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Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with David Matsumoto, a psychologist and judo practitioner, to explore the intricate relationship between confidence, competence, and nonverbal communication. The conversation delves into strategic authenticity, how to align behaviors with internal states rather than faking confidence, and the art of observation in negotiations. David shares insights from his company, humantel, and discusses how the principles of Judo apply to effective negotiation and interaction. Listeners will gain practical tips on improving their negotiation skills through continuous self-improvement and keen observation. #### What Will Be Covered: - The importance of strategic authenticity and aligning behaviors with internal states. - Nonverbal communication's role in negotiations, including physical appearance and environmental context. - How Judo principles can enhance negotiation tactics and the importance of adaptability in communication. Contact David Matsumoto, Ph.D. Humintell: https://www.humintell.com/ Follow David on LinkedIn: http://www.davidmatsumoto.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this insightful episode of *Negotiate Anything*, host Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A., welcomes Jay Fields to discuss the importance of alignment and embodied self-awareness in difficult conversations. Jay, a seasoned coach and educator, dives into how understanding and managing our emotions can lead to more effective negotiations. Together, they explore the value of presence over preparation and the need for self-awareness to stay connected with one's true self during negotiations. Listeners will also hear practical examples and strategies to enhance their negotiation skills by being emotionally attuned and present. **What Will Be Covered:** - The significance of feeling aligned and centered in negotiations. - Practical strategies to manage emotions and stay present during difficult conversations. - The concept of embodied self-awareness and its impact on negotiation effectiveness. **What Listeners Will Learn:** - Techniques to enhance self-awareness and emotional regulation in negotiation settings. - How to use verbal and nonverbal cues to gauge and influence conversations. - The benefits of prioritizing presence and alignment over extensive preparation in professional negotiations. Jay-Fields.com https://jay-fields.com/ LinkedIn Learning Courses https://jay-fields.com/courses Follow Jay on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayfields1/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Giuseppe provides deep insights into the challenges of influencing internal stakeholders, emphasizing the need for a "pull" energy approach and the importance of preparation. The episode also explores strategies to maintain relationships in a remote work setting and the significant impact of establishing strong connections in negotiations. Giuseppe shares the "five P model" for effective negotiation, and the conversation concludes with actionable tips for professionals looking to elevate their internal negotiation skills. What Will Be Covered: - The challenges of internal negotiations compared to external ones. - Strategies for maintaining relationships while working remotely. - Introduction of the "five P model" for effective negotiation. Follow Giuseppe on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/giuseppeconti/ Giuseppe's website:  https://cabl.ch/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this reverse interview, Lindsay Andrews, host of the Unstuck on You Podcast, interviews Kwame Christian, together, they dive deep into the complexities of mastering difficult conversations. Kwame shares his transformation from a people pleaser to a skilled negotiator, emphasizing the importance of negotiation skills in strengthening relationships and building self-confidence. Through personal stories and expert insights, Kwame and Lindsay explore the psychological hurdles like fear and imposter syndrome that often inhibit these challenging but necessary discussions. Kwame introduces the "compassionate curiosity framework," providing listeners with a practical approach to navigating emotionally charged conversations effectively. Listeners will learn: - Strategies to recognize and manage their emotions to enhance negotiation outcomes. - How to replace fear-driven thought patterns with empowering ones to build confidence. - Practical steps to prepare for and effectively engage in difficult conversations to deepen relationships and respect. These insights promise to be invaluable for anyone looking to improve their negotiation skills and interpersonal connections. Listen to the Unstuck on You Podcast by Lindsay Andrews: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unstuck-on-you/id1639406838 Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this gripping episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes self-defense guru Tony Blauer to delve into the intricate relationship between fear and negotiation. The conversation explores how fear impacts decision-making and performance, emphasizing practical mechanisms for mastering fear in high-stress situations. Tony shares insightful stories and psychological frameworks, equipping listeners with strategies to convert fear into a dynamic driving force. Their discussion reveals how understanding and negotiating with oneself can drastically improve handling confrontational scenarios, making it a must-listen for anyone seeking to enhance their negotiation prowess and emotional resilience. - Exploring Tony Blauer's concept of "Making Friends with Fear" and its application to negotiation - The role of self-awareness and stress inoculation in mastering fear in sudden violent or high-pressure negotiations - How to practice and apply fear management techniques in professional and personal situations Listeners will learn: - Strategies to enhance negotiation skills by managing personal fear and self-talk - The importance of maintaining focus and presence in achieving a flow state during negotiations - Practical tips on translating fear into constructive energy that enhances performance and decision-making in high-stake scenarios Follow Tony Blauer on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyblauer Blauer Tactical Systems LinkedIn page https://www.linkedin.com/company/blauer-tactical-systems.