Thirsty and Thirty

"Our romantic relationships affect who we are and the places that we go or where we don't go." -Krystl Fabella, founder of Filipina on The Rise, a podcast that spotlights successful Filipinas in different industries. Krystl Fabella is a woman on a mission to create a lasting impact. Join us as she candidly shares her personal journey, starting with her transformative experience of breaking free from a toxic relationship. Throughout our conversation, Krystl unveils the all-too-familiar cycle many women encounter. Moments 01:14 Dating as a recruitment process 07:36 The story of Filipina on The Rise 19:59 Best tip on personal relationships 21:26 Family dynamics 27:53 What was she like in her younger years 32:42 The cycle of toxic relationships Krystl Fabella's platform: https://www.instagram.com/filipinaontherise Newsletter: ⁠https://thirstythirty.substack.com/⁠ Website: ⁠http://thirstyandthirty.club/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty⁠ Become a member: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/thirstyandthirty

After Honey broke up with her long-term boyfriend of eight years, she was ready to give up on love. Here come's Toto, her now husband. This episode is all about their love story and how he made her believe in love again. In this episode, we talk about:  Finding love again Being set-up  Timing and laying out your cards Navigating long distance relationships  Marriage  What's the best and worst love advice you've gotten?  Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

On women taming men: “We're so astonished by a lion. And the author (John Eldredge, Wild At Heart) was connecting men to lions…the wild lion. A girl would be attracted to a lion. But once she gets the lion, she would tame it and the lion would lose its ferocity. It's what attracted her to him.” JPaul Hernandez is a podcaster and author focused on the self-development of men. In this episode, we talk to him about: Why we love ‘bad boy projects’ His love story Dealing with abuse, vices, and cheating Collectivism in Filipino families Birth order theory and its effect on relationships Micro-habits for healthier relationships. Follow him: https://www.instagram.com/jpaulhernandez/ https://linktr.ee/jpaulhernandez Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

"Dating is like applying for a job. And yourself is your cv. Do you want to submit a boring resume?" - Angely Dub  Angely is a self-made entrepreneur. And she is on an adventure to enjoy her single life! She is also a fellow podcaster with her show, Life in Progress.  This episode is our year-ender special, where we give no BS advice to face your dating life. Our favorite tips: invest in yourself and have a good checklist.  We covered topics like:  How to deal with nosy people  Positive dating mindsets A good checklist for a partner  Share this episode with other single friends who want to enjoy dating this 2023. https://www.angelydub.com https://travelwithaccess.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph Article: If You Can’t Find a Spouse Who Supports Your Career, Stay Single  https://hbr.org/2017/10/if-you-cant-find-a-spouse-who-supports-your-career-stay-single

In this epiosode, we dive into manifesting love by loving ourselves. Self-love, soulmates, law of attraction, manifestation are all words we’ve heard before. But the big question is, how do we make these words work for us? Our guest tonight is Sanaiyah Gurnamal, founder and host of the podcast Project Loving Myself. Spotify Philippines #1 Trending and top 50 podcasts. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

"When we say something, I feel like we actually mean it, unless it's like a fight, then we can be a bit passive aggressive."   -Luis Degu on how men communicate  Join us as we recap season one, the season that we believe made us actually smarter in love.  In this episode, we cover:  • A caller's problem on how to communicate with her partner of almost 10 years  • Sending mixed signals  • Decoding what men and women say  • Practical tips on communication  • Communicating non-negotiables  • Ultimatums  Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. Instagram: https://instagram.com/thirstyandthirty.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thirstyandthirty YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thirstyandthirty Website: http://thirstyandthirty.club/ Newsletter: https://thirstythirty.substack.com/ Donate to smarter love: https://thirstyandthirty.helixpay.ph

Welcome to the first every episode of Thirsty and Thirty. Join us as we recap season one, the season that we believe made us actually smarter in love.  In this episode, we cover: How to date virtually How to turn an online relationship to a real world relationship We also answer some fun questions from our live viewers! Share this episode with a friend or partner who needs to hear this conversation. Instagram  [email protected] Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

Lissy Puno, a relationship expert, told us, "86% of couples that are subjected to infidelity can recover." There is hope. We know infidelity is such a timely and evergreen topic. So, we interview her about her best-selling book, Affairs Don't Just Happen.  In this episode, we cover:  The reasons men and women cheat  How to prevent infidelity How to stay attracted to one person for a long time  This is a deep dive on all things infidelity! Share this episode with a friend or partner who needs to hear this conversation.  Instagram  [email protected] Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

Let's talk about easing your love and dating anxieties. In part one of this conversation, we talk about when to say, "I love you" for the first time and advice you would give your perpetually heartbroken bestie. You need to this very special episode with Inka! Stay Thirsty Instagram  [email protected] Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.

"If you are jealous, maybe, you do need to express some sort of boundaries to them." -Rex De Guzman Meet Rex De Guzman, a Filipino chef based in the UK. He is an entrepreneur of Turo Turo, a food business that promotes Filipino cuisine. As we dig deeper after part 1, we talk about: Jealousy  Cheating  How some men compartmentalize sex  Right time, right place, right person Readiness for a relationship  Tell us, what is the most common dating problem you are dealing with?  Guest Quotes: "If you're too rigid, it's not considerate of the other person's feelings."  "Some guys don't wanna get rejected. So they'll say things to get what they want, whether it is just to get you in bed or to, you know, build a relationship." Thirsty and Thirty Resources Our episode with Mo Twister  Stay Thirsty Instagram  [email protected] Website  Make a donation so we can continue our smarter love research.