Beyond The Surface Podcast

In this solo episode, Belinda explores the difference between venting to process an experience and repeatedly complaining in a way that keeps us frustrated, stressed and emotionally stuck.We often think we’re simply getting things off our chest, but when we keep revisiting the same problems without gaining new perspective or considering what we can do differently, we can end up reinforcing the very thoughts and feelings we’re trying to move past.We explore:The difference between healthy venting and repetitive complaining, and how to recognise when you’re stuck in a complaint cycleHow what you repeatedly focus on can influence what you notice, think about and experienceWhy revisiting the same frustrations can prolong stress and keep you emotionally worked upHow constant complaining can influence your relationships and become a default way of connecting with othersWhy acknowledging a problem is important, but so is recognising what you can do about itPractical ways to become more aware of your language, change the questions you ask yourself and redirect your attentionBelinda also shares a simple one-day challenge to go without complaining and introduces WAIT (Why Am I Talking?), a self-awareness tool to help you become more conscious of what you’re saying and why.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine, matcha, and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit Belinda’s affiliate link to see the full range: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au?sca_ref=12293034.mtZdtecqmnjTConnect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonau

In this solo episode, Belinda explores why we can spend so much of our lives trying to prove ourselves, keep everyone happy and get everything right, yet still feel like we’re not enough.Inspired by her conversation with Olympic gold medallist Libby Trickett, this episode looks at how our early experiences can shape our beliefs about worth, love and approval, and why patterns that once helped us cope can follow us into adulthood.We explore:Why people-pleasing, perfectionism and achievement can be driven by a fear of not being good enoughHow childhood experiences can shape our need for love, acceptance and approvalWhy saying no, making mistakes and disappointing others can feel so uncomfortableHow achievement can become a way of proving our worth, without ever feeling like enoughThree practical ways to recognise these patterns and start doing things differentlyYou can be caring, ambitious and successful without needing to prove your worth through everything you do.If you’re constantly putting others first, striving to get everything right or chasing the next goal without feeling fulfilled, this episode will help you understand what might be driving those patterns and how to begin changing them.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine, matcha, and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit Belinda’s affiliate link to see the full range: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au?sca_ref=12293034.mtZdtecqmnjTConnect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonau

Bone health is something many of us don’t think about until we’re faced with low bone density, osteoporosis or an unexpected fracture. But what if we could take steps today to protect our strength, mobility and independence for years to come? In this episode, Belinda is joined by Professor Belinda Beck, leading bone health researcher, exercise physiologist and founder of The Bone Clinic, to explore what really makes our bones stronger and why it’s never too early or too late to start looking after them. We unpack the impact of menopause on bone density, the difference between osteopenia, osteoporosis and osteoarthritis, and why traditional exercise like walking, swimming, Pilates and yoga are not be enough to build stronger bones. Belinda also shares the research behind her evidence-based Onero™ exercise program and how supervised resistance training and impact exercise can help improve bone strength, even for those already living with osteoporosis. We talk about: • Why bone health matters at every stage of life• How menopause and declining oestrogen affect bone density• The difference between osteoporosis, osteopenia and osteoarthritis• Common risk factors for declining bone health• When to consider a DEXA bone density scan• The importance of calcium, vitamin D and nutrition• Why lifting weights and impact exercise are essential for stronger bones• How targeted exercise can help people living with osteoporosis• The connection between bone strength, healthy ageing and independence If you want to protect your bones, stay strong as you age and understand what you can do to improve your bone health, this conversation is a great place to start. Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine, matcha, and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit Belinda’s affiliate link to see the full range: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au?sca_ref=12293034.mtZdtecqmnjT Connect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonau Connect with Belinda Beck:Website: https://theboneclinic.com.au/Onero™ exercise program: https://theboneclinic.com.au/onero/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theboneclinic

