Stop Postponing Your Life with Jodi Wellman (ep. 246)

In this episode: arriving in the present, kind curiosity, breath awareness, beginning again, intentional action with Adam CoelhoResources & Books MentionedFree FI Life Jumpstart journaling exerciseMindful FIRE Legends communityEpisode SummaryRest in the simplicity of this moment with a short guided meditation from Adam Coelho. You’ll notice how you’re arriving, settle attention on the breath, and practice returning without judgment whenever the mind wanders. With nowhere to go and nothing to accomplish, each inhale and exhale becomes an invitation to experience your life as it is happening now. The practice closes by helping you choose how you want to show up for yourself and others.

In this episode: financial independence as runway, career reinvention, self-imposed pressure, writing a first book, coaching-driven leadership with Jeff JaworskiEpisode SummaryThree years after leaving Google, Jeff Jaworski returns to share how FIRE gave him room to build The Shift, write The Leader Shift, and shape work around family and purpose. Jeff and Adam explore why the habits that create success can hold us back in a new chapter—and how to build without recreating the pressure of the rat race.Guest BioJeff Jaworski is the founder of The Shift Coaching & Consulting, a former Google executive, and the author of The Leader Shift. He coaches leaders and organizations to replace heroic leadership with teams that think and scale.Resources & Books MentionedAdam's free FI Life Jumpstart exerciseThe Leader Shift by Jeff JaworskiMindful FIRE episode 151Guest Contact InformationThe ShiftJeff on LinkedInKey TakeawaysFIRE can create options and runway for meaningful reinvention - not just retirement.Distinguish pressure that is real from pressure you manufacture yourself.A new chapter requires new behaviors; what got you here may hold you back there.Scalable leaders ask before telling, explore possibility, and lead performance - not metrics.

In this episode: visualizing your work-optional ideal week, mindfulness, financial independence, life design, mini experimentsEpisode SummaryIn this guided meditation, Adam invites you to settle into the breath and visualize your ideal work-optional week. You’ll explore where you are, who you’re with, what you’re doing, and how that life feels in your body. The practice closes by turning your vision into one small experiment you can try today.Resources & Books MentionedMindful FIRE Legends communityFree FI Life Jumpstart ExerciseKey TakeawaysMeet yourself as you are with the kind, curious awareness of mindfulness.Picture an ordinary week in your financially independent, work-optional life—including an “ideal Tuesday.”Notice the feeling of that week and where you experience it in your body now.Choose one mini experiment—one small step toward your ideal week—to take today.

In this episode: mortality as motivation, memento mori, pre-grets, escaping autopilot, one-more-year syndrome, living wider and deeper with Jodi WellmanEpisode SummaryJodi Wellman explains how remembering that life is finite can help us stop postponing it. She and Adam explore counting your remaining Mondays, turning “pre-grets” into action, balancing future security with aliveness now, and using small experiments to add vitality, meaning, and connection.Guest BioJodi Wellman is an author, speaker, positive-psychology practitioner, and founder of Four Thousand Mondays. After 17 years in corporate leadership and 12 years in executive coaching, she made memento mori—remembering we must die—her life's work.Resources & Books MentionedYou Only Die Once — Jodi WellmanDie With Zero — Bill PerkinsMonday Mornings Left CalculatorAstonishingly Alive AssessmentMindful FIRE Episode 232 with Pete AdeneyShay's WarriorsGuest Contact InformationWebsite · InstagramKey TakeawaysCount your remaining Mondays to make time feel scarce and valuable.List “pre-grets,” then give each meaningful goal a date and first action.Keep useful routines, but add novelty before habit domination turns life into autopilot.Assess whether your life needs more width—fun and vitality—or depth—meaning, purpose, and connection.

In this episode: The Gap and The Gain framework for appreciating your progress on the path to financial independenceEpisode SummaryAdam Coelho leads a 22-minute meditation inspired by The Gap and The Gain. Rather than measuring against a moving ideal, listeners compare where they are now with where they were four or five years ago. The practice replaces impatience about reaching FI with appreciation for current progress and the life unfolding today.Resources & Books MentionedThe Gap and The Gain by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin HardyMindful FIRE Legends communityDownload my FI Life JumpstartKey TakeawaysMeasuring against an ever-moving ideal creates “the gap”; measuring backward reveals “the gain.”Notice how “not there yet” thoughts feel in the body before trying to change them.Recall professional, personal, and financial progress from the past four or five years.When caught in the gap, ask “Is this useful?” and shift toward gratitude, learning, or a concrete gain.

