#87 5 Tips to Stop Using Your Ex as a Crutch (REPLAY)

In this episode we’re embracing a theme that many women struggle with, and that is looking back at the years you spend on your now failed marriage and feeling like it was a waste (we talked about this on tuesday also). Often, we focus on milestones or the endpoint, but what about the rich tapestry of moments that lead us there? Let's talk about it.. ------------ Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

This episode, we're tackling a common yet challenging thought that many of us face post-separation: "I wasted so many years in that marriage." It’s a natural feeling, especially after a tough split, but there's another way to view those years that might change your perspective and help you find peace. - - - - - - - -  Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

Ever wondered what to do with your wedding ring after the divorce papers are signed? In this episode we’re diving in with some suggestion. And believe me, tossing it isn't on my list—money is money, after all! - - - - - Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

Today we are diving into a topic that's both symbolic and personal: the decision to keep wearing your wedding ring during a separation. It's a small piece of jewelry, but it carries immense emotional weight and significance. Join me as I share my own experiences and thoughts on whether to keep that band on your finger during this transitional phase of life. We’ll explore what the wedding ring represents in the context of separation and how its presence or absence can impact your emotional journey. - - - - - - - - - -  Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

In this episode we're addressing a critical topic, financial infidelity. It’s not just about money—it's about trust, honesty, and partnership. You can maybe recognize ways that your husband is being unfaithful by checking out the 5 ways. ----------- Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

Financial infidelity occurs when one partner in a relationship hides or lies about their financial actions and decisions. This could range from secret accounts and hidden debt to substantial purchases made without discussion. It erodes trust and can deeply impact the financial and emotional health of a relationship. In this episode, we'll explore the various forms of financial infidelity, why it happens, and how it can affect not just your finances but also your emotional connection with your partner. I'll share personal insights and advice on how to confront this challenging issue and what steps can be taken to rebuild trust and transparency. - - - - - - - - - - Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

Here is this months prompt: Explore your emotions during festive times. How can you navigate these emotions with hope and resilience? Jounral about holiday traditions and activities that bring comfort and joy.  Remember to either Join the facebook group or my mailing list (both linked below) to get your free copy of the 2024 Podcast Journal Prompts   Have a super December! ----------- Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

This week, we’re diving into a unique and empowering topic. For some women, child support might not be the financial lifeline it is for others, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t a powerful resource. Whether you’re in a position of financial stability or simply want to think outside the box about how to use these funds, this episode offers tips that can help you make the most of what’s available. - - - - -- - -  Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

This episode tackles a challenging scenario thats some women might find themselves in: dealing with a request from an ex to be released from child support obligations. It’s a situation that can stir up a mix of guilt, fear, and pride—all emotions that can cloud judgment. - - - - - - - - Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!

Creativity isn’t just for artists; it's a powerful tool for anyone navigating through life's ups and downs. In this episode, we'll uncover how creative expression can be a therapeutic part of your healing journey. Whether it's painting, writing, music, or any other form of art, tapping into your creative side can help manage emotions and foster personal growth during separation. - - - - - - - Click Here to Fill out the End of Year Survey For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the link below! https://josie-falcon.thinkific.com/courses/DtoD_Course Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot!   Want that chapter checklist just visit www.JosieFalcon.com want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com And you know what, if you saved my old web address, no worries, it redirects, so feel free to keep going to www.HeavyPagesPodcast.com ! you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over" Thanks for listening, catch you on the next one!