Belinda sits down with Olympic gold medallist, world record holder and mum of five Libby Trickett for an honest conversation about identity, motherhood, mental health, anxiety, resilience and the heart attack she had just two months after giving birth to her fifth child, after her symptoms were initially dismissed as anxiety.Libby opens up about growing up around mental illness and addiction, being estranged from her father, the impact her upbringing had on her relationships and self-worth, and the pressure she put on herself to keep achieving.We talk about:Learning to actually own your achievements instead of immediately moving on to the next goalGrowing up with mental illness, addiction and an absent fatherHow childhood experiences can shape adult relationships and the need for validationMotherhood, postnatal depression and raising five childrenThe heart attack Libby experienced two months after giving birth to her fifth childWhy her symptoms were initially dismissed as anxietySCAD and the lack of awareness around women’s heart healthWhy seeing her daughter come dead last was one of her favourite parenting momentsRaising kids to love movement without making it about performanceLosing your identity after retiring from elite sportWhy Libby still considers herself a work in progressAnd despite everything Libby has already achieved, when asked about her greatest achievement, her answer is not what you might expect. She believes the best may still be ahead of her.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine, matcha, and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit Belinda’s affiliate link to see the full range: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au?sca_ref=12293034.mtZdtecqmnjTConnect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonauConnect with Libby:Website: https://www.libbytrickett.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/libby_trickett/

Perimenopause and menopause can affect far more than your cycle, from sleep, mood and anxiety to libido, weight, bone health and overall wellbeing.In this episode, Belinda sits down with Women’s Health GP Dr Christine Greenwood for a conversation about perimenopause, menopause and post-menopausal care. They talk about HRT, hormones, nutrition, weight loss, exercise, supplements and the health checks women should be thinking about in midlife. Christine specialises in helping women navigate this stage of life with a practical, evidence-based approach.We talk about:The early signs of perimenopause and why they can be easy to missAnxiety, irritability, sleep changes, low libido and changes to your cycleWhy some women are prescribed antidepressants before hormones are consideredThe history of fear around HRT and how treatment has changedOestrogen, progesterone and testosterone and what each hormone doesWhat the current evidence tells us about HRT and bone, brain and cardiovascular healthVaginal oestrogen and its role in dryness, painful sex and recurrent UTIsWhy healthy eating and eating for fat loss are not always the same thingThe role of strength training, cardio and movement in midlifeImportant health checks for women, including blood tests, mammograms, cervical screening and bone densitySupplements that may support women through this stageWhy getting help early can make such a differenceMore than anything, this conversation is a reminder that perimenopause and menopause don’t have to be something women simply endure. Understanding what’s happening and having the right support can make a significant difference to your health, strength and quality of life.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine, matcha, and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit Belinda’s affiliate link to see the full range: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au?sca_ref=12293034.mtZdtecqmnjTConnect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonauConnect with Dr Christine Greenwood:Website: https://edenwomenshealth.com.au/team/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drchristinegreenwood/

What happens when the symptoms you’ve spent years dismissing as “normal” turn out to be something far more serious?In this episode, Belinda sits down with fitness and nutrition coach, mum of four, author and podcaster Danni Duncan to talk about her journey from body image struggles and disordered eating to rebuilding her relationship with health, and ultimately being diagnosed with bowel cancer at just 39.Danni opens up about the extreme fatigue, low iron, bloating and ongoing gut issues that eventually led to her diagnosis, as well as the emotional reality of undergoing surgery and chemotherapy while raising four young children.We talk about:Growing up as a ballet dancer and believing skinny meant healthyMoving from restriction and body obsession to strength and balanceThe symptoms Danni experienced before her bowel cancer diagnosisLearning to listen to your body and advocate for your own healthNavigating cancer treatment while being a mum of fourWhy sustainable health isn’t about quick fixes or perfectionBuilding healthy habits that actually fit your lifestyleLetting go of comparison and finding what works for youThis conversation is a powerful reminder to pay attention when something doesn’t feel right, ask questions and focus on building a version of health that you can actually sustain.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine, matcha, and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit Belinda’s affiliate link to see the full range: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au?sca_ref=12293034.mtZdtecqmnjTConnect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonauConnect with Danni:Website: https://danniduncan.com.au/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danni.duncan_

