Girlfriend Material

On this special live episode Rosie is joined by coach, activist, and Birmingham Pride Director Char Bailey to talk about the queer community, dating while healing, and what it means to truly belong to yourself 🌈 They dive into Char’s experience of dating women in the 90s and 00s as a Black lesbian, navigating racism within queer spaces, internalising harmful beauty standards, and struggling to figure out where she fit in. Char opens up about how those experiences shaped the people she dated, and why her idea of a “type” has completely changed over the years 💌The two also unpack the current state of the queer community, from the rise of the “lesbian renaissance” to the infighting and rigid labels that can leave people feeling isolated rather than supported. Char shares why she believes queer spaces need more grace, acceptance, and room for people to evolve without judgement ✨Of course, Rosie and Char get into dating and flirting, including the awkwardness of queer eye contact, struggling to read signals, and why energetic chemistry between women can feel so intense. Char also tells the story of her first date with her partner Megan, to which somehow hugging a tree together became the greenest flag imaginable 🌳They discuss identity, representation, and visibility online, with Char reflecting on what it means to move through the world as a Black autistic lesbian and why it’s so important for queer people who don’t fit the “palatable” mould to still feel seen and celebrated.And finally, they reflect on what really makes someone Girlfriend Material - choosing yourself first, growing into who you truly are, and finding people who love you through every version of that journey 💞

This week Rosie is joined by Star Holroyd to unpack her journey to queerness, from navigating years of dating men, to finally acting on her attraction to women in her 30s, and trusting in her psychic to find her the love of her life 🌈They chat about Star’s journey from making TikToks during lockdown to becoming known for her millennial humour, and how comedy became her way of making sense of her life. Star opens up about knowing she liked women from a young age, but not fully acting on it until her 30s - proving that there’s no timeline when it comes to figuring yourself out 💌The two get into the chaos of dating men when all you’re actually thinking about are boobs and meal prepping, and how one date with the right person can completely change everything. Star shares her story of meeting her now fiancée, and how a psychic (yes, really) played a part in bringing them back together 🔮They also talk about the differences between coming out younger vs later in life, from navigating dating culture to feeling more grounded in who you are. Star reflects on how maturity gave her the confidence to embrace her identity fully, while Rosie shares her own experience of figuring things out earlier and the overwhelm that can come with it ✨From Pinterest boards that suddenly make sense to planning a queer wedding and sharing that journey online, this episode is a celebration of growth, timing, and trusting that you’ll get there when you’re meant to 💞

This week Rosie is joined by content creator and beauty icon Cambell Kenneford to talk about trans identity, self-expression, and what it really means to live authentically 🌈They get into navigating the world as a trans woman at a time when things feel increasingly conservative, and how Cambell protects her peace without disconnecting from reality. She shares how she’s built her own sense of joy through social media, and why representation matters when you grow up without seeing people like you reflected back 💞Cambell opens up about her journey with transitioning, from knowing who she was at a young age to making the life-changing decision that ultimately saved her life. She reflects on the role her mum played in supporting her, and the importance of choosing and being yourself, even when it’s difficult 💌The two also dive into femininity, unpacking the expectations placed on women and how Cambell redefined what womanhood means to her. From once feeling like she had to perform femininity, to now feeling most like herself in a relationship with her fiancée, they explore how love can shift the way you see yourself ✨

This week Rosie is joined by comedian and founder of “Foc It Up Comedy Club”, Kemah Bob 🎤 to talk about queerness, creativity, and carving out space for yourself both on stage and in life 🌈They chat about how comedy helped Kemah step into her identity with confidence, and why creating spaces that centre women and non-binary people feels so important. Kemah shares her journey with coming out, and navigating her identity on her own terms 💌The two also get into the nuances of queer spaces, from who feels welcome where, to the subtle dynamics of attraction and visibility. They unpack the role of labels, and more specifically discuss how they can offer both safety and limitation.Of course, Rosie and Kemah dive into dating: from fuckboy eras and avoiding apps, to knowing your type and where to find them. They swap thoughts on who pays on dates, where to actually meet queer women, and the differences between queer culture in London and the US  💞 And finally, they celebrate the joy of finding your people, whether that’s through comedy, community, or a queer networking event 😉