In this episode: geoarbitrage, location independence, financial freedom, living abroad, visas, scouting trips with Richelle GamlamThe next Ask What's Possible Workshop is September 18th - Learn more & Sign upEpisode SummaryRichelle Gamlam, founder of Move Abroad Coach, joins Adam to explore how moving abroad can help people design a more aligned, affordable, and expansive life. They discuss geoarbitrage, “first not forever,” the income/visa/tax triangle, fears around moving with kids, and how scouting trips can turn a dream into a concrete plan.Guest BioRichelle Gamlam is the founder of Move Abroad Coach and host of The Move Abroad Coach Podcast. After 13 years abroad across six countries, she helps people create location-independent lives overseas through mindset, strategy, visas, income planning, and practical relocation support.Resources MentionedAdam’s FI Life Jumpstart exerciseMove Abroad Masterplan - Only $37Move Abroad Escape Plan BootcampBoundless LifeRichelle’s Contact InformationWebsite: moveabroadcoach.comPodcast: The Move Abroad Coach PodcastInstagram: @moveabroadcoachKey TakeawaysGeoarbitrage can accelerate FI by lowering living costs while preserving income.Start with the life you want, then align income, visa, and taxes.“First not forever” reduces all-or-nothing pressure around moving abroad.A scouting trip should test daily life, not just tourist highlights.

In this episode: visualizing your life of financial freedom, releasing unhelpful stories, cultivating mindfulness, envisioning what you wantEpisode SummaryThis guided meditation explores how the stories we tell ourselves shape the reality we experience. Adam Coelho invites you to settle the mind, bring your vision for financial freedom into awareness, and notice not only the life you’re imagining after FI, but also the story you’re carrying about whether that vision is possible. With kind curiosity, the practice helps you identify doubts, resistance, or limiting narratives — and gently choose the stories that move you toward the life you want.Resources & Books MentionedMindful FIRE Legends communityFI Life Jumpstart envisioning exercise

In this episode: envisioning, thinking BIG about life, redefining hard work, Mindful FIRE, rediscovering true priorities, and choosing Slow FI with Nic FerryJoin us for a live envisioning workshop Friday Aug 14th to think BIG about what you want for your post-FI life so you can start living it now.  Learn more & sign up. Episode SummaryNic Ferry shares how coaching, mindfulness, and envisioning helped him move from workaholic striving toward a more intentional life. He describes finding the “impossible” house, getting a military move paid for, choosing family over chief resident status, and creating opportunities in obstetric anesthesia and international medicine.Guest BioNic Ferry is a physician, anesthesiology resident, father of three, and Adam’s first coaching client. His path blends financial independence, family-centered decision-making, and a growing commitment to low-resource medicine abroad.Resources & Books MentionedFI Life JumpstartAsk What’s Possible WorkshopThe Alchemist by Paulo CoelhoThe Gap and The Gain by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin HardyThe Simple Path to Wealth by JL CollinsThe White Coat Investor by Dr. James M. Dahle

In this episode: financial independence, life design, envisioning, mini experiments, asking what you actually want with Adam CoelhoEpisode SummaryAdam explores the deeper question that comes after building financial freedom: what do you want that freedom to make possible? Through three anonymized stories, he shows how FI can create options, but clarity comes from envisioning, experimenting, and choosing a new story before life defaults into “one more year syndrome”Resources & Books MentionedFree FI Life Jumpstart ExerciseAsk What’s Possible Workshop“The Predicting Brain” by Regina Pally

In this episode: the hidden grief of job loss, rebuilding your identity, five-question career clarity, relationship-first job searching, financial resilience with Michelle SchaferEpisode SummaryLosing your job may be a business decision, but it creates a deeply human loss. Career transition coach Michelle Schafer reveals the shock, shame, betrayal, and identity struggles people rarely discuss—and explains how to move from emotional recovery to career clarity, strategic networking, and new possibilities.Guest BioMichelle Schafer is an Ottawa-based career transition coach, author, and certified grief companion. After experiencing two restructurings, she built a coaching practice that helps people recover from job loss, identify energizing work, and navigate their next move with purpose.Resources & Books MentionedCultivating Career Growth: Navigating Transitions with Purpose by Michelle SchaferMichelle’s Career Focus FrameworkCalm meditation appAsk What’s Possible exerciseGuest Contact InformationWebsiteLinkedInKey TakeawaysJob loss is disenfranchised grief; acknowledge the emotions and find support before rushing into tactics.Updating your résumé is premature until you define a target using Michelle’s five career-reflection questions.Relationships, recruiters, and focused outreach are more effective than sending hundreds of applications.Taking a bridge job is not failure; set a timeline and keep pursuing work aligned with your priorities.