In this episode, Belinda sits down with men’s performance coach and endurance athlete Lachlan Stuart to unpack the lessons behind some extraordinary physical challenges, and the mental battles that came with them. From losing his identity after professional rugby to rebuilding his life, becoming a father and pushing himself to his limits, Lachlan shares what resilience looks like when motivation disappears.We talk about:Losing your identity and rebuilding after hitting rock bottomRunning 58 marathons in 58 days and rowing 30 marathons in 30 daysChanging the meaning you give to pain and adversityWhy standards are more powerful than motivationMen’s mental health, relationships and taking responsibility for your lifeWhat becoming a father has changed about Lachlan’s purposeHis next challenge: running across AustraliaWhy your achievements don’t define you, how you show up doesThis is a conversation about resilience, identity, purpose and discovering just how much more you’re capable of.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au/ and add BTS10 for 10% off your first order.Connect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonauConnect with Lachlan:Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/

In this solo episode, Belinda explores how the way we start and end our day influences what we think about, how we feel, what we focus on, and how what we repeatedly give our attention to doesn’t just fill our day, it shapes our life.It’s not about creating the perfect morning or evening routine. It’s about becoming more intentional about what we allow into our minds, particularly in those first and final moments of the day.From reaching for your phone first thing in the morning to taking the stimulation of the day into bed at night, Belinda looks at the impact of constant consumption, distraction and the stories we repeatedly tell ourselves.We explore:Why your day starts with what you give your attention to, not when you get out of bedHow reaching for your phone first thing can shape what your mind focuses onWhy natural morning light is important for your body clock, sleep, and mental healthHow what you repeatedly consume can become the environment you create for your mindWhy boredom, silence and creating mental space can be valuableHow brain rot and constant stimulation can contribute to mental fatigue and difficulty concentratingWhy the way you end your day can affect how you wind down for sleepHow writing things down can help you put tomorrow’s problems down for the nightThe importance of paying attention to the people, content, conversations and environments influencing youWhy the way you speak to yourself mattersA simple five-minute morning and evening ritualYour attention is one of the most valuable things you have. If you don’t consciously choose where it goes, there’s no shortage of people, platforms and outside noise that will happily choose it for you.Sometimes changing your life isn’t about adding more. It’s about becoming more selective about what you allow in.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au/ and add BTS10 for 10% off your first order.Connect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonau

There’s no new episode this week, so instead, I’m taking you back to Episode 14, the most-listened-to episode of Beyond The Surface. It’s a short one at just 14 minutes, and if you enjoy it and want more, there’s a Part 2 in Episode 42: Estrangement Isn’t Betrayal Part 2: Healing, Boundaries & Brave Decisions.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au/ and add BTS10 for 10% off your first order.Connect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonau

In this episode, Belinda sits down with coach Nick McCallum, owner of Outlier Performance, to unpack a different way of looking at pain, training and movement, and why understanding joint position, posture and the way we train can make such a difference to how our bodies move, function and feel.Nick shares his perspective on back pain, pelvic control, stretching, glute and posterior-chain strength, the role of the nervous system, and why a diagnosis doesn’t necessarily define what your body is capable of.We cover:Why pain isn’t always coming from where you feel itThe connection between posture, joint position and painCommon training mistakes that may reinforce dysfunctionWhy back pain can be linked to pelvic position and muscle imbalanceThe importance of glutes, hamstrings and abdominal strengthStretching, mobility and reducing muscular tensionWhy you shouldn’t become defined by an MRI or diagnosisWhy strength training mattersRebuilding movement and coordination after experiencing painNick’s perspective on peptides and why they shouldn’t replace addressing the underlying biomechanicsA valuable conversation that will have you thinking differently about pain, movement, strength and how you train.Podcast Sponsor:Evolution Botanicals specialises in functional mushrooms, tonic herbs, protein, creatine and superfoods to support energy, immunity, focus, strength, gut health and wellness. Visit: https://evolutionbotanicals.com.au/ and add BTS10 for 10% off your first order.Connect with Belinda:Website: www.belindaanderson.com.au(sign up to her Newsletter to receive updates on retreats, podcast episodes, and insights to help you heal, grow & thrive).Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belinda.andersonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/belindaandersonauConnect with Nick:Website: https://outlierperformance.com.au/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachnickmccallum/