and pursuit of those who see you truly isSo tune in and meet Athena, and maybe, just maybe, you might see something in yourself in our chat that makes you smile And to you Athena thank you, thank you for being you, being real, being one who emphatically nods yes and says “GIRL yes” when I spill how I feel, for living fully and reminding me to do the same, and for every hour we have and will spend talking about all that life throws our way, the things we choose to catch and let fall

Do you have expectations for those you love?Today I want to introduce you to Amir, I’ve known Amir for a few years now, and have had the pleasure of simply sharing time over tea, talking about whatever comes to mind, hearing what he is creatively passionate about, and simply being presentAmir is one that holds a presence and intention in a way I admire and do not often come across, he is one who is intent on taking time to simply, gain the value of timeThis conversation is one that shares so much of how he views the world, how the heart of a 5 year old that is bright and full of curiosity inspires us to live, and how his profound experience growing up across three cultures has granted him an ability to see humanity with a lens few of us get to knowWe chat about what it means to watch fear transition to joy, what it means to evolve and not simply change, and what intention and agenda truly hold when it comes to our connections with others We chat through the first failure of this podcast in over four years and I’m grateful for the genuine response in the authentic way you get to hear this unfold right alongside his genuine desire to be filled with joy and sincere value of time shared Amir is one that speaks from a place of wisdom; not the kind that looks down on you, not the kind that feels like a book being opened before you, but the kind that knows deep in his soul what it is to know what matters most in this world, and simply how to communicate that to another So tune in today and meet Amir, a human using his life to open as many doors as he can for others, and one who would love to learn from whomever life brings into his And to you Amir thank you, thank you for the intentional space I have always shared with you to simply connect, with an agenda to simply share space and time. You are a light and warmth in this world and I am inspired and find my spirit lifted when I am reminded how you choose to show up in this world. Thank you for taking the time, for your gracious patience, and for the way you share sincerely from this life

What if the world told you that how you defined yourself and your roles were wrong? Today I want to introduce you to Julie, Julie is the person I call when I shouldn’t ask the questions in my head, she’s the one that hears parts of me very few others even know exist and one that has grounded me in some of the hardest times and laughed with me in some of the silliest moments Julie is a human that has accomplished so much, she is one that has chosen to live a life and treat it like a journey to learn from and give back to others on; both as an CRNA, a friend, a mother, and a woman living life in a way that reminds others to stay true to who you areWe chat about how titles impact how others see us, how roles are often accompanied by expectations, and most importantly, how we need to define those for ourselves and not what another determines for us. She shares why fear is something to listen to, to understand when in our lives we need to lean in and overcome it, or if it is one we need to respect and listen to, but ultimately how fear is to be navigated We chat about the importance of authenticity, not just for what others see but for ourselves, to know what it means at the end of your life to be at peace with how you lived, what you put into the world, and what legacy you choose to leave behind. we chat about knowing what brings you deep and meaningful joy and the importance of checking in with yourself and being sure you are pursuing those things Julie is one that loves others well, one that has many “roles” in this world, but one that I admire most for how she respects and listens to the role of being her and who she is meant to be So tune in today and meet Julie, someone who if you are fortunate enough to meet will change your life, and someone that if you only ever get to hear this conversation, will remind you that knowing yourself in and out of your roles in this life is worth stepping into with confidence And to you Julie thank you, thank you for being the force of love and grounding that you are in my life, thank you for your endless wisdom, non existent judgment, complete understanding of my sarcasm, and general tolerance for my inability to sit still. You truly cannot be summed up in any title, role, or story, and yet you hold each one so beautifully. Thank you for being in my life