Journeys With My Body

With Special Guest Mary Ann RobbatYou've done the inner work, explored your past, recognized your triggers, and have become pretty good at understanding why you do what you do.So why do certain patterns keep showing up?Why do you keep attracting the same kinds of relationships, taking responsibility for everyone else's happiness, or finding yourself stuck in situations you thought you'd moved beyond?What if understanding a pattern isn't the same as actually changing it?In this episode of Journeys With My Body, I'm joined by Mary Ann Robbat, creator of the Origin Pattern Process, for a fascinating conversation about the hidden beliefs, inherited conditioning, and energetic patterns that may be influencing our choices long after we've become aware of them.We explore why self-awareness alone doesn't always create lasting change, how beliefs passed down through generations can shape our relationships and sense of what's possible, and why even highly successful, self-aware women can repeat the same frustrating cycles.We also dive into something so many women struggle with: the belief that being a good person means being responsible for everyone else. Mary Ann shares how learning to say no changed not only her own life but the behavior of the people around her.And perhaps most importantly, we talk about what becomes possible when we stop defining ourselves by who we've always been.In this conversation, we explore:Why recognizing your patterns doesn't necessarily mean you've released themHow childhood conditioning and family beliefs can quietly influence your adult lifeThe connection between thoughts, energy, and the experiences we continue to createWhy people-pleasing and overfunctioning can leave you feeling unfulfilledWhat happens when you start saying no, and others resist your changesWhy it's never too late to create a different chapter of your lifeWhether you're navigating a life transition, questioning old beliefs, or wondering why certain struggles keep resurfacing, this conversation offers a different way of looking at what may be keeping you in familiar territory.You are allowed to become someone who makes different choices, even if the people around you are accustomed to the old ones.🎧 Listen in, and consider this question: What pattern in your life have you gotten so used to that you've started calling it your personality?About our guest: Mary Ann Robbat is the creator of the Origin Pattern Process and has spent more than 25 years helping women explore and shift the patterns that influence their relationships, careers, and personal fulfillment. Her work brings together spiritual, energetic, emotional, and physical approaches to personal transformation.https://maryannrobbat.com/

When did living our lives become something we feel we need to apologize for?Why do we feel guilty for stepping away, taking a break, or not keeping up? Why does returning to something we love sometimes feel harder?In this deeply personal episode of Journeys With My Body, Heidi explores the quiet pressure we put on ourselves to justify our absence, the stories we attach to time away, and how easily a simple pause can become something we feel we've done wrong.She also shares a glimpse into a season filled with change, celebration, and unexpected moments of joy, and what was discovered when she simply allowed herself to live it.Along the way, we explore the difference between what actually happened and what we tell ourselves it means, how guilt can show up in the body, and what becomes possible when we stop asking what we should be doing and begin noticing what we're genuinely ready for. So, if there's something you've stepped away from, something you miss, or a part of yourself you've been wanting to reconnect with, this conversation is for you.If this episode resonated with you and you'd like to support Journeys With My Body, you can always buy me a virtual coffee. Your kindness helps keep these conversations going, and I’m truly grateful for every bit of support.☕ Buy Me a Coffee

In this episode, I look back at my own winding, seemingly random path and what I found hidden beneath it. We get into why the breadcrumb is rarely the thing itself, why the most important thread in your life is usually the one you've stopped being able to see, and the one question that changes everything when you swap it in for "what should I do next?"If you've ever worried you keep starting over, or that you still haven't figured out what you're "supposed" to be doing, this one's for you. You might not be lost. You might just be standing too close to the thing you've been doing all along.Send me a message, leave a comment, or share this episode with someone who might need a reminder that the clues they're looking for may already be right in front of them.And if you'd like to explore more conversations like this one, be sure to subscribe so you don't miss future episodes of Journeys With My Body.

Imagine a museum devoted entirely to your life.Every dream.Every identity.Every version of yourself you've ever been.Some rooms are crowded with visitors.Others haven't been walked through in years.And somewhere deep inside is a door you've been afraid to open.In this episode, we'll walk through the Museum of You and explore a powerful question:What if reinvention isn't about becoming someone new? What if it's about returning to the rooms you've forgotten to visit?contact me for more info: [email protected]

You finally got what you wanted, the move, the calm, the quieter chapter and instead of relief you feel... untethered. Foggy. Like you have no idea where you're going.Everyone's told you that feeling means one thing: I'm lost.What if it means something completely different?In this episode: why feeling directionless right after things get good isn't a sign you're off-course, it's a sign feeling is coming back online. We talk pins and needles, why your nervous system goes shopping for a map it can't read yet, and what to actually do while you're waking up. (Hint: it's less than you think.)You're not lost. You're thawing.

Most people think losing desire means something is wrong with them.But what if your nervous system has been in survival mode for too long?In this episode, we explore why prolonged stress can quietly disconnect us from wanting, from beauty, from creativity, from pleasure, from intimacy, from possibility, and even from imagining a different future. We talk about how the body begins protecting itself from disappointment by shrinking desire down to what feels emotionally manageable… and how that survival pattern can eventually start feeling like personality.You’ll learn:• Why desire often disappears during chronic stress• How survival mode narrows your ability to imagine the future• The hidden nervous system link between burnout and emotional flatness• Why wanting can start to feel unsafe, unrealistic, or “too much.”• The subtle signs your capacity for aliveness is beginning to returnThis episode is an invitation to notice the small flickers before you explain them away. The moment your body leans toward beauty, curiosity, warmth, creativity, or possibility again.

You're busy. You're doing all the things. So why does everything still feel like you're pushing a boulder uphill? In this episode, we're getting into the difference between pushing your way through your to-do list and actually following the signal your body has been sending you all along, but most of us are too busy to notice the signalYou'll walk away with:A somatic way to feel the difference between forced action and inspired actionThe real reason we keep pushing on things that aren't workingOne question to ask yourself when you can't figure out your next move

If you've spent years journaling, vision boarding, and waiting for clarity that never quite sticks, this episode is for you. In this episode, we go beneath the tools that haven't worked and into what's actually happening and why your attention became focused on trusting other people's opinions before your own. This is exactly the work we do inside Journeys With My Body, my women's community where we go slow, go deep, and build the kind of safety that lets you finally start hearing yourself again.Come find us, I'd love to have you in the room.

You made the decision. You started the thing. You showed up. So why doesn't it feel like you yet?In this episode, Heidi gets honest about what actually happens in the body when you decide to become a new version of yourself and why your nervous system is spectacularly unimpressed by your intentions, no matter how good they are.Using her own experience, she unpacks why the feeling of being the new you doesn't arrive on the same schedule as the decision to become her and what your nervous system actually needs before it updates the file.This episode explores understanding why the gap between deciding and becoming is not a character flaw and what to do while you're living in it.You'll come away with a completely different relationship to the habits that still feel like someone else's life, and the quiet question underneath it all: is this actually me now, or am I just performing a version of me I want to be?Spoiler: your nervous system has an answer. It just needs a little more evidence first.If this resonated, come find me inside Journeys With My Body. I'd love to hear where you are in this. And if you're not yet subscribed, do that now so next week's episode lands straight in your feed.

You did the hard thing. You made the move, left the relationship, got the job, survived the transition, and instead of relief, your body served you exhaustion, physical chaos, and a quiet but persistent sense that something was wrong with you.Nothing is wrong with you.In this episode, Heidi breaks down why positive change can send your nervous system into the same survival response as a genuine threat, and why the body so often waits until the hard part is over to send you the bill. If you've ever fallen apart right after things got better, gotten sick the moment you finally exhaled, or wondered why you can't just feel grateful for the good thing you worked so hard for... this one is for you.Topics covered in this episode:Why your nervous system doesn't have a category for "good change"What neuroception is and why it doesn't care about your intentionsStress debt, what it is, how it accumulates, and why it always comes due at the worst possible timeWhy getting sick after a big transition is not bad luckWhat regulation actually looks like when it finally arrivesHow to get curious instead of critical when your body won't cooperateIf this episode resonated and you're sitting there thinking I need more of this, come find me inside Pocket Resets.Pocket Resets for Stress is a community built around quick, accessible nervous system tools you can actually use in real life.  No prior knowledge required. No wellness jargon. Just practical, body-based tools and a community of people who are done asking what's wrong with them and ready to start working with what they've actually got.