284:// The Illusion of Progress: Why Thinking, Hoping, and Talking Aren’t Enough

Episode description:  In this episode, we speak with Dr. Lucinda Hayburn about the vagina, more specifically, the vaginal muscles and pelvic floor therapy. We talk about  what pelvic floor therapy is, who would benefit from treatment, what a session looks like, how to find a PT who specializing in pelvic floor therapy, and the difference between pelvic floor therapy and Kegels. Show notes For more information in Dr. Lucinda Hayburn, head to her website:  https://lucindahayburnpt.com/ Women's health locator: https://ptl.womenshealthapta.org/

As the year draws to a close, it’s natural to reflect on the goals you set months ago. If you’re feeling disappointed because you haven’t achieved your health goals yet, you’re not alone. But here’s the good news: the year isn’t over, and your goals are still within reach. Even if you don’t completely hit the target, taking meaningful steps forward can set you up for success in the new year. Let’s explore how to overcome disappointment and reignite your motivation to finish the year strong with your health goals. Come find us on the socials! Instagram: www. instagram.com/wholehealthempower FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/619968441854520/ 3 Way to eat better workbook: https://triciard.com/workbook/ GRAB YOUR FREEBIE HERE! 5 things you should be doing today if you are over 40! https://upbeat-hustler-2294.ck.page/06d0e2ccf9 Whole Health Empowerment FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wholehealthempower Website: https://triciard.com/

For women over 40, navigating the relationship between self-love and health goals can feel like a tightrope walk. On one hand, you’re encouraged to embrace and love yourself unconditionally, celebrating the wisdom and strength that comes with age. On the other hand, there’s a desire—or sometimes a societal pressure—to work on your health, fitness, or weight. These goals can feel contradictory, but they don’t have to be. Loving yourself and striving for better health can coexist beautifully. In fact, self-love can be the foundation for making healthier choices, and the pursuit of health can be an act of love for your body. Here’s how to find that balance.   Come find us on the socials! Instagram: www. instagram.com/wholehealthempower FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/619968441854520/ 3 Way to eat better workbook: https://triciard.com/workbook/ GRAB YOUR FREEBIE HERE! 5 things you should be doing today if you are over 40! https://upbeat-hustler-2294.ck.page/06d0e2ccf9 Whole Health Empowerment FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wholehealthempower Website: https://triciard.com/

Whether you are starting a new goal or redefining a routine you are already working on - it can feel overwhelming and hard to squeeze in and become good at it due to the already high demands of work and life. However, we do know that there are some things that can create habits that stick—and ensure they’re truly serving your goals. Drawing inspiration from James Clear’s Atomic Habits, let’s explore actionable steps to build or improve your routine, plus questions to evaluate its effectiveness over time. Come find us on the socials! Instagram: www. instagram.com/wholehealthempower FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/619968441854520/ 3 Way to eat better workbook: https://triciard.com/workbook/ GRAB YOUR FREEBIE HERE! 5 things you should be doing today if you are over 40! https://upbeat-hustler-2294.ck.page/06d0e2ccf9 Whole Health Empowerment FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wholehealthempower Website: https://triciard.com/

If you've been looking for a more mindful, sustainable way to approach weight loss, the hunger-fullness scale might be the tool you need. Rather than rigid rules or calorie-counting, this scale helps you tune into your body’s natural hunger cues and stop eating when you’re satisfied. By learning to listen to your body and using this scale to guide your meals, you can build healthier habits, reduce overeating, and work toward your weight loss goals naturally. wellness-hungersatietyscale.pdf Come find us on the socials! Instagram: www. instagram.com/wholehealthempower FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/619968441854520/ 3 Way to eat better workbook: https://triciard.com/workbook/ GRAB YOUR FREEBIE HERE! 5 things you should be doing today if you are over 40! https://upbeat-hustler-2294.ck.page/06d0e2ccf9 Whole Health Empowerment FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wholehealthempower Website: https://triciard.com/

  Losing weight without counting every calorie? Yes, it’s possible—and it might even be more sustainable, especially for women over 40. By focusing on balanced, nutrient-dense meals, tuning in to your body's signals, and making a few mindful adjustments, you can reach your health goals without calorie obsession. Here’s a guide to get you started on a balanced, calorie-free weight management approach.   Instagram: www. instagram.com/wholehealthempower FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/619968441854520/ 3 Way to eat better workbook: https://triciard.com/workbook/ GRAB YOUR FREEBIE HERE! 5 things you should be doing today if you are over 40! https://upbeat-hustler-2294.ck.page/06d0e2ccf9 Whole Health Empowerment FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wholehealthempower Website: https://triciard.com/  

In our journey to better health, there are often times when we feel stuck, defeated, and unable to make progress, no matter how hard we try. If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I’ve tried everything, and nothing works,” or “It’s just too late for me to change,” you might be experiencing what psychologists call learned helplessness. This mindset can hold you back from reaching your health goals, but the good news is that it’s possible to overcome it. Let’s explore what learned helplessness is, how it shows up in our health habits, and practical steps to break free from it. Instagram: www. instagram.com/wholehealthempower FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/619968441854520/ 3 Way to eat better workbook: https://triciard.com/workbook/ GRAB YOUR FREEBIE HERE! 5 things you should be doing today if you are over 40! https://upbeat-hustler-2294.ck.page/06d0e2ccf9 Whole Health Empowerment FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wholehealthempower Website: https://triciard.com/

Recently I was scrolling through social media, and I heard this clip about wanting something isn’t the same as doing it, thinking about isn’t the same as doing it, hoping for it doesn’t mean doing it. It's a common trap: we spend a lot of time thinking about our health goals, discussing them with friends, or even planning how we'll get there. But as comforting as these actions might be, they aren’t the same as actually doing what’s necessary to make those changes happen. The reality is, no amount of hoping or talking can replace the power of consistent, purposeful action. Let’s dig deeper into why thinking, hoping, and talking often give us a false sense of progress—and what we can do to break free from this cycle.   Instagram: www. instagram.com/wholehealthempower FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/619968441854520/ 3 Way to eat better workbook: https://triciard.com/workbook/ GRAB YOUR FREEBIE HERE! 5 things you should be doing today if you are over 40! https://upbeat-hustler-2294.ck.page/06d0e2ccf9 Whole Health Empowerment FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wholehealthempower Website: https://triciard.com/  

  Let’s be real—most of us have turned to a snack (or two… or three) when we’re feeling stressed, tired, or just overwhelmed. For women in perimenopause and menopause, emotional eating can be an even bigger challenge. Hormonal changes, fluctuating moods, and stress can all trigger cravings that seem impossible to ignore. The good news? You can learn to manage emotional eating and cravings with a few practical strategies. Let’s dive into how you can do this in a way that’s gentle, realistic, and totally doable.