This week Rosie is joined by award-winning creator and comedian Helena Moody to talk about coming out later in life, unlearning who you thought you had to be, and what it really takes to choose yourself 🌈They chat about Helena’s journey from being engaged and planning a future that didn’t quite feel right, to doing the internal work through therapy and realising she wasqueer. Helena opens up about the confusion of early crushes, growing up without representation, and how platforms like TikTok quietly helped her piece things together over time 💌Rosie and Helena get into the emotional weight of coming out, including the guilt and fear of hurting others, to the relief that comes with finally accepting yourself. They reflect on how hard it is to trust your instincts, especially when you’ve spent years performing a version of yourself that never felt fully right 😵‍💫They also dive into queer culture and community, from the chaos and excitement of your first queer night out to the lack of spaces specifically for sapphic women. Helena shares what it felt like to start again, navigating dating, attraction, and intimacy from a completely new perspective - and how it can feel like being a teenager all over again 💞

This week Rosie is joined by singer-songwriter and queer icon Girli Music 🎤 to talk about what it means to define your sexuality on your own terms 🌈The two get into the realities of biphobia within the queer community, the idea of a “hierarchy” in sapphic dating, and why your sexuality shouldn’t be defined by who you’re currently dating. They reflect on how language evolves, reclaiming words like “queer”, and learning to feel confident in your identity even when it doesn’t fit neatly into a box 😵‍💫 Girli opens up about coming out at a young age, navigating labels like bisexual, pansexual and queer, and the pressure to “pick a side” in a world that doesn’t always understand fluidity 💌They also dive into the darker realities of being a woman, from everyday safety to the female rage behind Girli’s new music, and why using your platform to speak up matters. Alongside that, they celebrate the joy of queer community and emphasising the simple fact that queer people really are everywhere 💞

This week Rosie is joined by Nicole Coenen, aka the internet’s favourite lesbian lumberjack 🌲 to talk about how a podcast episode three years ago turned into a real-life friendship and multiple trips around the world together 💌They chat about the blurred lines between friendship and romance in sapphic relationships, from falling for your best friend to trying to figure out if you want to date someone or just add them to your friendship group. Nicole opens up about how fear and confusion once made her hesitant to form close friendships with women, while Rosie shares her own experience of navigating those same feelings 🌈The two also get into flirting styles, the unspoken language between women, and why something as simple as eye contact can send you into full gay panic. They reflect on dating men vs women, the difference between loving someone and being in love, and how your idea of relationships evolves over time 💞And of course, they dive into heartbreak, healing, and what it takes to untangle your life and choose yourself - even when it’s the harder option.

It’s double trouble this week as Rosie is joined by comedian, writer and all-round icon Rosie Jones to talk about coming out, challenging stereotypes, and what it really means to live life as a proud “professional gay” 🌈They chat about Rosie Jones’ journey from being in the closet ten years ago to finally feeling free and fully herself, and why she wouldn’t change the timeline that got her there. Rosie opens up about growing up without seeing disabled people in happy relationships, how that affected the way she saw herself, and why representation around disability, romance and sex matters so much 💌The Rosies also get into dating as public figures, the weirdness of being recognised on dating apps, and being a baby-gay in the comedy world. Rosie shares the heartwarming story of meeting her girlfriend and how they fell in love, and gives us insight to what it feels like to finally be in a relationship where she knows exactly what she deserves 💞

This week Rosie is joined by Hannah Lewis (aka Lesbi Mum) to chat about accidentally ending up on the lesbian side of TikTok, becoming the internet’s unofficial queer parent, and answering the questions people are often too scared to ask 📱They talk about Hannah’s journey to coming out: from growing up Catholic and having a boyfriend, to the moment she realised she was gay after kissing a girl at 15. Hannah shares why it took time to feel comfortable using the word lesbian, and how her content now helps people (and parents) feel more prepared for conversations around coming out 🌈They also get into life as a queer parent online, the scrutiny that comes with it, and why strangers on the internet feel so comfortable asking deeply personal questions. Hannah dives into the realities of dating as a content creator, getting ghosted by women, and learning not to accept the bare minimum in relationships 💌

This week Rosie is joined by Farrel Hegarty to chat about building joyful chaos on the internet, the solidarity of the queer comment section, and why making people feel seen actually matters 🌈They get into figuring yourself out a little later than planned, dating men before women, navigating heartbreak without turning your ex into a villain, and what it really feels like to finally feel secure in your queerness.And of course, they’ll touch on the green flags in women so you’ll know the subtle signs a woman’s emotionally available, makes you feel comfortable in your own skin, and won’t ruin your life (probably) 💚