My recovery from a covert passive aggressive narcissist female

Sharon the CPAN will be in handcuffs for the lies in police statement and false allegations , and also for coresive control and order emotional and mental abuse . Women are also abusers , learnt because she comes and came from a toxic abusive , racist family

The CPAN makes us feel insecure during the relationship to confuse us and then use that insecurity they created to control our feelings and emotions and then that turns into controlling us . It happened to me with my ex CPAN girlfriend, and it happens to many victims/ survivors of narcissistic abuse

The biggest lie the the female and any narcissist will tell is that they love us. And SS is no different to any other narcissist

At the core of narcissism is low self esteem , usually from their narcissist mother and a toxic family. They are unable to believe that they are the problem and usually the family they come from. All the red flags are there , we just need to know what red flags to look for , and we need to stop giving these people the benefit of the doubt . They feed off our compassion and empathy

And tell stories they believe to play the victim .

Narcissist will always be just that, however their victims will heal and be happy once again . A narcissist will continue doing what they have done and surrounding themselves with enablers and flying monkeys. The narcissist will always blame others for situations they have created and lie and make up stories to get them out of the situation

This is what I would say to my ex CPAN girlfriend . I am sorry you have a personality disorder, I wish you haven’t, sorry you come from the family that you do, wish you didn’t use and abuse me and blame me for what you did to me and you acted and played a victim . I understand what you are . Really wish you wasn’t a covert passive aggressive narcissist

The female CPAN targeted me , used me and abused me. She would of done this before and since discarding me. These female narcissist are experts at playing a victim. So she can get control as she has none in her projected life. But behide closed doors it’s another story

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A narcissist believes the stories and lies they make up , doesn’t matter who they hurt , and they know what they are doing it . Because it makes them look like the victim , it the abuser they are , especially when they are a female narcissist