bh201: neurodiversity with Rich & Jo

Did you know that data is sexy? Join our episode today and find out about a recent survey we put out about swinging and people's experiences. We make some surprising discoveries about when people started, who brought it up and what people would throw in the swinging lifestyle bin. From age ranges to play-style preferences, we excel at exploring a whole range of data (ha! spreadsheet puns - I wonder what the formula for those is?). Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Come along to the Manchester Mixer - details here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

This episode features Rich and Jo, who playfully describe each other before discussing their entry into the swinging lifestyle via online platforms and initial club experiences. A key theme is communication, which they highlight as crucial for navigating their relationship and has positively impacted their "vanilla" life. They also delve into their adult ADHD diagnoses, finding relief in understanding their behaviours, and discuss the potential link between neurodiversity and the lifestyle, including the concept of "risky sexual behaviour". Navigating jealousy and boundaries is explored through personal anecdotes, emphasising that jealousy is normal but manageable within agreed limits. Offering advice to newcomers, they stress having an open mind and recognising the ordinary nature of people in the lifestyle. They playfully critique rigid definitions of labels and the stigma associated with their lifestyle. And their ideal date reflects their relaxed and engaging dynamic. Thanks for listening and for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out more about Rich and Jo here: https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/tea-and-biscuits Come along to the Manchester Mixer - details here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/  

Thanks for joining our 200th episode! Some very special guests host this one and put us (Mr and Mrs H) under the spotlight. The conversation explores the podcast's origins, our favourite episodes, and memorable guests, and touches on some of the challenges too. We explore events we've have hosted and dream events we'd host if given the chance! Of course, we trade some playful jabs about our past misadventures. We offer some podcasting advice and future aspirations for the show.  Thanks for hopping into our bed - here's to another 200! Handy links UK Swingers, calling all UK Swingers! Join us for an exclusive and unforgettable evening hosted by Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and bed hoppers Podcast. Set in an exclusive VIP suite in Manchester, this social soirée promises a tantalising blend of games, mingling, cocktails, and dazzling performances. April 19-20, 2025 | Manchester, UK | Hosted by Libertine Events, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, and bed hoppers Podcast Get your tickets here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

In this episode we talk about how we've had a few dates recently and offer some top tips on the topic. We discuss our experiences with 'social dates' - exploring potential romantic connections with other couples or singles within the swinging lifestyle. We share advice on initiating contact, choosing appropriate venues, communicating effectively, and navigating the complexities of physical intimacy on a first date. Our conversation also touches on pre-date preparations, communication methods, and dealing with post-date reflections. Finally, we offer tips for listeners on how to have successful social dates, emphasising safety, respect, and open communication. We hope you find it useful - don't forget to send us your thoughts and top tips to [email protected]. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Come to the Wanderhoppers Manchester Mixer on 19 April 2025 - get your tickets here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/libertineeventsllc/1533529

In this episode we talk to the delightful Ticket2Ride and quiz them about how they got started, what it's like identifying as a straight girl in a bi-world and how not everyone has a fantasy. We take time out to explore their journey, the ups and downs and what they'd like to throw in the lifestyle bin. We also announce a brand new event - a social in Manchester! Thanks for hopping into our bed Handy links Check out our guests on SwingHub at 'Ticket2Ride' and on Fab at https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/ticket2ride Come to the Wanderhoppers Manchester Mixer on 19 April 2025 - get your tickets here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/libertineeventsllc/1533529  

In this episode we talk to the New Forest Couple - that's Andrew and Clare. We explore their journey, approach and some of the challenges they've faced along the way. Clare opens up about how and why events and meets can be a struggle and offers some great advice for anyone with a disability looking to join the lifestyle. This is an open and honest conversation that you will not want to miss. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about The New Forest Couple by heading to Swinghub and searching 'Thenewforestcouple'. Join our Patreon and listen to episodes before anyone else by heading here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  Don't forget to leave us a review! iTunes would be a great place to do just that - here's a link to our show: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/bed-hoppers-swinging-in-the-uk/id1361366390  

In this episode we interview sexy friends Pennylane and Starlord. Be warned though - it's Mr H's birthday and it's possible that we've had some cocktails. We explore some of the challenges they've faced, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and learn how they got started in the swinging lifestyle. Join us for a really fun conversation and exploration into how this couple have navigated their experiences. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out more about Starlord and Pennylane by heading to fab at: https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/foxmia98 or heading to Swinghub and looking up pennylaneandstarlord Check out and get tickets to our Candyland event here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/  

In this episode we talk to Shiv and Tom - a couple who are relatively new in their journey. They talk about their experiences, how they got started, advice for folks just starting out and what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin. It's a fun little conversation - with something for everyone. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find Shiv and Tom on Swinghub by searching 'Shiv&Tom' Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast! In this episode we kick off a brand new series of interviews. We'll be chatting to guests about their journey, their thoughts on ethical non monogamy and the highs, lows and challenges that they've faced. This week we are joined by Ruby and Cole who share how they got started, talk about their dynamic and their tips on what to do if you get locked out of your room. Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links Find Ruby and Cole on Swinghub by searching 'RubyandCole' Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/  

In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for you!  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/