-inc/ Blauer Spear website https://blauerspear.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Simon Dowling, a seasoned facilitator and former lawyer from Melbourne, Australia, who brings a wealth of knowledge on collaborative communication and leadership in negotiation. Simon shares effective strategies for building trust and creating a conducive environment for collaborative negotiation efforts. He emphasizes the importance of separating people from problems and employing conversational leadership rather than control tactics. The episode is packed with real-world anecdotes, practical insights, and valuable resources for anyone looking to enhance their negotiation skills. What will be covered: - The impact of conversational leadership in negotiation settings. - Strategies for building trust and preparing the groundwork for effective collaboration. - Practical tips from Simon Dowling on managing impatience and fear during negotiations. What listeners will learn: - How to separate people from problems to enhance understanding and outcomes. - The significance of patience and curiosity in transforming negotiation dynamics. - Ways to embrace and manage tensions in negotiations for better decision-making and results. Connect with Simon Follow Simon on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simondowling-aus/ https://www.simondowling.com.au/ Buy the book "Work with Me : How to get people to buy into your ideas" https://www.booktopia.com.au/work-with-me-simon-dowling/book/9780730330059.html Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request a Custom Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A., engages with cognitive scientist Therese Huston to unravel the complexities of providing effective feedback in the workplace. Through an in-depth discussion, they explore why people often misinterpret the intentions behind feedback and how articulating positive intentions can significantly enhance communication. They discuss practical strategies to foster a culture of open and constructive feedback, all aimed at improving negotiation skills and workplace dynamics. Therese Huston provides insights from her book "Let's Talk: Make Effective Feedback Your Superpower" and shares tactics on turning difficult conversations into opportunities for growth. Topics covered: - The psychological barriers to giving and receiving feedback effectively. - Importance of clarifying intentions when providing feedback. - Strategies for employees to actively solicit and utilize feedback for career advancement. Listeners will learn: - How to overcome the discomfort of delivering critical feedback with a focus on growth mindset. - Techniques to ensure feedback is received in the spirit of helpfulness and improvement. - The relevance of consistent, early communication in professional development and negotiation success Let's Talk: Make Effective Feedback Your Superpower Book Follow Therese on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian joins forces with Dr. Tamara Beckford, CEO of Your Caring Docs, to tackle the critical issue of workplace stress and burnout. They explore the destructive triad of burnout — depletion, detachment, and chronic depression — and discuss effective strategies for managing stress both in the workplace and at home. Through their conversation, listeners will gain insights into how senior leaders can advocate for and implement stress management strategies to foster a healthier work environment. The dialogue also underscores the importance of personal self-care and how individuals can negotiate better health and productivity outcomes for themselves. Listeners will learn: - The phases of burnout progression and its impact on mental health - How to communicate the importance of stress management effectively in professional settings - Techniques for negotiating self-care practices that enhance work-life balance and productivity Connect with Tamara CEO of UR Caring Docs LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/drtamarabeckford  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtamarabeckford  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/URcaringdocs  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urcaringdocs  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urcaringdocs Website: www.urcaringdocs.com  Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything", host Kwame Christian welcomes David Hulman, expert in high performance and negotiation strategy. Together, they delve into the profound impact of self-belief and mental resilience in mastering the art of negotiation and conflict resolution. The discussion covers transformative techniques such as "scratching", a method for altering one's emotional responses to past experiences, and provides actionable advice on building confidence through strategic focus and clarity. Listen as they explore the psychological tools that can turn negotiation challenges into opportunities for growth. Listeners will learn: - How to evaluate and develop their self-belief to improve negotiation outcomes. - Strategies to harness and redirect emotional energy during conflict situations. - Practical exercises to enhance focus and mental clarity ahead of important negotiations. Self-Belief Chief Website https://www.selfbeliefchief.com/home-page31119238 Follow David on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-hulman-32813b60/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

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